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Nasty,Hateful and Mean
4:44PM on August 07, 2008

I have been doing this for over two years, and never once got a hate letter or a nasty comment until today! I was making my rounds at a bunch of places...checking emails and of course my last stop is my website which has a shout box on the second page so fans/friends can leave me messages. to my surprise there were a ton of messages...two pages full of hateful things and nasty remarks about my body! I took my time and read the messages...thank heavens its a censored shout box so there were lots of ***** words...I wanted to make sure I didn't miss any fan comments before I deleted the whole list of messages. this person must have been sitting there for at least an hour writing all of those...I just don't understand what he/she was trying to accomplish? did it make me feel bad about myself or what I do...haha hell no...did it make me want to quit? hell no...so what was the point? I did like the comment about no one would pay money to see me...I will have to inform all my paying members...LMAO
Now to the person who did this....I find it funny that you think a complete stranger could make me feel bad about myself... that's a good joke, what's there to feel bad about? I have a good life. I am spoiled rotten, I own my own business and get paid weekly, I have lots of friends online and off, and great family.... Oh wait you think just because I am not thinner that I should be miserable? Well think again.

Furry Visitors
8:57AM on July 09, 2008

For the past couple of months we have been having furry little visitors at night that love to get into our trash haha you guessed it raccoons, normally they just knock over the trash and take what they want and leave a huge mess for us to clean in the morning. Well I guess eating in the driveway isn’t good enough for these little critters because now they get in the trash and find what they want and bring it up on the deck to eat…haha take out for raccoons. I had never actually seen them but last night I heard a bunch of noise out on the deck, so I got the flash light and went to the window there they were two of them playing with the racks on the deck…very nosy as soon as they saw the flash light they came over to see what it was, I went to the kitchen and looked through the sliding doors…they came right up to the glass. Well it turns out that they have been doing this almost every night but I never heard them until last night they even take naps under my table out there. I tried to get a good picture but for some reason my camera didn’t want to take the pic through the screen and when I opened the screen door it scared them off for a bit…later we managed to get these.
they sit at the top of the steps and have thier dinner then head under that table and take naps..lmao

When good kitties go bad!
6:15PM on July 01, 2008

I was trying to get a little work done, for those of you who don’t know I shoot a ton of picture in my bedroom and the space is really small but I make due! Anyway I have curtains that match my backdrop and of course my little demon kitty loves to hide behind them, most times I make sure she is out of the room to begin with but I guess I just didn’t see her this day! Here I was all dolled up and getting the light just right when all of a sudden the curtain move, figured it was the wind until I saw the paw come out with the claws ready to attack!

This little witch wouldn't even let me touch her! every time i put my hand near her she took a swipe...lol I just she was frisky

Normally she is a good kitty but she does love to play! Btw her name is Oreo and she is one of those cats that is born without a tail...took me almost 20 minutes to get her out of the room she kept running around hiding and attacking me, finally she ran out of the room and I shut the door but could still hear her trying to get back in..lol...I thought it was funny so i wanted to share with all of you!

Do my boobs look big?
8:17PM on June 28, 2008

hahaha I was cleaning out my computer when I stumbled across a whole set of pictures that I never posted or if I did I can't find them anywhere, in this one I'm really not sure why I am pouting...hmmm maybe I thought my boobs weren't big enough...LMAO Sorry i just had to post it and see what everyone thought!


I posted the whole set on my personal website

Finally it's Friday!
10:30PM on June 27, 2008

Weekend is here again finally! Woohoo… too bad the weather kind of sucks! We have had nothing but thunderstorms the last couple days, the Internet is giving me issues and I’m not too happy about that. I guess its something I have to live with until the weather clears up. As you know from my last blog I had a big Duh moment but I fixed that and continued to do privates, which I might add that I really enjoy doing! Then I started having issues with the room disconnecting and that’s how I found the other problem. It would seem that my cam is freezing up in privates, I went to my archives and watched a few and wouldn’t you know it, it does freeze! I was shocked since I kept an eye on my monitor just to make sure they can see me and my side didn’t freeze but I guess it did on the other end! So now I was on the search for some answers, I decided to check out someone else’s archives to see how well they played, of course I picked trinity’s just because she is friggin hot and I figured I could perv at the same time…hehe Now not only did it play just fine but I was right Trinity’s HOT and the archive was well worth renting …now I am kicking myself for not just buying it! Anyway I talked to Trinity about what was happening in the privates and she suggested I put in a support ticket…I did and now I am just waiting on Tech support to see if we can fix this thing!
BTW thank you Trinity for all your help!

Big time Duh moment!
5:30PM on June 24, 2008

My last blog I talked about doing privates and asked for some advice but really got no response, so I did a little digging in the forum and thought I was all set haha that’s a joke I didn’t know one key point… it never once dawned on me that after I get someone that wants a private I could talk to them before I hit the start button (ok big time Duh moment) I was wondering how I could find out what they wanted before hand…I guess I learn something new everyday. That is one thing I really should of known. I guess you have to learn somehow..

new things and could use some advice on Pvt shows
1:57PM on June 22, 2008

I just added two new free videos and two new flixs one is 14 minutes and I had a ball making it! Some new things on my page, fist I changes my profile haha made it pretty! I was so bored with the old look now everything matches. I just finished uploading a new 14 minute flix you can find a teaser attached to the blog, I must say its friggin awesome oh who am I kidding I had a great time making that video, of course its me and my favorite toy and a helping hand from the camera man! You get to see it from start to finish and I will apologize now for me being so loud, I’m not quiet at all! Anyway like I said all new things…added two new free videos and two new flix later today I will be adding another set of picture to my rude pixs.
And to my amazement I will be setting up to do privates…. scary…haha two years doing my own website and never once have I done a private show…now I’ve gone and chatted on cam with members…a lot but never once did a “show” haha and it didn’t have sound either, so this should be interesting to say the least… if there are any ladies that do privates and can give me a bit of advice leave a comment here or send me a rude mail it would be greatly apprenticed…

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I squeezed My Big Ass into a XL Panty set!
12:29AM on June 12, 2008

I swear I am not normal....I hate jewelry...I hate shoes....and I really hate
to go shopping! But shopping its something I have to do, while I was out last
week I decided to have a look around in the women's department and see if I
would find one of those cute tee shirt and panty sets that I always see but they
are never in my size! well I saw this really cute set and bought it, even though
I knew it wouldn't fit right...haha it was an XL haha...but its was/is stretchy.
Well I figured I could at least shoot some pictures in it even if I couldn't
wear it for long...hehe guess what I did pictures last night ...I squeezed my
Big Butt into a pair of XL booty shorts and little tank top and I was right it
was a bit tight but in all the right places...lol what do you guys think was it
worth it?

I used this as my newest update on my wesite

Nice Hot Day
12:18AM on June 09, 2008

Well the warmer weather is finally here, on the spur of the moment we decided to go to the beach. Now I'm not normally a beach kind of girl, but I figured it had to be cooler so I grabbed a blanket and a towel and out the door we went! haha guess what I came home with? a friggin sunburn, I am as red as a Maine lobster!

I guess I learned my lesson... it was still a great day until we got home that is! BTW I am a lot redder in person!

White sheer pleasure
7:08PM on April 17, 2008

Some times I find it very hard to come up with ideas for photo shoots and since I have limited space and it was way too cold to do outside shoots the ideas just weren’t coming to me. So I asked my members what they wanted to see and if they really cared if it was in the same area or if I had any kind of props and what not, they always amaze me with their answers. Yes they really do answer me…haha…most said they didn’t care what was in the pictures or even what I was wearing as long as it was the real me! I really love my members and I try to listen to their needs and do what I can when I can. So on that note this weeks update has a very simple note to it “White sheer pleasure” everyone loves see through things and when I found this white see through shirt it was perfect with the red thong…Its funny how something so simple can be so sexy. I added over 110 pictures to my personal website on Wednesday morning and so far the response has been wonderful…I guess they really did like it…

Last night I was in my voyeur room to chat with a couple people...I want to thank amazingdiskofunk for stopping in to say hello, I suppose i should let everyone know I will be in my voyeur chat room at around 9:30 pm eastern time...just to hang out and chat for a bit! nothing special just looking to chat some so come on by....

A Lesson In Bitchology
8:09PM on April 12, 2008

When I stand up for my beliefs, I am called a bitch
When I stand up for those I love, I am called a bitch
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, I am called a bitch
Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart
it means I live my life MY way
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me
When I refuse to tolerate injustice and I speak against it, I am defined as a bitch
The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid
it means I have the courage and the strength to allow myself to be who I truly am...
and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be
I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me
You won't succeed
And if that makes me a bitch... so be it
I embrace the title and am proud to bear it!!!

B = Beautiful
 I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

B = Beautiful
 I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything

I am in joking mood...
8:25PM on April 08, 2008

Doctor's Funeral

A cardiologist died and was given an elaborate funeral.

A huge heart covered in flowers stood behind the casket during the
service. Following the eulogy, the heart opened, and the casket rolled
inside. The heart then closed, sealing the doctor in the beautiful heart
forever.

At that point, one of the mourners burst into laughter. When all eyes
stared at him, he said, "I'm sorry, I was just thinking of my own
funeral... I'm a gynecologist."

That's when the proctologist fainted.
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I thought I was a Cowboy

An old cowboy sat down at the Starbucks and ordered a cup of coffee. As he sat sipping his coffee, a young woman sat down next to him.

She turned to the cowboy and asked, 'Are you a real cowboy?'

He replied, 'Well, I've spent my whole life breaking colts, working cows, going to rodeos, fixing fences, pulling calves, baling hay, doctoring calves, cleaning my barn, fixing flats, working on tractors, and feeding my dogs, so I guess I am a cowboy.'

She said, 'I'm a lesbian I spend my whole day thinking about women. As soon as I get up in the morning, I think about women When I shower, I think about women. When I watch TV, I think about women. I even think about women when I eat. It seems that everything makes me think of women.'

The two sat sipping in silence.

A little while later, a man sat down on the other side of the old cowboy and asked, 'Are you a real cowboy?'

He replied, 'I always thought I was, but I just found out that I'm a lesbian.

Hope I helped a few people laugh!

Snow again
5:07PM on April 04, 2008

I am slightly irritated, can you believe its April 4th and I woke up to more friggin snow! I really need to move some place warmer or at least someplace that doesn’t have this much snow! I guess its good that it finally turned to rain, but now it looks so crappy out that I don’t even want to leave my house…I guess I still have the winter blues…
On the lighter side of things my two year anniversary has just passed and I have been busy making changes to my website…tons of new updates you can see then here http://www.rude.com/kylastreats/goto_website/…Wednesdays update has to be my favorite so far…Its on the softer side but I love how sexy I look in this tiny dress…don’t worry you still get to see all the good bits. I added over 190 pictures, yeah I got a little picture happy but my members seem to like the big sets so it works out… here is a peek of what you can find at my site! If you like them please leave comments and rate my blog…

So you think your ready to open a paysite?
9:09PM on April 03, 2008

I love to surf and find out all the information I can before I start something new but i have noticed lately that there are too many people that think this is an easy business or a get rich quick kind of thing and its not!and they start and within the first month they quit! It takes a lot of time and determination to make a paysite work. Its not just about taking a couple pictures and posting them on the net! anyway I found this and I wanted to share with all of you so you have a heads up before you decide to get into something you know very little about.

a few steps to get you started- you might not need all of this but most of it is a mustMaking the decision to open you first Paysite is a huge life step and a major work load increase, even for the experienced Webmaster. For the Paysite newbie the process can be very overwhelming and can quickly turn into an unwanted expensive lesson. The key to running an Adult Paysite is true dedication. You must focus on Members, Support, Updates, and Webmasters at all times. This is only the start; we also have 2257 record keeping, extra accounting, taxes, possible staff, extra servers for hosting and a need for improved security, and marketing. So the rule is: Never under estimate the dedication needed to properly run and maintain a single Paysite.
This article will assume that you have the proper skills to open and maintain an Adult Paysite. You either are a Webmaster and have the skills needed to publish and maintain a Paysite. Or you have the understanding, the money, and you can manage the people to make this happen. Paysites are not for the Adult Industry novice.

The quick of what is needed!
The listing below is guideline placed in the order that it should be completed in. You can’t get visa approved without an entire working Website, and you can’t build a design without Content. Steps are important!

* Select your niche: Start with something you enjoy.
* Purchase niche domains: Including the .net, org and misspells.
* Content: Video and Picture for members, tours and promo material.
* Get content web-ready: Either purchased ready or converted for web-ready use.
* Paysite design: Warning page, tours, join pages, and members graphics.
* Promotional material: Hosted galleries, banners, buttons, full-page ads, ect.
* Hosting: Quality servers and bandwidth really makes Members happy
* Content management system: Hand updates or a system to your manage content.
* Password protection: Member auth systems to protect from password leaks and attacks.
* 2257: Before you actually release you need to have your records in order
* Processors: Get your tours, join forms and members area Visa/MC approved.
* Costs: The overall costs of opening your first Adult Paysite.

Webmasters feel free to add to this as you see fit

Email Question answered
3:51PM on April 01, 2008

So I have gotten a couple emails asking why I am fully dressed on my house Cams when before at least I was topless some of the time. So I thought I would explain just a bit…If you noticed on my profile I live in Maine and it gets very friggin cold here. So with the gas and oil prices being so High I have kept my thermostat at about 62, Most days its not a bad thing but still a bit too cold to be running around half naked…if you have caught me in my house you’ll see I wear a thin tank that shows just how cold it does get lol can you say a bit nippy…lmao
So as soon as the weather gets better here I will shed some of my clothing!
On a good note I just celebrated my sites two-year anniversary! I can’t believe it’s been that long; it seems like yesterday that I decided to share my self with all of my fans…I put so much work into my website and try to make it the best I can but still have the amateur feel…haha well I am a amateur! There have been many changes and a whole lot of learning along the way…I had no idea what link trading was or even how to go about it…never mind how to use or do HTML code… Its been a great experience and I am hopping for several more anniversaries to come!

Physiology of Erotic Spanking and the Pain/Pleasure Phenomenon
1:29PM on March 29, 2008

This blog is dedicated to all who like getting spanked and the people who just don't understand it, maybe this will clear a few things up!

Endorphins are peptides (amino acid chains) released by the brain, in response to pain and stress. They are morphine-like compounds. The brain triggers the release of endorphins when a stimulus is interpreted as pain, in order to raise the pain threshold and make the pain more tolerable. With erotic spanking, there is an additional ingredient; sexual arousal. Because of this, and because of a specific physiological cycle, it is important to have a slow and gradual warm up.

First, the physiological cycle… The psychological build up to the spanking (anticipation) is sexually arousing, in and of itself. Being put over someone’s lap, perhaps having your bottom and back sensually stoked. The commencement of the spanking, having your bottom bared as the gradual warm-up spanking continues. The arousal slowly builds as the endorphins are gradually being released by the brain, triggered both by the erotic tension and the spanking, itself. As the endorphin level in the bloodstream elevates, the pain threshold gradually increases. Thus, the severity of the spanking can gradually increase and still be interpreted as pleasure. This cycle continues…. Sexual arousal builds, more endorphins are released, pain threshold increases, spanking severity increases. The spanking, still being interpreted as pleasure further increases sexual arousal, more endorphins are released, pain threshold increases, spanking severity increases. And, etc……

This is a gradual process. The top must be sensitive to the body language of the bottom, and not introduce too much severity too soon. If the spanking starts out too severe, a large amount of endorphins will be released pre-maturely; before sufficient sexual arousal has built. The pre-mature introduction of severe pain combined with the resultant endorphin release can totally quash sexual arousal and orgasm potential.

This is why it is crucial to start light; with a slow warm up, gradually increasing in severity. In order to accomplish this, the top must be sensitive to the body language of the bottom. Many females are capable of a spontaneous orgasm during a spanking (with no direct sexual stimulation), if the top is sufficiently sensitive to body language, and integrates sensuality with the spanking.

BTW yes that is my rosy ass!

Rude mail...give me a break
4:03PM on March 27, 2008

I know everyone wants to advertise their stuff but why send out 7 or 8 emails saying the same thing …all with in a half hour…that’s a little excessive in my book and I spend most of my time deleting this stuff and its really aggravating! I knew you were in your private room for first three emails no need to send anymore.
sorry for the rant but it just really irritates me!

Pet Peeves...
2:19PM on March 18, 2008

I really hate going to make a sandwich and there is only one piece of bread…or get a glass of juice and there is just a sip in the jug! How hard is for them to say we are almost of out whatever? I know this is a little thing but I always seem to be the one who finds the empty containers and has to go without or bundle up and go to the store in the freezing cold and It really pisses me off!
So I took it upon my self to get even…I let things run out that I know they like and if they complain I just tell them “well you should of told me before it was gone so I could replace it!” this doesn’t seem to be going over very well…lol especially on the toilet paper front! Haha but between you and me I always have an extra one just in case…lmao

Early Morning Crisis
2:51PM on March 14, 2008

Most of you know I am a mom and I have a busy morning trying to get everyone up and out of the house in the morning. Well this morning wasn’t any different except we had an extra thing to get out of the house…I took the oldest ones and dropped them off came back home and poured myself a cup of coffee, I had about twenty minutes to kill before the youngest had to get up and ready…when all of a sudden I heard a ruckus coming from the basement of course I thought it was my kitten because she is friggin nuts in the morning.
But when I looked up and saw this gray thing enter the kitchen and the kitten not far behind I almost fell off the couch… then my pit bull collie saw it and took off running…the chase was on! Down the hall into the bedroom of the youngest who was still sleeping…then back into the hall…. then the next room…back into the first room under the bed the dog managed to wiggle her great big body under there with only her legs stretched out (lol) and scary the furry little visitor back out in the open…looked like a bit from a cartoon and all I could do was laugh.
Finally I had it trapped in the bathroom I think it was more of a relief for the poor squirrel then it was for me, I know I wouldn’t want to be chased around by a nosy cat and a big ass dog all before breakfast…lol we managed to trap the little sucker into the cat carrier after he fell in the toilet! I’m not even sure how it got into the house but I don’t think it will do it ever again…Damn I never did finish that nice relaxing cup of coffee…

so sick of the snow!
11:01AM on March 02, 2008

I think I have the winter blues... the only ones making out from this are my website members...I have been updating twice a week and just last night I uploaded a members requested video! Anyway I am so ready for spring...I need to see the grass and the friggin trees lmao... it seems like every time it starts to melt we get hit with another foot of snow I might have to move someplace warmer...anyone have any suggestions?