Wondering about my Master?
8:36AM on June 21, 2008
Just to begin, I want to try to explain to everyone who keeps asking me about Master and our relationship. But to do that there are a few things I have to explain first...
Me being shy has over run much of my life, held me back with a lot of things, and with help I am able to overcome those. This help comes from Master, His words, and touch open everything in me. There is a lot to learn when it comes to these types of relationships, it isn't just about sex, the D/s (Dominant/slave) relationship has much, much more to it depending on if you are in it for "scenes" or 24/7. In general the meaning of the "lifestyle" is a power exchange, either for a "scene", meaning that for the duration of the time chosen the power is given and then everything goes back to "normal". Or in my case the power exchange is given to Master permanently, until one of us, mainly Him, decides it isn't working, there are ways for me to break this power exchange if need arises. I am doing this willingly, because this is what I need, for myself to grow and thrive.
There are several key elements to this "lifestyle", trust, communication, and commitment are the basis for every relationship but go much further in the D/s relationship. Without those elements the relationship will not work, I must trust Master with my life, and everything in it, I willingly give everything including myself, mind, body, and soul to Master. With this exchange comes great responsibility for me, everything I do must come before Master and be accepted by Him, the way I sit, stand, or speak could be changed because of what pleases Him, and that is what pleases me, being able to please Master. In pleasing Master and being able to follow threw with His orders I will grow and be able to open myself to many things. I will ultimately be a better person for everything I learn from Master.
This is just the beginning of many blogs that I will write to try to keep your questions answered as to my situation, every D/s relationship has different Rules and limits, with each Dominant there are different rules as with every slave there are different rules, it is up to the "couple" to agree upon rules and limitations, contract or no, whatever it may take for both parties involved to be able to get the utmost out of the relationship.
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