Being a mom and a part time web cam girl
7:18AM on October 02, 2008
I know a lot of us girls on here are moms - and sometimes it feels like double duty -- well I guess it is. :-)
It is interesting - I often run into a conflict within my own head about what I want my child to know about sex. Do I ever want my child to learn about this side of my life? Part of me thinks - there is nothing to be ashamed of, why should I hide who I am. Then another part - and this is the more dominant part - says -- no way in HELL will he/she know what I do, at least not until he/she is much older and can make mature decisions about sex.
So what happens when one day my child is at school and a friend shows him/her a picture of me they found on the 'net? How do you respond to that? In the same way you would if your child walked in on you and your mate getting busy? That is the way I lean -- I believe in being open and honest with my child, otherwise you are just a hypochrite, which is a title I have always loathed.
I still have time, as my child is only 3 (soon to be 4) - but time goes by fast, and I know -- and it is just something I keep in mind. I don't think I will ever stop doing this kind of stuff part time - as I enjoy it, and it is the main reason I continue -- I just try to wrap my mind around how these two sides of my life can work together :-).
So - any parents out there have opinions on this? Or have already been 'discovered' and worked it out? I am curious to know. :-)
XOXO
Misha
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