My Blog :: since ive been on rude i have accomplished so many thing and havent done shit thats the greatness of this site i have fallen in love and met some great friends ,ive seen all types of people and met some very good friends and lovers ,i have made fans who enjoy seeing what i might do next or just chatting with me in my shows,i get turned on form knowing that i excite people and turn them on,well get this everyone live life like an adventure everyday even if ur just going to the store or on a long trip to meet a lover youve never seen in person before,just live life thats all we have a gurantee for in life is that we CAN live and life is what we make.....hopefully we make it and adventure lotus

est. rude adventure miles so far 6420
7:04AM on October 22, 2008

 im coming up on my 6th month aniversery on rude and it has been an adventure to say the least .some of the things i planned didnt work the way i wanted them to but then what does?and i planned so many things but rude is so diffrent than anything out there on the interweb,so many ideas are still on the drawing board and some of them are just thrown out the window!!!! lol. i got more plans coming for 2009 and im about to get near the holidays so my adventures might be changeing as i go ,thats how i live i go with the flow ,my shows didnt go as i planned on my first adventure ,first day on the road i broke my satelite card and then my mom got sick so i cut it short.i have posted so many free vids and i loved everyone i have done,but thats why i have only made 461 in chips in my time on rude. i do alot of free shows too and that is why my prizes have been lame on my trivia shows lol.but we all have fun by the time i end a show ,everything ive done has benn out of my pocket and i dont have a job that lets me travel anymore ,i wish i had rude when i was a sound and light tech for the bands i worked for then id have some moments that noone would belive unless they saw the vids.not to say i dont have my moments like when i was allmost struck by lightning in a florida storm whe my stoopid ass wanted to do a show outside in a storm in the lightning capitol of the world and with a laptop over my crotch.or the handcuff show in w va with christy ,or the local adventure when tropical storm fay hit here in florida i really wanted to go to gen con in indiana that weekend but i had to stay home with my dog marty and care for my place but alot of u commented and like what i did. i was like a rude weather reporter in the midst of it ,oh yes i got drunk and shot of fireworks in it but what the hell it was fun and my first sex vid with devilcowgurl whom i love very much and has a piece of my heart,or my blow job vid with christy2wet4u2c.and all the people that perv my live house cam,or the time where i make people laugh when i say something funny in chat or when im around to help someone that has just had a bad day , but i do all this "YES for attention .and to entertain " rude is the outlet that lets me be who i really am, so if ur in florida this holiday season or any other time let me know im a great tour guide i can get free tickets to the theme parks and i know all the cool beaches come have an adventure with me even if its just lunch or a few drinks or a night clubbing im sure u wont be bored .so for this blog i am logging my est.rude adventure miles so far this in not including my local adventures but the ones where i was on the road and traveled to meet people or did shows from places other than my home ,the miles so far are 6420 and every one of them has been great and i just hope to get a million rude adventure miles before i die,so like i said before everyone live life like its an adventure cuz you never know it might be ur last chance to have some fun
your adventure loving friend
lotus

adventure over
6:15PM on October 10, 2008

well this has been a adventure to remember im now on my way home and im saying goodbye to the mountain of w virginia and will soon be back on my beach drinking a cold beer and licking a hot woman........and ty  to christy ill never forget this and if u want to come to florida youll allways have a place too stay and a place in my heart
your adventurer
lotus

new adventure
1:11PM on October 03, 2008

im on  my way on a new adventure i got  to just get away from florida  for a while it is my home but i need  adventure and i got it "carefull what u wish for" so this gonna be differnt than  the last adventure where i am gonna do shows they will be revealed as i go but i will give notice so u can take the time to see what im up too ..soo stay tuned folks i got alot of suprises for ya ...........
ur adventuring friend
lotus

surfing
3:32PM on July 26, 2008

i been back hom 6 days now got a new job new apartment so the lotus lair will have a new look ,2 desktops and a laptop 4 cams ill have my music studio up and running and ill be living alone for now so ill get alot of work done to make some loot for my next adventure but as for today i went surfing at 6 am and it was great as soon as i get some more time on the board and get my skillz back expect a video and if anyone has an underwater camera that i could use ill do a scuba dive vid ?thanx
lotus

leaving good
4:39AM on July 17, 2008

its 330 in the morning and im a good theripist , i been drinking all night saw a good show from raVYN AND CHRISSY but as i was flirting with a rude hottie my best friend came to me and started crying and wonderded why im so happy well im not in the same boat he is in we all have are own problems we cant do the same things to gert us right i found rude he dont need rude so all i can do is promise him ill be his friend im here for him ill die for him but what fixed me wont fix his problems i wish it would ..........your friend
Lotus

water ski
2:08PM on July 13, 2008

im going to a the mississippi again today and there should be some great pics tooi have two cameras now and two people taking pics so it should be fun.......i just hope i dont swallow the water..lol..ur friend
Lotus

saturday
5:45PM on July 12, 2008

after the fun i had yesterday im gonna take it easy today maby do some alone time and walk down by the river front do some soulsearching and reflecting i have most all morning like what came about to get me here dont get me wrong i am loving every thing so far but i miss my dog and my motorcycle thanx to my rude family im doing great but as for what got me here its been almost a whole week since i was supposed to get married lol im glad i missed that trainwreck but i did love her and i hope someday i can love again like that its not that i dont want to its just that i have to find the right person and if i ever do get married in our vows rude will be mentioned its part of my life anyway im going to walk down by the river for a while i know everyone loved the pics from yesterday i hope youll understand that today i dont feel very photogenic .i been looking at my self in the mirror like i did 2 months ago when i came up with all ths i was 145 lbs i havent been that light since i was in high school but perving on rude and not getting laid i put on 40 lbs the wieght i was before i started in bad things im over all that now and im happy so a big thanx to rude and all the family here that has saved my life....oh and later tonight im gonna hit a few bars and a club so wish me luck if i get laid ill scream rude when i cum just for all of you ...
you traveler and friend
Lotus

i spent the day in iowa
12:56AM on July 12, 2008

i got some really kool pics and a great wow when i posted them ,trin ty i am not here to make money i just want to be seen and make friends ,and maby have sex good sex but i just want people to see what im doing and rude has been the outlet for me you can get fans without getting nude but i do get naked and have fun when i WANT to and plans are in the works for some hot vids me and christy2wet4u2c but we are getting close and i really like her alot thanx again rude she is sweet sexy and adventrous like me...so keep reading my blogs and see what im up to ,what i do is for me and you all i hope you enjoy......your friend
Lotus
ps thanx again trin

iowa
10:27AM on July 11, 2008

ill be in iowa today and gonna do a lot of self photos in cool places hope you all enjoy the last pics i posted theres gonna be alot more know that i have someone that can take pics for me .....Lotus

im here
1:19PM on July 09, 2008

i made it to illinois and im beat ill be posting the vids and pics fron the trip as soon as i get some rest i been going though mad rude withdrawls and i just got my fix so now i need some sleep

Lotus

it starts now
3:55AM on July 07, 2008

well im off i cant believe it begun i hope yoall enjoy what im gonna do.but most of all im doing this for me i cant hold back im sad to leave marty for so long but im not gonna let him hold me back he is sad right now but he has my sisters kids to play with and if i have to ill send for him anyhoo keep reading the blogs i get great feedback from your comments and i wish i could meet everyone of you so if are paths cross buy me a beer dammit theese bags are heavy and im thirsty lol ill be posting alot of vids that where im gonna video document this whole thing and like i said if u see im gonna be around something kool let me know you adventurer
Lotus

agenda
5:50AM on July 03, 2008

my agenda so far
depart melbourne beach florida to chicago july 7
chicago to moline on the 8th
in moline i will be doing a public perfomance at the bix jazz festivil on the 17th
this list will be updated daily as soon as things are confirmed

a new month
6:41AM on July 01, 2008

its july to all the canadians happy canada day
but its a new month and my life is getting better thanx to rude ...6 more day till my trip starts and lookout midwest im on my way im gonna shout rude from the rooftops in the q.c.a. first.....and to my best fan well youll see ...still looking for ideas of things to see and places to and if you wanna meet me rude mail me i allready know who i want to meet and when i walk in to that bar she is gonna smile so big ...well ill be back around 2 or 3 today and im thinking about a show with me my guitar and some trivia....also check out my sunrise vid i will miss the florida sunrises but the sun rises everywhere else i plan on going and it sets too lol....and soon ill be posting a vid of an original song i been writeing i just gotta get my timeing right ...anyway i hope to all of you soon and everyone stay rude

lots of love

Lotus

so far
5:21AM on June 29, 2008

so far this is my plan for places im gonna go ill be performing at the bix jazz festivel in the quad cities but that has nothing to do with rude then a party in ohio to meet some rude people then i have to got to w.va to meet a really hot babe who is blowing my mind and hopefully sumthing else she is a hottie and i cant wait to see her in person we have talked about doing shows togather and allready started a video theme that is going to get hotter and hotter as we go i still want to hear form yo all if you have any ideas or places i should visit
your friend
Lotus

getting closer
3:05PM on June 27, 2008

hello everyone
its getting closer to my summer adventure and i cant wait i get sooo excited thinking about it but i also get depressed thinking about all i had with my ex if u ever had ur heart broke u know  what its like to hear a song or see a place you enjoyed togather but my new rude family has been soo great and supportive i just wish i had something or someone with me too share how im feeling and i know soon i will but i just have too move on and think about this summer and all the fun im gonna have ......love yall alot

you friend
Lotus

more about me and what i do
4:37AM on June 21, 2008

i want to take the time to tell you all about me my name is richard you can call me rich or lotus,im a bi male male in florida at the moment i just went through a messy break up with the only woman i wanted to marry,i was ready to be with 1 person for the rest of my lifei gave up alot and did whatever she wanted turns out she is a very mean person and broke my heart on my birthday she broke up with me and i now have a ring that is pretty but needs a finger,anyhoo that being said im ready to move on big time,and this rude comunity we have her is gonna be an outlet to my adventours this summer ,tostart read my other blogs to see what i mean as for me im 36 but i look younger ,im 6 ft tall green eyes 170 lbs,i was born in syracuse ny i live in florida and have lived in michegan and iowa and california,i have been a studio musician and sound and light tech for the past ten years i am an actor as well,i like all kinds of woman no certen type just kool,i see bueaty in the body mind and heart,im am bi ive been with 2 men but allways looking for others to share im very pickey about having sex with men,im a smoker and drinker ,and 420 enthusiest,i work out and swim alot i scuba dive and sky dive,as for this summer i have had good and bad things told about what i wanna do like my friend told me im going through a midlife crisis,others have said they wish they were me well thats it for now if ya want to know more about me please ask and ty for reading this
your friend lotus

the summer of the lotus
2:23AM on June 21, 2008

its getting closer and i cant wait i have what will be the first place i hit on my adventure it will me the quad city area if anyone is near there let me know at my rude mail or comment bix jazz fest and any other thing that comes up after that im thinking hikeing and camping at the grand canyon or yosemity park........

my travels
5:57AM on June 19, 2008

i been thinking about this for a long time and im gonna have a summer to travel around the u.s. im looking for some adventure and meeting all sorts of people,check out music and bands ,bars and clubs ,beaches ,theame parks and point's of interest,im gonna post a weekly agenda starting around july 3rd ,i will be leaving melbourne beach florida heading to the quad city area in ia and il.im looking for peaple to have an adventour with, interview ,show me interesting things and places,talk music and or jam,travel with,if you have any ideas,places ,know of any kool partys going on places to camp ,kool hotels ,storylines ,bands playing, places to eat,bars and clubs,meet and just hand out,wanna be on my show,me be on ur show,wanna help,i might be looking for sponsors depending on my budget,please rude mail me or leave comment ,i think this will be an interesting summer,i will be traviling with people  and sometimes alone for safety reasons i wont be posting addresses and all the legal stuf fo make this a great safe, fun ,erotic,interesting wild   adventure.things i plan on doing are camping and hikeing,sight seeing,i have started a collection of pictures of me flashing near interesting things the first one i post will me me in front of the st louis arch that was taken  a few years ago,so for now im just waiting to hear form the rude comunnitty on what they think and all the ideas that we creative and original people that have shows and sites here at rude.com to get with me....
your adventtrourer LOTUS
ps i really need someone to spellcheck for me if you dont like the way i type then please volunteer.........

summer of the lotus
4:12AM on June 19, 2008

after the trainwreck that was my second show i been thinking about getting on with my life so im gonna start traveling im gonna have my laptop and web cam and see what happens now that im single and she broke my heart blah blah blah i want to embark on a life of fun and sex so my first destination is the mid west ,i will be alot of diferent places because i know alot of people and if you hvae any ideas of places or things i can do on the road rude mail me, im hoping to do interviews with people i meet ,and tell people about rude,but mostly this is gonna be a great summer ..........................................................