Can you tell when she fakes her ORGASM???
9:36AM on September 20, 2009
  
How many of you men know when she is faking her orgasm, here on rude, as well in your bed? What tells you it is a fake one? What tells you it is a real O ?
We all know that men can't fake there's, women on the other hand can, I think as a woman we all have at one time are another, I know i have a few myself, not many, but yes i have... I am not in favor of it, for i love to have a strong one, and generally i can climax up to at least a half dozen times, and that includes squirting, i have squirted as many as 4 times before, one right after another, and the squirts you can't fake. Do you think the women on rude fake there's??? Do you think it is possible to cam most of the day and have pvt.s and have climax's with them all? Does it bother you when your partner fakes it? Do you think it is because of something that you did are didn't do? This is a convo that my friend and I had a week ago with some other women, what better way to find out than ask a room full of naughty men such as you, for i know you will be very open and honest, please do respond, I will reply to your post!!!! Kisses  Sexy_Lacey 
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m4z11974 |
November 18, 2009 (Report It)
please be my nurse
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watchit |
October 26, 2009 (Report It)
Guys don't really care very much if your faking... they care when and why you tell them you were faking.... or when you quit caring enough to fake convincingly... neither 1 of those things usually leads to a good out come ;-}}} |
spike... |
October 18, 2009 (Report It)
lot of women.....if somebody or someone whom u didn't love and vice versa.....faking orgasm are the way of saying that she or he done already.but if u love someone or somebody u can't fake ur orgasm.with out love nothing done...miss u bebs love u. |
Zigfr... |
September 30, 2009 (Report It)
Mmm Lacey I think I am like everyone else I do believe it is a mood swing that tells you if your partner is really turned on or is going through the motions. I think a man whats to feel the domination but also wants his partner to feel the same way. But as you have often said it depends on your mood at the time. You can feel the difference by your moves, your squeeze and of course your breathing. Really heavy and I think you have hit the jackpot, less and there is enjoyment and a 'whimper' means alright I am involved. |
jason... |
September 23, 2009 (Report It)
Nope, I cannot tell the difference to save my life. Sometimes I can tell when a woman is exaggerating her excitement, but as far as the actual orgasm, I have no way of knowing. As far as I know, they've all been genuine with me -- so that's what I prefer to think! |
Bandaids |
September 22, 2009 (Report It)
Thank you Lacey. Nothing fancy about the reply (and I could have gone on longer lol) it was just my basic gut, unrefined response to your questions. Once again interesting questions, and questions that will always draw different response depending on ones experience. |
busty... |
September 22, 2009 (Report It)
Catluv.....Wow think of the video you and i could make? The men would love it !!! I too feel as you do, I love my climax's and if i don't have them daily i am pouting some, winks!!! Thank You for responding to this one!!! |
busty... |
September 22, 2009 (Report It)
Bandaids.....I love your reply!! This is like hitting in dead center!!! All of what you have said is how i feel about it, women are strange creatures this i do know, what makes me happy one day may not be the same the next day...But you sure do know lots of this topic, wink!!! Thank You for your input & for taking time to respond! Lacey |
busty... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
Domet....I think i would for sure tell the man that i am with, especially if it will be more than the 1 time |
busty... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
Groucho.... I think you have the correct idea.... |
domet... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
i've had that happen to me, i don't think, if it did happen i would hope that she tells me later and what i should be doing to satisfy her. If she's not getting pleasure out of my performance than i would want to know so i can work on improving. Communication is important. |
along... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
i hope i can tell if not she does well at it jk the women here on rude i think most do except for the squirters that you cant fake |
breas... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
Yes I know i can tell, if you know her other than a 1 nighter than the answer is a yes for me, the women here on rude i thin k half of them fake it |
mar10... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
in my defense...
I completely agree that assuming that a womans having an orgasm based on contracting their kegel muscles is completely inaccurate. and i have seen a girl fake her orgazmic body movements. i have seen twiching stomach and leg movements that are not easily faked when reinacting these movements. from an investigative standpoint i take all these things into consideration, the body convolsing, ,muscle twiches, kegal contractions, excess fluid,sensativity, foot contractions,and breathing.
now if there is a woman out there that can mimic a full blown orgasm, so precisely and accurately shes deserves and academy award. but who would want all the orgazmic tendencies without the real full physical,mental and emotional sensation. thats just dumb. and girls shouldnt fake orgasms just for show or any reason. (except if their life or marriage depended on it) which would be for the greater good in special circumstances.
I never had a girl fake it in bed with me, she either did or did not cum. i promise you that.
secondly if they are faking orgazms on rude then its just for show or they need that special attention to get money or free shit.
but i do beleive that there are alot of women on rude who have real orgasms especially the ones who dont do it for the money and all the special attention they get from it. you can usually weed them out pretty easily.
they never ask for money, they never post (exclusive pics and videos) they dont have private shows or chat rooms. (im sure ther an exception to every rule)but if im wrong im wrong, but id like to think that theres still honest women out there who are smart ,honorable, and self confident enough to know that they dont have to fake it. they deserve the real orgasm!! they deserve to be loved,cherished and they deserve multiple orgasms!!! |
texas... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
Yes, I can tell whether a woman is faking an orgasm or not. In my opinion; if it cums to that point it is on the male for not doing his job. To keep ya woman satisfied you have to put in work. There should not be a reason for a woman to fake it if you know what you're doing.... Can't say that I've ever had that for the simple fact that I like to take the time out to explore whatever woman that I am with at the time. |
texas... |
September 21, 2009 (Report It)
Yes, I can tell whether a woman is faking an orgasm or not. In my opinion; if it cums to that point it is on the male for not doing his job. To keep ya woman satisfied you have to put in work. There should not be a reason for a woman to fake it if you know what you're doing.... Can't say that I've ever had that for the simple fact that I like to take the time out to explore whatever woman that I am with at the time. |
wormd... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
As a man I have faked cumming. Sometimes (especially with someone new) after a night out of drinking and having sex and foreplay for a couple of hours and you I havent came yet. At that point you just want to go to sleep. Flex the cock muscles a couple of times, give her the "Oh" face, act like you came and get some sleep. And I can tell when a woman is faking when I'm with her because I know when I'm just fucking for the sake of fucking(pardon my language). If I know I'm not giving my all and you're acting like its the best you ever had then I'm just not buying it. As far as ladies here on rude, if I get a private I could care less if they are faking I'm just there for the show and want to see what I want to see. You're paying for a performance just like when you go to see a movie you know who the actors are and you pay to see them act. |
luvst... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
I can tell when my g/f does and when it is just an "orgasm" versus an "Oh My God" Orgasm...yes she is very vocal. If the pond is dry more times than not she didn't...lol. She has had times when she hasn't and she told me she didn't. Some of the video's I have watched on here, they should get an academy award for the performance, but I would not say all of them. One of the biggest things is communication, if you are not getting the body reaction, I have asked before which feels better (during oral) and she would tell me. |
timec... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
I believe that many women fake their orgasms but for various reasons. Sometimes its what man isn't doing and sometimes its about what mind set a woman is in.If she wants to make the guy feel good or move on from the sex act then she might fake it. Sometimes your just not feeling what happening,especially those that go at it all day or every day online or offline. Like any "addiction" if you constantly feed it,your "tolerence" may go up (meaning you will need more and more stimuli to reach the same level). I think there are times when people put too much importance on having an orgasm every time you have sex . People become so focus on the final destination that they miss the beauty of the journey getting to that destination. I understand that many of the people out there who are hooking up with multiply partners are doing so to have great sex,but, great sex can be had without orgasms.
I think you make a mistake when you say that men can't "fake" when they have an orgasm. Just because I ejaculate doesn't mean I felt an orgasm....making nosie doesn't mean you had an orgasm,either!!
Watch for those toes to curl.....listen for a change in breathing patterns.....squirters are obviously enjoying themselves.....changes in skin tone...watch the way she behaves after the sex is done...... but most of all, just enjoy the" ride "and everything else will fall into place.
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turbo... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
i for one cant tell if a woman is faking it or not, well not yet ne way. but as for those women who constantly are n their private lobbies, i would bet, if i had chips lmao, that those women CONSTANTLY fake their orgams cause i sersoulsy doubt it that even 1 was able to have a real one cause women take atleast 22 mins to have an organsm compared ot us males for atleast 2 mins it will take for us to orgasm/cum. well im done blabbing for now.lol. great blog lacey!! |
kelaniUK |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
Lacey,
In answer to your blog hun, mainly I think the girls do blag about orgasms ?. It's all about teasing us is'nt it Lacey?.
Some women will orgasm but i think the majority are 'putting on a show' for the guys. Love viewing you, very mysterious but equally sexy and and a fantastic body.
kelaniUK |
Bandaids |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
First off let me start by saying I love the pix! And that statement is a fact and not fake ;)
The female orgasm is a wondrous thing to behold. The look in her eyes just before she cums, the feeling around your cock if you’re fucking her! Can she fake it? Of course she can and fake out the best of lovers at that. I believe most men have had lovers or one night stands that have pulled this off. Remember that for a woman the orgasm starts in the brain. In other words all that leads up to sex in the first place. There are a number of factors that will cause a woman not to have an orgasm other than for medical reasons. They range from stress to something as to something you as the male said...like call her the wrong name. She caught it, faked the orgasm and just let you cum.
As for the long time partner I think that’s a different story. For any man that pays attention and is attentive to his partner should be able to pick up on this. But again I don’t think it’s imposable for a long term partner to fake an orgasm. I now I have been told by my ex “don’t worry Hun this one is fo0r you, I’m not going to cum”. It happens a woman is not going to cum all the time, no matter what we as men do...it’s a fact of life. Guys have to understand it’s not (always) for their lack of trying, sometimes it’s just not going to happen no matter what you did prior to or during sex.
As for a partner faking orgasm would it bother me? Well yes it would if it was a long term partner most definitely as we have a lack of communication somewhere and she doesn’t feel comfortable enough that she can’t tell me “cum for me Hun, this one’s for you”. And anyone that I am going to have a, or hopefully have a long term relationship with, well it’s something to be worked on isn’t it. A relationship, married or girlfriend is always a work in progress is it not?
Now as to girls on Rude faking it well I say some of them do. Why, well for some of the reasons I mention above and for some it’s all about the money. Now don’t get me wrong when I say that. For some it’s just like me when I go to work and strap on the office chair. It’s work and just as myself or anyone else that works it’s a job and pays the rent and brings in the groceries. But none of us likes to go to work all the time, but we do. So do they fake it all the time, no I wouldn’t say so. But even when they do fake it it’s all about pleasing the client isn’t it. Just like me when I really don’t want to work on a given day or part of the day, I have to please the boss don’t I. So what do I do? Go through the motions right...I fake it. Now I use that as an example as I would nor would anyone “fake” it right?
Good blog Lacey
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grouc... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
Personally i would rather be told to up my game, then to have been faked on. I know that being in a pvt.session you may have to keep it moving so faking is part of the game, but being one on one in a bedroom is different. I look for body language, and the wettness of the Vagina. Bottom line i have my own little tricks to get the woman ready for the climax that i know about and the others that lead up to that one and after. |
busty... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
Mar10.. I think that a woman is a pro at knowing her body, and she can fake the body movements, simply because she knows what the body does do when she does have one, I can contract my "P" muscles as i buy groceries, those are called the "Kegel" muscles. So you can't go by that, in fact all women can do that anytime needed, we also use those when we need to pee, wink.. The part of you knowing when she is with you is probably so accurate, for that is what is happening... Thank You for taking time to do my blog |
busty... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
B3...I believe as you do when it comes to pleasure, i will let my partner know what feels wonderful, as well as what i don't like, I think when women fake are when they are just not in the mood, are they have not been properly tuned for the "O" And then there are some women who have never had a climax |
busty... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
Bronco..I know my husband has been able to tell with me as well, I have tried to fool him a few times before as a test, and he has figured it out, he too has his signals that tell him, Thank You for taking time to comment!! |
busty... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
K.... I sort of believe as you do about women being able to fake their orgasm, unless their partner ha been with them for a long time, then i think they would know...Thank You Karin for taking time to comment on this .. |
Cathe... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
I'm sure there are women on here who fake but I'm not one of them. I have faked in the past but I will not anymore. I have had guys ask me to "hurry up" in private and I have learned to do that but it is not nearly as enjoyable when I'm rushed. My orgasms are much stronger when I can take my time (which doesn't usually take very long anyway). I'm like you Lacey...I'm a squirter and I can have one orgasm after another without a lot of time in between.
This was a great idea for a topic! |
Tweety79 |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
I have become extremely close to a few ladies here that I do a lot of one on one camming with and in intimate conversation they have said that in their shows or live houses the orgasm is just for show or tips. When we cam together they say it is real but being in front of a cam is the wrong place to decide if it was real or fake. I am supposing that some of the female orgasms I have experienced may have been fake but they were still passionate and very exciting. Yes Lacey you are right that we men can't fake our orgasms but I think after the third or fourth time I cum along with my partner....fake is not what I see. Brilliant question my lady....I await to see what the consensus is here. In the meantime....the orgasm I had to your flix was very real and very hot and I am sure by what the video showed.....you weren't faking dear! xoxoxo |
B3Y0NDER |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
Yea it would REALLY bother me if my partner faked it. More likely than not i would think it was my lack of performance (perfect reason NOT to fake it) and why would you want your partner to think that. Aren't i here to get u off? Guys don't let women get away with a poor performance ( we'll show/tell a woman how to suck that dick with no hesitation). So why essentially LIE to your man? If i'm here to bust ass and i'm not, then i need and want to know how to step my game up so i can fuck you into oblivion like i'm supposed to. I have talked to women about this before (all of them black) and ALL of them expect a man to know how to fuck them how they like.As if I like the way you sucked your last DICK! Probably not since i like teeth and i like to have my dick sucked until my abdomen hurts and its a lil painful to cum. But how would you know that? I dont expect you to. COMMUNICATION PEOPLE. As far as rude videos go 99.999999% of the shit I watch is squirting (its a real obsession). Fake that and i can guarantee you an emmy,golden globe, oscar, AVN and a fucking cable ace award, (do they still give those?) |
mar10... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
in all honesty here on rude almost all the girls, women get some great close up shots of their pussy when they do play and you can see the juice ,squirt and their holes contract and their bodies shake when they do cum. thats more than enough eveidence for me that its real, if i dont see any of that it's plausable they are faking. i never had a girl "fake it" when a girl cums on your dick you feel it, (unless shes loose ) or cums in your mouth you taste it and they produce more fluid.not squirt amount but there is a difference and a convolsing body id imagine would be hard to fake, if it is faked it would be very obvious. ive seen enough (production porn and real life stuff to notice a difference)all in all in my experience a girl wont cum as opposed to trying to fake it. we just chalk it up as one for me and i owe her one, but I always try to satisfy my woman first then it makes my orgasm so much better.but sometimes she feel too damn good and its hard to not cum!!
im sure if they do fake it its done with good intentions. unless its high dollar production shit where they are just acting.im not sure if thats the answer or direction you were looking for, if not feel free to ask me any question and i'll answer it with 100% honesty and from my personal experience and perspective. |
MIZZ_K |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
I do not think a Man can tell when a Female fakes it. For one we do know our Body any we do know how it feels and how we act when we have an Orgasm. So its not hard for us to act like we had one |
bronc... |
September 20, 2009 (Report It)
I can tell when my gf does. Her sounds are real soft, so I really tell from how her body acts. Does a certain way whenever she does have one |
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