Not 4 Me
4:10PM on November 12, 2011
Hey Lacey.
Read your post. Not sure if you meant to do this or not but you have implied that those who show their face, do anal and peeing or anything else you don't do have low standards.
"I HAVE SO MANY OF YOU THAT ASK FOR ME TO SHOW MY FACE AND DO ANAL, I WILL NEVER DO EITHER ONE.....NO AMOUNT OF MONEY WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN, SO 'PLEASE' DON'T ASK...IF THIS SOUNDS HARSH I AM SORRY...I JUST HAVE HIGH STANDARDS "
Then again maybe you do feel that way, which in my opinion would be a shame.
NOW THIS IS FROM A EMAIL I SENT OUT YESTERDAY.......SOMEONE WROTE THAT THINKING I WAS "IMPLYING" THAT PEOPLE WHO DO THIS ARE OF A LESS STANDARD THAN MYSELF..
NOT EVERYONE IS INTO ANAL, PEEING, OR SHOWING THEIR FACES, MEN AS WELL AS WOMEN FOR THAT MATTER, NOT ALL OF US ARE INTO THE SAME THINGS, I LIKE ICE-CREAM YOU DON'T, DOES THAT MAKE YOU A PERSON THAT DISLIKES SWEETS?
I SAID NO AMOUNT OF MONEY COULD MAKE ME DO ANY OF THOSE THINGS, THAT IS TRUE, NO AMOUNT OF MONEY CAN EVER BE PUT ON MY VALUES AND BELIEFS, YOU SEE MY FAMILY COMES BEFORE ME ANY DAY THEN OF COURSE MY NURSING PROFESSION AS WELL...
WHY DO SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO TRY AND TWIST THE WORDS THAT HAVE BEEN SAID?
DON'T TRY TO READ INTO SOMETHING THAT IS JUST NOT THERE.. I AM A WOMAN THAT IS VERY EASY GOING AND VERY FEW THINGS MAKE ME MAD, BUT THIS HAS SOMEHOW UPSET ME, FOR IF I HAD MEANT ANYTHING ANY DIFFERENT THAN I SAID, IT WOULD HAD READ AS SUCH..
I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH WHAT TURNS MY NEIGHBOR ON, THAT IS HER LIFE NOT MINE, JUST BECAUSE I DON'T WANT IT IN MY LIFE DOESN'T MAKE ME THINK IT SHOULD NOT BE DONE, IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU DO AND YOUR PARTNER DOES AS WELL, THEN WHO CARES WHAT THE PERSON DOWN THE STREET THINKS OR FEELS.. IF IT TURNS YOU ON, THEN DO IT !!!! BUT DON'T COME DOWN ON ME FOR SAYING I DON'T LIKE IT...NOR DON'T TRY AND MAKE ME FEEL THAT I HAVE SAID SOMETHING WRONG..
I HAVE 2 MEN IN MY LIFE, MY HUBBY "BO" AND A MAN THAT I HAVE BEEN SEEING FOR 8YRS.....NEITHER OF THEM CARE FOR ANAL OR PEEING....NOT ALL PEOPLE ARE INTO THE SAME THINGS....... AS MOST ADULTS KNOW....
THE WOMEN THAT DO ANAL, PEEING, SHOWING FACE, "MEN" INCLUDED ARE NO LESS THAN MYSELF, NOR AM I LESS THAN THEM BECAUSE I DON'T DO IT.....I LOVE FLASHING AND SEDUCTION IN A SEXUAL SLOW TEASING WAY, NOT ALL OF YOU DO...WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT TURN-ONS...LETS NOT JUDGE HOW ONE FEELS....IF IT FEELS GOOD TO YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AND IS LEGAL THAN ENJOY !!
ALL COMMENTS ARE WELCOME!!!! I WANTED TO GET THIS OFF MY DDD CHEST!! SMILES
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TROY0... |
January 25, 2012 (Report It)
i like your high standards and how you present your content and present yourself. i love all that you do. hugs and kisses. |
nipps... |
November 18, 2011 (Report It)
I am just happy that you share with us as much as you decide, you put the limits Lacey. Do not get upset by those comments. Bless you, sexy lady and thanks for all. |
usgrant1 |
November 16, 2011 (Report It)
You have always been upfront about who and what you are, I'm sorry that people don't understand that. I myself think that this is part of your beautiful mystery. I need nothing more than that. You remain and will always be my ideal of southern womanhood. |
xm202... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Well Luv, the only way to put it is "Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter" ; ) |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
xxxpl....LOL....I like your thoughts.....But you know what i am saying is that i didn't say that...It was taken that way, which makes me think that some do think it lowers the standards....My standards are very high, I am not ashamed of that, Its like i have always said my body is my castle, I treat it with respect...So yes that does mean none of what i mentioned for me......Having high standards meaning that I respect and set myself above doing something i dont agree with just because someone offered to pay me for doing it....
It has nothing to do with no one except myself...I was referring to myself only.....Winks & I thank you for doing my blog!!! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Miste....Ooooh but let me say that i 100% have High Standards & its a shame if you don't as well, there is nothing wrong with that, are you saying that those that pee, show face and do anal have no high standards about their self??? Such a shame i would say....I do protect myself and body from harm & doing things i personally am not comfortable with doing..
Now lets not read into what i said, for i may misunderstand what you ]were saying.....
I am not ashamed of what i said, I meant it in every way..I have High Standards, nothing wrong with that, in fact that is what drives people to do better....So you see i am taking what you are saying as I should not have High Standards ...So you see your comment could and was just as easily misread as mine was...Smiles...Thank You for doing the blog |
miste... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Well my dear sorry to say but, I was a lil taken back by that statement. Sadly in todays society its all about how people read into what you say. I know better. I also agree with Queen... sometimes its not how you say it but what you say and vice versa. I love what you do and how you do it so keep doing it till no dont feel like doing it any more. All this could have been avoided if you would have left out the whole "standard" statement. |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
gfene...I forgot to add that i do have "High Standards" does that make me a better person than anyone else?? No just means that some things i will not do, those meaning No Face "I respect my family values" on how they feel about porn.....My Standards are very high!!! I respect my body and treat it as my castle...I am picky as to whom i select to enter, so yes i do have very high standards, that has nothing to do with me thinking i am better than you ......
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busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
gfene....thank you for writing back as you didn't have to do that, I was not going to mention a name for it was not needed for that bit of info, but since you did all is fine...
I just feel that what is written from anyone is what i read it to be, I was taught not to read "between the line" for if you do somehow it will be a contorted version of what was not meant to be.....I don't judge people, the man above me does that...So what turns one on and not me, doesn't make it right nor wrong...Even the Bible can be taken from what is meant to be, others will see it in a different light...That is why i don't take what you may say and twist it to mean what others may see it
No hard feelings at all with me, I do appreciate you trying to let me see it a different way
And i thank you as well for coming to write on the blog, winks |
Strez... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Lacey don't let it upset you. I don't show my face on here and I could care less if anyone doesn't like it. You were just stating the things that you are not into and that should have been the end of the discussion. I have run across things on here that I'm not into and rather than attack or insult the people that posted it, I just move on. We are all adults and should respect the tastes of others. To each his own...as long as its legal. |
SexyC... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
I can say that I was not offended and I did not think that you were implying that you were better than others. I know people on here that do not show their face for different reasons...some because of their profession, some because they are too shy, or because it is not for them. Everyone is entitled to be who they want to be, do what they want to do without being questioned, especially if you are a GROWN ASS individual. I must play devil's advocate though, I also did not feel that the email you receive was sent in a malicious intent...he/she did that he was not sure if you meant to post it the way that you did because some people may read it in another way. B. Lacey, I love your work, and whether or not you do anal, or show your face makes no difference to me. |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Turbo....You are always in my corner supporting me, thank you for always knowing who i am and what i am about! Love you!!! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Holly....So sweet of you to say! thank you for that really sweet comment! And yes it is very sad for someone to read into something i never said or meant! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Fr33s.......Thank you so much for your comment, I am glad that you read it just as i wrote for it to be taken .....Thank You bunches! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Domet....Trust me when i say that i have never felt thay way, it is just so amazing how one's thoughts can be different than another persons...There are certain things that i am very strict with on rude & that is my never showing my face, that is the #1 thing i will never do, 2nd being never anal with me, I have had a few to offer me money to do those......That is why i said no amount of money will change my thoughts, it had nothing to do with me thinking i was better than those that do!! So thank you for being one of those for knowing me better......Means lots to me...Kisses my friend!! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Queen....Hi Queen...I was simply writing to give info out to those that don't know me...This was to let ALL persons know that this is what i will not do under no means, I had 1 man that offered to pay me $125.00 to show my face, I have had several to offer me more money to do anal for them, it was my way of saying to all I never do this, no amount of money will get me to do it.....I was speaking of myself only, not what others do here...We all have different thoughts on sex, which is sort of nice....Thank You so much for your thoughts on this!! I do appreciate you understanding them!! Smiles |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Dfont...Thank You bunches for your thoughts on this...I appreciate you supporting my feelings on this one! I just wish ppl would try not to read more than what is said in someone's words....Thank You! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Watchit....You know i think you are correct, I don't want to make a big deal from this or make it into something more than it really is..I appreciate your thoughts as i always do, and i think you are 100% correct !! Thank you for posting your thoughts!!! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Fanta.....Such a sweet person you are to give your thoughtful comments! I really didn't think what i said would offend anyone. that was not my intent at all...So i thank you again for understanding what i did say!
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Diana... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
You should know by now Lacey unfortunately there are more creeps on any website then nice people. Don't let the morons bother you. |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Pinke......Thank You bunches my friend of Rude for a long time now.....You as well as my other friends that know me here on rude knows that is not how i feel about others here...Its my thoughts ....Thank You for knowing me better
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XXXpl... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
I'm a big fan of urs but It do sound as if ur saying that people that do anal or golden showers(eww) have lower standards than u Lacey, and that was the point he was making. He could care less about what u or don't do in your videos but don't make sound as if those that do what u won't do have lower standards than u. We all selling sex so high are our standards honestly. Hiding ur face don't mean u have high standards it means u need or want some sort of privacy, either for employment, family or both. do as u please but plz don't knock those that do the things u wont. besides someone have to do the freaky deeky stuff lol. |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Mrsob....Smiles back at you....I am still upset with the way it was so turned around, I am not upset with the person that said it as much as i am with the way he misread my thoughts on it!!...Thank You as always for coming by to write and give your thoughts on it! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Steele.....How true your words are....Thank you for coming in and saying what you did, I think so many people here think that Rude is a okay thing for them so it must be for all, but not all people agree with this type of adult fun...I love what i do here, but do want to keep what i do private from my family and friends in the real world....Thank You for your support! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Bandaids....Thank you as always for supporting me on this, as you know i am not here to cause troubles with anyone......My feelings are maybe a little different from most but they are my feelings and i don't expect others to believe as i do.....Thanks for being a dear and valued friend of mine! |
busty... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Kahle.....Thank You for taking time to comment on my blog..I agree!!!! |
steel... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
I am going to keep my comment short and to the point.
People do what they want to do and the beauty of Rude is that this is place where we can all do just that.
Like someone said, "Others sometimes read things into staments made by others that just are not their". We like what we like and not showing face well thats just so understandable as I know for a fact there are some nolonger with us here at Rude because someone with so called high morals saw them, you guessed it while joining and hanging out here at Rude. And ofcouse we can guess how that went down once word in their community and family got out.
As for your use of the words Hight Standards I say anyone offended by that is just out to lunch.
Well this is not so short and to the point I guess, but must say there is no rule that says you have to do Anal, Pee, dress up like a little girl, or any of those other things that some do. Boy I wonder what would happen if I said peeing, the thought of doing a little girl, or seeing someone with a big red ball strapped in their mouth, tied down , & smaked around is a real turn off for me.
To the point Lacey, This Is Your Thing and I for one consider it a real blessing that you allow us to peek in and share your private world with us.
Just keep doing what you're doing the way you want to do it
Love you Lacey
Steel |
gfene... |
November 13, 2011 (Report It)
Well I am the person that wrote the email that got her so upset. The purpose of my email was not to get her to do something that she does not want to do. I am not interested in trying to anybody to do something that they do not want to do. What she does or does not do has no affect on me one way or the other. I was just pointing out the fact that she said she has high standards, right after saying the things that she will never do. To me it seemed as if she was implying that those who do the things she does not do have low standards. Did not think that she meant to imply that, was just pointing out that it could be read that way. She obviously does not. I am glad she clarified how she feels. |
Mrsob... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
I'm on your side. In others you do you and let them do them. Now, take a deep breath and calm down. |
dfont... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
Some people have no class my dear sexy Lacey. I understand your reasons for not showing your face considering your career and family even though would love to see your face sometime.
As far as the other stuff, we are all entitled to what we enjoy.
Just my 2 cents worth |
Fr33Sprt |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
Great blog, I understand you 100% but to be honest I always felt that some just wanna see bodies anyway then faces but I guess it all depends |
turbo... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
great blog lacey! you just be you, and dont change for no1 else! keep being smart, strong, big hearted, and sexy as hell to! |
domet... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
2 men Lacey? i am heart broken, there is no room left for another lover, boo hoo! |
domet... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
i understood what you meant when you first posted your reposts, you've never struck me as a conceited person but it's easy to be misunderstood in a post.
i've been missunderstood myself in a post so i know how you feel. |
holly... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
yep some people just dont when too stop. that make me so mad at time. but then agian it not worth it over that. but still it kind of sad. sometime they have nothing better to do with them self. well i think you are very sexy lacey. xox love hollywood |
Queen... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
These are my observations, not opinions,... I beleive there are those persons who found your original letter to be a bit harsh, elitist, and even a bit hypocritical. I don't believe that anyone was denying you your rights to your body, life, or how you wish to present yourself, here at Rude.com? To many people, regardless of whether you are a webcam performer, stage performer, peepshow performer, runway model, pornstar, or whatever other title or occupation that involves "adult entertainment", you are no different than the next. There are people who will consider you or I of a "lower standard", merely because we are women who choose to expose our bodies, in a sexual manner, outside the norm, for monetary gain ( Do you not offer erotic material for sale? ), despite education, outside occupation, or personal beliefs. It doesn't matter who shows their face or not, It doesn't matter who takes it up the bum or not. Size nor race is a factor, to these type of people. Once you put up a page, you have to expecr that there is going to be requests/demands made of you that you may not like let alone appreciate. For lack of a better term, that is the nature of the beast. Fortunately, we live in a place/society that we believe that we have rights and choices, even as women. The fact that you have a sex partner that is not your husband would automatically put you in a "lower standard".In certain societies, it wouldn't get you admired,or just shunned. It could get you stoned, shot, hung, beheaded, etc. Many women have been, are, or will be abused and violated for less and they don't even have a fan base, let alone a Rudepage!!! LOL I'm not saying that you or anyone should not have rules or standards, but we should all avoid putting a finger in each other;s eye, whether we be performer or observer or customer, but that part is just my opinion... On that note, let me just say that I've always enjoyed you and your material, azz is!!! ( Pun intended. ) |
watchit |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
Once again people read into things - funny thing is those same people miss it when you imply something about them on purpose...
I would not let someone's interpretation - which is far from what you implied - effect you...
To be honest everyone has an opinion - letting their impression of what you said get you into a debate of BS emotion - will actually excite them... Of course it's easy to turn it around on them - because the lack of intelligence their argue has will show immediately - so really you have nothing to gain by responding to this type of thing...
Just smile - thank them for their opinion and continue to be you... trust me they will continue to be them and prove all of the above over and over... and you can just watch... and say - "it just is that easy" - as they show who they are over and over...
I think i've had similar experiences with pseudo "brilliant" self proclaimed intellectually superior blowhards - but then I like their posts because it gives me a way to point out things I couldn't do otherwise ;-}
So Rock on Lacey - keep being the you - you are - and we all know the need for privacy and its value and hell just do what you like -- I like all you do ;-}}} |
Pinke... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
You know I like what you are going and if they don't like what they see or what you say then they need to move on and find someone else. |
Fanta... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
Sweetheart to each their own is what I say!! What fits in ones may not fit in another. I love how you explained yourself and maybe it was just takin the wrong way is all. But your explanation as beautiful as your body and page!!! You r a beautiful person and love seeing your material!!! Keep it up gurl!!! |
Bandaids |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
Lacey I totally agree with you. As the old saying goes "different stokes for different folks". I for one love the way you are and wouldn't want you to change who you are or what you like or dislike. And it always sucks when others read or try to read between the lines.
****Don't change who you are just so others will accept you..because eventually..you won't accept yourself**** |
kahle... |
November 12, 2011 (Report It)
Everybody has different fetishes and things that they like sexually. Just because something seems disgusting or not right to some people other people like doing it that doesn't make them any less of a person. Each to his or her own. |
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