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| check ya watch - Submitted: Jun 23, 2010 02:21 AM
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i checked my rude watch and ive been here since march 07 ive seen alot of great stuff and ive seen alot of crap, my point is im no longer sure if the site has evolved past me or i have outgrown the site i was never in this for the money and this truly has become a cut throat business and no longer the community i joined back in 07.
the drama has never c eased to amaze me along with some of the stupidity that ive witnessed and been apart of.n i know ive been down this road before and rudybear was right when he stated that history is doomed to repeat itself.
now heres my dilima, do i take the balls to make sure that this does not happen or do i tough it out and hope things get better. i check my watch and look back at all that ive done and all thats happened to me in the real world and here on planet rude.
so heres what i will do, i plan to take a small hiatus and evaluate what is going on and make my decision based on those findings. will i stay and tough it out or will i choose to delete my account and move on.
if i choose the latter, it is easy to access my rudemail and you may feel free to contact me there with any form of contact info if you would wish to keep in touch.
i will come to this decision sometime next month so until then bye for now.
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| check ya watch - Submitted: Jun 23, 2010 05:07 AM
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Stop sulking JT because Toni tore you a new arse hole............. 
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| check ya watch - Submitted: Jun 23, 2010 05:52 AM
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Clit it goes much father than just this "New Development" We have been trying since October to find a way to be a part of Rude. We put on the Masquerade Ball that did good. We were putting on shows for the longest time never once did we try pull tips to us. We have fought for the good people including you when people came down about you. I have personally went to bat for more people than I can count. I have been council and friend to everyone that has ever came to me. I have pushed to make things civil when others wanted nothing more than to bring this site down. I am not saying we are perfect in fact I am the first to say just how imperfect I am.
We have showed loyalty when others told us to let it go that this site is not worth the effort we tried to put in. I walked away because of Family issues but still I tried to bring in others never asking for the dollar for them joining. We keep telling everyone that we were not here for the money and we weren't but that is what this site has become... A money hungry destroy those around you to make yourself feel better site that cares absolutely nothing about those that helped it rise to the site it is. How many times have you had to step in other people's drama to try and bring peace? How many people have cried over the pain inflicted on them from this site?
I have been in the porn industry for years and Jt has been in the business just as long, No we are not Big Time but we know how it works and this site had become a disgrace because the people who run the site have forgotten to run it with a good mind set. Why keep hitting your head against a wall?
Clit before you start assuming stuff stop and think about the fact that lives outside of this site are affected by this site. You wanna be mad at me then so be it. Take it out on Jt then this site will have to find a way to get rid of me because I will make life hell on you. Back off and let things happen as they will without your two cents!
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| check ya watch - Submitted: Jun 23, 2010 09:35 AM
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It is an adult community... it is what we make it and it is the best place I have ever found to promote your place online... RUDE has always treated people fairly and given producers many opportunities that I haver found nowhere else.
For example I could not have a store anywhere else that would do me any better than what RUDE does... Their Free hosting is a great deal.... Their Producer and webmaster tools are a great thing for promotion... The page ok we may want this box here or that box there but it still is kool... The clone site everyone gets is loaded with free views...
There is something here for everyone who wants to watch or be watched... and on the boards as in every community there is drama...For good, foe bad, it too is what we make it...I have learned there are rules to play by and that they are fair to all..
It is not a fair thing to say RUDE cares nothing about those that helped make it what it is.... far from it... RUDE tries hard to care equally for everyone to be watched or watch...
I hope neither of you leave... I have supported you both at times and conflicted with your POV's at times... as I seem to be here - agree with parts of what your are saying - disagreeing with other parts... but that is ok... in a community people have different opinions on things... Life goes on.... Sex is still happening now as we speak on this site - blogs written, live chats, etc...... new people are finding the benefits and wanting to discover all aspects of this site....
It is a community... It is sex... and it is a business that has bills to pay to stay online and yes there is drama (I understand that too)... and I will have to disagree with your POV on the powers that be... As you know they addressed an issue just now - which seems to me to be a quite fair compromise.
If your life is effected by this site outside of it... maybe you should take time out and straighten up what you need to... but I believe the mods do their job equally and CL has his opinion too - He is not just a mod - He is a member too....most of the time even if he is pissed at me for posting my mind as I am doing here... he still has good intentions with it... as I believe his comment here to JT was intended...
Differing POV's are not personal all the time nor should they be... I hope my opinion here is not taken as something hurtful to either of you... because I do enjoy the things you bring up on the boards and hope you will stay to support your POV in the future....
But I do understand you have to feel good doing it and JT might be right a timeout might be good - cuz if it doesn't feel right don't do it... if your real world is getting effected - protect it....
I've seen crazy things online over the years - before I got here I've seen... people lose jobs... travel around the world to meet someone they hardly knew online because they "loved" them after going prvt with them... Trying to talk reason sometimes does work... and a timeout to rethink is a good idea...
So I might disagree with some of what you say... but I agree with other parts... and we are the community that make it what it is... I like both of your input - even if I don't always agree... I hope as you think about things - you'll consider my POV on it too... and be back - when it feels right for ya JT ;-}
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| check ya watch - Submitted: Jun 23, 2010 10:38 AM
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Original Post by Mistress_Shadoe
Clit it goes much father than just this "New Development" We have been trying since October to find a way to be a part of Rude. We put on the Masquerade Ball that did good. We were putting on shows for the longest time never once did we try pull tips to us. We have fought for the good people including you when people came down about you. I have personally went to bat for more people than I can count. I have been council and friend to everyone that has ever came to me. I have pushed to make things civil when others wanted nothing more than to bring this site down. I am not saying we are perfect in fact I am the first to say just how imperfect I am.
We have showed loyalty when others told us to let it go that this site is not worth the effort we tried to put in. I walked away because of Family issues but still I tried to bring in others never asking for the dollar for them joining. We keep telling everyone that we were not here for the money and we weren't but that is what this site has become... A money hungry destroy those around you to make yourself feel better site that cares absolutely nothing about those that helped it rise to the site it is. How many times have you had to step in other people's drama to try and bring peace? How many people have cried over the pain inflicted on them from this site?
I have been in the porn industry for years and Jt has been in the business just as long, No we are not Big Time but we know how it works and this site had become a disgrace because the people who run the site have forgotten to run it with a good mind set. Why keep hitting your head against a wall?
Clit before you start assuming stuff stop and think about the fact that lives outside of this site are affected by this site. You wanna be mad at me then so be it. Take it out on Jt then this site will have to find a way to get rid of me because I will make life hell on you. Back off and let things happen as they will without your two cents!
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Shadoe I'll comment where I see fit and how I see it.....JT is sulking because he can't abuse the tip a mod feature like he has previously....... don't treat me like a fool I see plenty of what goes on here on Rude even if I don't comment on it......... so don't tell me to keep my 2 cents they are mine and I'll spend them where I want.
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| check ya watch - Submitted: Jun 23, 2010 07:51 PM
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Watchit made a valid point with his spill. I for one will stick to what I've said before. This is an adult site, key-word being adult. The members come from all walks of life and we will all see things differently. The two of you claim to hate the drama and childish bs, but I've seen both of you stir it up on several occasions and then act like everyone was out to get you. If you can't handle life here in this community, no matter who or what it may be, there's the door. Find the "perfect place" and live happily ever after.
FFS. Adults that aren't adults but whiney-ass brats...... 
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| check ya watch - Submitted: Jun 23, 2010 08:03 PM
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clit, i tried to rudemail you my reasoning behend my impending departure but it wouldnt go through
i did however get ahold of kenny and he has agreed to forward the rudemail to you and should clear up some possible confusion. this thread was not supposed to be a whiney thing or an attack which i should have known would have gone that route. this is to let people know that i do plan on leaving and that i am giving them time to if they wish to remain in contact, get ahold of me with some sort of info that we can remain in touch off site of here.
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