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Curiosity.
4:28PM on January 23, 2009
The definition of CURIOSITY as most of us understand is simply this... the desire to learn or know about anything; inquisitiveness.
As a sensualist, I find myself curious about everything and everyone. When it comes to people, it starts from the first interaction. Movement, style, sense of humor, mood, demeanor, conversation... I watch. The things that I see, hear and notice provoke certain curiosities about that individual.
My mind begins to wonder about the essence of a person's persona. What makes them tick? What extracted their sex appeal? Why do they speak in the manner in which they do? What are their insecurities and how were they established? What makes them feel loved, respected, desired? All in all, what are the experiences that have framed this person into who they are?
People become human puzzles. Their history, passions, relationships, sexuality and all sorts of details become the pieces. With time, those pieces form a picture. That picture helps me to frame that person's dynamic in my life. The most beautiful of human puzzles push my curious nature into a state of FASCINATION... That will be the next blog. (hehe)
Sexual curiosity for me starts out the same. Chemistry often can get the ball rolling. Chemistry can create interest. Interest is enough to generate some flirtation. Most flirtations can be short lived. Others make me curious. What are the determining factors? All I can say is that for me, it is specific to the person in which I am interacting.
I wonder what are the things about a person that creates curiosity in you. What generates your interest...even down to the sexual? I hope you will share with me. I'm...CURIOUS. lol
Please comment and rate!
Smooches,
TQ
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domet... |
April 07, 2009 (Report It)
one of the first things i notice is how a woman carries herself through her expression of movement or in this case her written musings. i believe it shows how she feels about herself and her views on the outside world. i believe one can experience the essence of a woman's flow making it exciting to ride the wave when it blows in my direction. sometimes i have to set aside being a "horn dogg" for mental stimulation which can be just as arousing with the right person.
I know i can fall in love or lust with a woman totally by how she carries herself
by just watching her, i met my first girlfriend that way in college but just falling
for her essence and just following it anywhere, i guess that's what true love supposed to be before things get complicated. |
LV_2_... |
March 01, 2009 (Report It)
I agree with cujo it someones smarts like to me is the way they put words together the way they think the way they find thing funny. also the booty lol |
gilbe... |
February 02, 2009 (Report It)
Well stated T... I enjoy people of all walks of life and style, especially if they are eccentric or different. The only people I cannot handle are the "It's all about me" type. |
SKILLZ |
January 29, 2009 (Report It)
For me,I think curiosity can be a (good) or a (bad) thing,depended on what a person is curious about.I know i am a very curious person in the real world,i am always trying to take myself and my family to new heights with my curiosity. In the past,curiosity knocked me on my ass lol...BUT lord behold curiosity struck me again,but this time curiosity paid off for me and my family and we are reaching new heights....Now for the sexual part about curiosity,yes i am very curious about some of these ladies here on rude and outside of this site..And yes you are right,some can be a passing faze and then there are others,OH SHIT curiosity strikes again...I guess being curious will make curiosity live forever... |
Seaso... |
January 29, 2009 (Report It)
looking at you hot damn may i smoke you? |
Tasty... |
January 27, 2009 (Report It)
What a great topic! You are great at putting my thoughts into words lol. It does go so much deeper than a voyeuristic nature. I didn't even realise all that was being analyzed in my mind as I watch people and "take them in" so to speak. Even better is watching other people in their curiosity. One aspect that you bring to this anonymous Rude world very well, as you let us in on what you are looking at and perving on as we perv and watch you. Can't wait for FASCINATION! |
cowbo... |
January 26, 2009 (Report It)
I have to admit to being a people watcher. I have been for as long as I can remember. My curiosity involves the human condition. Don't confuse people watching with voyerism.. there is a big difference. People watching involves more than just looking at a nude body or peeping where you shouldn't. It is an art form... I observe people and figure them out just by their actions and the way they deal with others.
Here is a simple test to find a truely happy person... Smile at 10 random people... if they smile right back they are happy. If they look at you for a second and then smile back they are faking it.
That is how I spend my free time. |
Cujo_III |
January 26, 2009 (Report It)
Number 1 curiosity for "I", is a person's "Intellectual Properties" If they have maintain these properties Well, All of the things mention in the first pat of U blog And More ...can and will be discussed at Great length, because: (Yes... You may be able to understand the words that are coming out of "I" mouth... but can you OVERstand the words that are coming out of "I" mouth?) If the answer is yes, the "we" can move to the next. As far as sexual curiosity.... Thee "I"s question is usually "Whats your limits... and can the "we" test them?" If the answer is yes, the "we" can move on to the next. |
MrGra... |
January 26, 2009 (Report It)
Hmm...Curiosity. It either gets us out of trouble or into it, you know? It builds friendships and/or even relationships. I guess it just depends on the level of interest. I can't wait to see what you have to say about fascination. |
docporno |
January 25, 2009 (Report It)
curiousity is what got us out of the caves, made us make fire and got us into the missionary position...it also got us the nuclear bomb, reality TV and lead to the unforgivable forwarding of '2 girls 1 cup' so its a bit of a dbl edged sword...my curiosity in how people 'tick' has been a definite driving force in my life (not to mention a source of constant frustration) but at the end of the day, Curiousity is what makes us strive to LEARN....however, what im MOST curious about is what makes TaQ so crazy : ) |
RDicks90 |
January 24, 2009 (Report It)
I think you got it all covered T...Great blog. Now I'm curious.lol |
derek... |
January 24, 2009 (Report It)
I Hate to be pedant, but your definition of curiosity is careless. You can be selective in your curiosity. Indeed, not only can you be, everyone is. Even those who try to cultivate broad interests (whether for the purposes of winning Sara's twisted triva or name that tune shows, or for it's own sake, or to impress potential sexual partners), some things, and certain people, hold no interest for us. As far as sexuality is concerned, the term bi-curious would be meaningless if it applied to everyone who had not gone beyond that stage. There would be no such thing as fetishes if every single fetish was of interest to each and every one of us. As far as sexuality is concerned, we push our own personal boundaries as we mature. This is part of the game of life. We do this partly in search of the exotic, to escape boredom. We might do so to impress a partner or potential partner. Even attempting to understand what makes ourselves tick is a daunting task, because of the complexity of our lives. And that's why there's a demand for trick cyclists. If there are five million plus members of this site, then there are five million unique stories that explain those individuals. |
TaQuilla |
January 24, 2009 (Report It)
Haha! Well ya know Sara... they say satisfaction bought it back. And cats do have 9 lives. Use them carefully. lol |
jayma... |
January 24, 2009 (Report It)
that blog relaxed me |
Slut_... |
January 24, 2009 (Report It)
You know what they say about curiosity right...so the simple logistics of my mind would logically jump to If curiosity killed the Cat, what does sexual curiosity do?...Maybe I should find out! |
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