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Lobby Etiquette
5:55AM on January 15, 2010

What is wrong with people??? I think some really take the name of this site too seriously.
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The people in the lobby, myself included, are not here to be harrassed, degraded, insulted, called out our names, stalked, or have our time wasted. Unfortunately, about 98% of the people who come through the lobby do just that. I know that seems like a High percentage but when you break down how many people are actually on this site and the ones who are actually taking a camperson private.....you get the picture.
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******I would like to, however, take the time to THANK the ones who know how to act when they step foot into a campersons' lobby and ACTUALLY take them/someone else Private.*********
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I find it very disturbing the frequency that people will come into a lobby and not speak. That is one of the rudest things you can do. I realize that there is a chat time limit and I'm not sure as to if that is for all open lobbies per day or by individual lobbies. However, as soon as you notice that you can't chat then Leave! Don't sit there staring and hoping you'll get to see something.
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Oh yeah, I almost forgot.....Privates are NOT free! Yes, we are able to tease you and entice you but nothing is free besides that in the Private lobby. ****Note: It's not all about the money as it seems with the words I type. I personally enjoy pleasuring myself and others deriving pleasure from it.: end Note****  However, come into the lobby with your chips up. Regardless of if you take me, you may find someone else that you'd like to spend that quality time with. It makes a camperson wary when a chatter says they have no chips but want to talk-talk-talk or beg-beg-beg. We don't even mind when you say you don't have the chips right then but are coming back with some and Actually come back!
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Also, please don't get into the habit of begging. What is that going to get you except being kicked out or, even worse, banned from that campersons' lobby. Depending on how severe the infraction is, I will even take a moment to leave a nice comment on the offender's page and then BAN then from my page altogether. Take a look at the nice comment I left on a recent offender's page:

**************************Welcome to RUDE! First, I'm not going to try to get you hard unless we're in Private. Second, don't come to the lobby unless you're Already hard. Third, do NOT come in someone's lobby and the 3rd thing out your mouth is a Request! It clearly states,"NO REQUESTS" on the screen across our cams. Fourth, you KNEW you weren't going to go private and was wasting my time, Fifth, the attitude was well-deserved and placed appropriately onto you. Hope you enjoy your stay and have a good one! ***********************************************************

For all who may not know, these are the instructions that are emblazoned across a campersons' feed in their lobby:   Choose a Live Show type and enter the Live Private room where YOU get to direct the action! There are NO requests in the private lobby.

As you can see, it clearly states that there are NO requests in the lobby. So why do chatters think that, "open your chest" "show me your ass" "can't you stick your tongue out" etc. are Not requests? It also many not seem like begging but it is because these are the things you could Direct in Private.......  If you want to beg/direct then take the camperson private!!
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Lastly, don't go into a lobby when you already know you don't like what you see!!!!! It's so simple that it's ridiculous! **Please reference first blog of "Haters ARE Congratulators!"
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I hope this spreads some light on the plight of the camperson here on RUDE and any other site out there!
If you don't want to use the knowledge for yourself, then by all means Pass it on to someone who will!  ;)



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BROOK...
March 14, 2010 (Report It)

i feel you 200% it's crazy we work hard and respect is a must your so right fantasy

fanta...
February 23, 2010 (Report It)

I do Ignore but I also love to watch their demise as I "Kill them with kindness" when I tell them off....BRU HAHAHAHA!!

Cathe...
February 15, 2010 (Report It)

Good blog!

MsCum...
January 18, 2010 (Report It)

This is so true fantasy, i hate when people say do this, do that. I also hate when a person comes and my room and say they hate fatsos, Yes someone came and said they dont like fatsos and left out my room and came back the next day and said the same thing. I hate to ban people but sometimes u have to do what u have to do. I love brook banks she will go to their page and tell they ass off, but anyways great blog.

Curvy...
January 16, 2010 (Report It)

LOL yes alot of us Camgirls need to work harder than other girls to get shows. Yes along with that comes the rudeness and hatin bullshit. Some people were raise with no respect and then some people are out there just to cause shit and try to get a rise out of you. I can't count how many times, I have had a guy come in and say Fuck your FAT, why would I go prvt with a fucking whale like you? ROTFLMAO!! Honest to god, that shit don't bother me anymore, camming for 3 years now, has brought my confidence up pretty high and no words on that genre bug me. I usually lmao at them or plain and simple IGNORE, lol that pisses them off even more when they are up in there calling you names and you don't even snap back at them. HAHAHAHA too freakin funny. Or I will be like "Excuse me, what did you say? I didn't hear you? Then they will type back some bullshit and I will say say that again? I don't understand HAHAHHAHA Yes when I'm bored I fuck with them too! LOL What I do 90% of the time if they are just out right ignorant, ignore and then block! LOL I don't have time to sit there and be mad:) Got work to do:) Hehe Keep ya head up girl. IGNORE IGNORE LMAO

sinfu...
January 16, 2010 (Report It)

great blog, dollface! xoxo Much luv!

fanta...
January 16, 2010 (Report It)

I agree with what you said Curvy. I have been able to do more privates than I actually thought I would on here. My issue is more with the beggars and the ones who want to degrade because they aren't getting their way. I made sure to Thank the ones who do what they do when they come into the private lobby and also take a camperson private. I don't understand other languages myself and realize that because this is the World Wide Web, we get anyone from anywhere but that doesn't change the fact that many are disrespectful. If you don't want to be treated badly then why treat someone else that way, you know? I come here to this site for many reasons and I leave like everyone else to deal with my real life. I do enjoy when someone who's come around many times takes me to have me how they want. I don't get "mean" unless I'm caused to. And yes, I've seen a lot of girls/guys that are static and don't do anything to be enticing. It does boil down to what each individual likes and I have no control over that. However, I know how I like to be treated and know how to behave and I dislike having to come out of my "self" to deal with harbingers of ignorance/hatred/cheapness. I never really thought I'd do the privates but I have enjoyed it even through the "tough" times...lol!

Curvy...
January 15, 2010 (Report It)

LOL well said hun:) I have quite a bit to say on this topic however. I myself have been working as a cam girl for over 3 years now, with my own website as well as working on different cam sites, Rude lobby I have tried and couldn't agree with you more on all the comments you made about beaggars and free hunters. LMAO But the fact of the matter is, things won't change. Alot of guys will try and get a freebie show. Regardless of the rules etc. Alot of girls break the rules on all these cam sites, which makes it alot harder for us girls that don't. I know it's hard to see, but alot of guys that don't talk in free and just watch could end up being your biggest spender. Some guys like to lurk and check a girl out and see how she is first before taking her prvt. I know it seems rude to come in and not talk, but this is what some guys do. Some guys that do that might also be there jackin off to you in free. Ya never know. Alot of men that come on these sites don't speak english very well also, that's another reason why half of them don't understand the 'NO Requests' in free chat. The purpose of free chat is to entice them into prvt. I have seen many girls, start a general convo How are you? Where you from? Then after a few questions they say PRVT or BYE. Like wtf? That's really gonna turn a guy on and make him want to take you prvt. If I was a guy I would leave the room after that was said too. LOL Alot of girls I notice do this, sit there and do nothing and expect a prvt show. Don't just sit, move! Also don't dance all the time, but do something. Be worth watching at. Play with your hair, adjust your clothing, just move a bit, go from your chair to your bed, and back, sing something, scratch your breast... whatever! Even nose picking is better than being statical. The other girls are just one mouse click away, you want the (potential) client to stay with you? Make yourself worth watchable. Something happening at your side also gives the client an opening to say something. I am pretty experienced in camming and have had my share of liars, people trying to scam, guys wanting freebies etc. My advise to you is don't take them so serious and get mad. I know it's difficult and can be tiring dealing with these types of people all day, let alone doing shows can be exhausting as well/ Keep all your energy for your shows, don't waste it on the beggars and freebie hunters. You might say it 100 times a day, "If you wanna see more, take me prvt hun" but that's part of camming babes. We repeat ourselves all day everyday and always will:) Hehe Much luv If you have any questions or concerns about different sites to work on, the best ones etc. Send me a rude mail would love to help you out:) ~Kisses

STORM...
January 15, 2010 (Report It)

Tell they ass gurl i don't do privates but can understand where u comin from this is the main reason i chose not 2

real-...
January 15, 2010 (Report It)

You go girl!!
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