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the way that i want to touch you.
7:46AM on July 20, 2009

I paced the floors outside the USAir boarding gates at the Airport. "Damn" I whispered for the umpteenth time in the past half hour. Heightened security measures wouldn't allow me to wait outside the gate itself. Only ticketed passengers were allowed beyond the checkpoint. It had been weeks since I'd last seen you and the closer to your arrival time it got, the slower the clock seemed to move. Once again, I looked at the monitor. The flight hadn't arrived, but was still on time. At least that was a plus.

A small crowd of families and friends filtered in to meet loved ones. Children ran from window to window squealing "I see Daddy's airplane!". I smiled as I watched, feeling as much excitement as they, but also frustration at having to wait at the end of a hallway that stretched forever. Finally the monitor changed the plane's status to "IN" and I joined the children at the windows. I knew that I had no way to tell which plane was yours, but it beat pacing. Before long the first of the passengers trickled down the hall and in spite of the fact that my eyes were above most of the crowd, I craned my neck to search.

Grandparents were met with hugs; lovers by passionate kisses; fathers and mothers with smiling faces and feet that just wouldn't stay still. The hallway thinned as the crowds drifted off to the luggage carrousels. But still I hadn't spotted you. I felt the first twinge of concern as I saw the flight crew walking toward me, already planning an evening on the town.  Finally, there you were. Smiling, you walked toward me, your progress like drinking honey through a straw. As you passed through security, you dropped your carry on bag and flew into my arms. Our lips meeting with the pressures of pent up passion and weeks of need.

When we broke our embrace, we were alone. "God, I've missed you! Let's get your luggage, I can't wait to get to the Inn." I whispered as I breathed deeply of your perfume.

Your suitcase was the only one remaining and we arrived just in time to claim it from the airline's security people. Hand in hand we hurried to the car and as I finished putting your things in the trunk with mine I felt soft hands on my back caressing me gently but urgently. I closed the trunk as those hands wound around my waist, one moving to my chest, the other to the tent in my pants.  You sighed and leaned your head on my back as your hands lingered on more sensitive parts. "It's been too long, honey." You whispered.
I turned in your arms, took your chin in my fingers and lifted your lips to mine once more. This kiss was slower, and spoke of love as well as need. We held each other a few moments more, then parted with a sigh.

The drive to the  ferry was a little over an hour and along the way we talked and touched and teased and made plans for the weekend. The rest of the world was forgotten. We boarded the ferry to Martha's Vineyard and found seats on the top deck, forward. It was a beautiful June day and the heat of the sun only added to the fire that burned inside us both. We weren't the only couples locked in each other's arms, but it wouldn't have mattered if we were.  As the ship throttled back to into dock  we moved to the exit with purpose. At the end of the long wooden pier, we decided to walk the two blocks to the bed & breakfast that I'd chosen rather than wait for a taxi.

The inn was a quaint Victorian house, just across the road from the beach, with the friendliest staff imaginable. The owner showed us to the Tivoli Room on the second floor. She'd told us that it was the best room in the house, and didn't exaggerate. With obvious pride, she showed us around the well appointed room and spacious bath, then quickly, left us with a smile and an invitation to tea on the terrace. The door had hardly stopped moving before I took you in my arms. Our kisses were heated, our breathing heavy. My hand cupped your breast and I felt a small shudder and soft sigh. Even through your clothing I could feel your nipple; as hard as my cock.  You then gave a gentle push. We fell together into the bed and it triggered a frenzy of unbuttoning, unzipping, untying and flying articles of clothes. We were naked in seconds and exploring each other's bodies.

My hand again found your soft, warm breast. My thumb teased the nipple even harder and the moan I tasted in our kiss was delicious. My kisses moved across your cheek as my fingertips stroked your breast as softly as a whisper, ending each stroke by caressing the nipple and squeezing it gently. My lips moved to your neck and the smell of your perfume filled my senses again.  My tongue traced a line across your shoulder; my teeth playfully nibbled the fleshy muscle at the base of your neck and your moans told me I hadn't forgotten the spot. I followed your collar bone to the hollow at the base of your throat and licked from there to your chin. I knelt above you and kissed your chin, your left cheek, your right cheek, your eyes and the tip of your nose.

I kissed your throat again, lower and lower until my face was between your breasts. I could feel their fire on my cheeks and I used both hands to press them tightly against me. I turned my head left and right, allowing my lips to drag across your soft skin from the base of each orb to the crinkled tip. Back and forth, my mouth opening wider with each pass, my tongue seeking the stiff treat my lips felt. At last, my tongue circled your nipple. "Mmmmm!" you sighed as I inhaled you into my mouth.

I moved to your side and watched my fingers stroll down your tummy, toying with your navel and feeling the short, curly hairs just below. I flattened my palm on your mons and rubbed slow circles. You lifted your hips to press against me harder and my fingers touched the smooth skin of your pussy's lips.  My fingers moved up and down, pressing into you with every stroke. Your legs separated like they had a will of their own and you moaned each time I touched your clit. My finger was coated with your juices. I brought it to my tongue and sucked it clean and you smiled as you watched. I dipped my finger in you once again and coated your lips with your wetness. Then I kissed you, my tongue dancing across your lips seeking the wonderful tastes of you.  My need for you was overpowering and with our lips till together, I moved atop you. My cock found what it wanted and slowly entered. We both sighed as our pelvises touched and I rubbed against you.

Civilization dropped from us and we made uninhibited love. Your teeth bared as the tiger I love to see took control of you and you grunted with each stroke. Our hips were alive, pistoning up and down, round and round. I felt your heels slam into my ass, raising you from the bed to meet me. I saw the approach of your orgasm as I felt my own take control of me. The clamping of your pussy was all I needed to push me over the edge and we both came in wave after wave of pleasure and animal sounds.  I felt your legs loosen their grip as my cock softened inside you. I lowered myself to kiss you and felt the slipperiness caused by the sweat that poured from us both. Our breathing returned to normal slowly and the slight breeze was enough to chill our wet bodies. I felt you shiver slightly and with another kiss, I stood and pulled you to the bathroom and a warm shower. We played in the warm water till it started to run cool, then toweled each other dry. So, we decided to walk along the beach so I dressed in shorts and T-shirt. You donned shorts and a bikini top that looked absolutely wonderful.

"Oh, God!" you said as you looked in the mirror, "I can't wear this in public!"

I laughed and said "Why not? You look beautiful in it." We left the room before you had a chance to think about it too much and crossed the road to the beach. We took our shoes off at the edge of the sand and walked to the water, intending to wade along the shore. "Brrrr" we both said as the cold Atlantic washed over our feet. We decided that perhaps the warm sand was a better choice.

We held hands as we walked the beach. From time to time you'd bend to pick up a shell, examine it, pass judgment and return it to the sea. With the cold waters, we had the beach to ourselves and we enjoyed each other, the sounds of the waves and sea birds.  And we spent the day walking through town acting like the tourists we were. We shopped for souvenirs, we sat at an outdoor cafe and had a soda as we picked out the houses that we'd like to live in.

Still holding onto each other, we walked to the breakwater, a line of large stones sticking into the ocean. We walked out a ways and sat side by side, arm in arm, watched the boats go by and talked. Before we knew it, the sun began to set and the view was breathtaking.  With the setting sun, the breeze got cooler and we got hungry, for food as well as each other. On the way back to the inn, we checked out the menus by the doors of the restaurants and decided on the Oyster Bar. Neither of us was dressed for dinner so we made reservations and headed back to our room.

We undressed each other, taking turns removing an article of clothes as sensuously as possible. I removed the bikini top and cupped your breasts. You pulled my T-shirt over my head, ran your hands across my chest and sucked on my nipples. I knelt before you and removed your shorts and panties and nuzzled the small patch of fur I'd exposed.  I stood as you knelt to return the favor. I felt your lips in my pubic hair as your chin moved my cock back and forth. It rubbed against your throat and tapped the underside of you your chin with each heart beat.

"Mmmm. I like that!" I told you, as your hand slid up my leg to cup my balls.

You looked up at me and said "How `bout this?" and pulled your head back slowly, my cock sliding along the underside of your chin. Suddenly it sprang before your lips and tongue and you licked the precum from the tip. You lips parted and I saw my cock slowly disappear into your mouth until your nose once again touched my hair.

"Oh, yes" I moaned, trying not to thrust my hips into you. I felt your hands reach around my legs and grab my ass for leverage and you moved your head back and forth, sucking me like never before. The sight of you inhaling my cock and the delicious slurping sounds was almost too much.

Just as I was about to step beyond the point of no return, I felt you loosen your grip on me. I heard my cock POP out of your mouth with a kissing sound and you smiled, knowing the torture you were putting me through.

You moved toward the bed where you knelt on the edge and the sexy wiggle of your ass was all I needed to see. My hands caressed your ass as I slid my wet cock up and down your pussy. I felt the heat of your pussy on my cock head and was drawn to it. I watched as I entered you, smoothly and without stopping until I saw your ass shake with the impact of my hips.

"Mmmm, now THAT'S what *I* like!" you cooed. Your hips and mine found a rhythm. I changed positions from time to time to rub the length of my cock along your clit, drawing a sigh from your lips and a shudder from inside you.

I could feel your orgasm, as always, starting deep within. I pressed my thumb against your ass and pounded my cock in and out as fast and hard as I could.

"YES, Fuck me. I'm cumming!"

Your breasts were swaying wildly from your motion and the sudden impact of our bodies. I transferred my grip to your hips and pulled you into me, harder and harder. I felt you cum. I heard you cum. I came too.

"UGH! I'm CUMMING! UGH, UGHHHH"

The world stopped as our hearts pounded and our breath came in gasps. I stood staring at the ceiling, my eyes closed as if praying for the moment to endure. You dropped your head to the bed and pushed against me one last time.

"That was fantastic!" we said together. Then laughed. My cock softened and I pulled it from you slowly, all shiny and wet with both of our juices. You turned, sat on the edge of the bed and reached out with your finger to catch some of the liquid for a taste.

"Mmmm, a delicious appetizer!"

Once again you took me into your mouth and sucked me clean. Then you stood before me and we kissed. I could taste our sex on your lips and tongue and you were right, it WAS a delicious appetizer.  One hunger sated, we washed and dressed and walked to the restaurant to satisfy another.  I'm not sure how you did it, but before I knew it, I was eating raw oysters on the half shell and enjoying it. But it was nothing to compare with the rest of the dinner. It was fabulous! As we enjoyed the feast, we talked to catch up on the time we were apart, we sipped a wonderful wine the steward had suggested and we smiled into each other's eyes. When coffee and dessert were finished, we strolled back to the inn in the light of a nearly full moon.

Our lovemaking that night was tender and slow. We lay in the bed kissing and caressing each other, building the fires slowly this time. We told each other of our love without speaking a word and our sighs mingled with the breeze blowing in the windows.  We slept the sleep of contented souls that night. My arm was across your tummy when my eyes opened the next morning. I felt you stir and said "I had the most wonderful dream last night. I dreamed we were on an island paradise together."

"That was no dream, love. It's really happening." you smiled and dozed off again to finish the dreams you were enjoying.

I left you sleeping and dressed enough to go downstairs for coffee. I made a fresh pot in the kitchen and carried two mugs upstairs. I found you, the blanket around you like a toga, on our private deck outside our room and sat beside you.  We then sipped the hot coffee and discussed the empty house next door. We talked about how we could fix it up, what colors to use and what changes to make. You'd found some journals next to the bed and brought them out with you. They were written by lovers that shared the room before us and told of the wonderful times they had here. We read them to each other, smiling at the things they talked about. The chill morning breeze drove you inside as I wrote our entry, telling future guests some of the wonders we've discovered.  We headed for the shower and bathed each other till our skin wrinkled. We dressed for our last day in paradise and went downstairs to breakfast. The breakfast our hostess had prepared was wonderful. We ate well and set out for adventure.

Since the water was much too cold to swim in, we decided to rent mopeds and explore the island. After some faltering lessons on our pint-sized mounts, we headed toward  the other side of the island. Traffic wouldn't allow us to ride side by side, so you blazed the trail. I was surprised when you turned off the main road but the less busy road and the beautiful farms were a welcome sight to us both.  We stopped from time to time to enjoy the beauty or just stretch our legs. Martha's Vineyard isn't a large island, but the mopeds were slow going.  Once such stop was near a newly mown field on a road to nowhere. We pulled to the side of the road, behind an ancient stone wall. We could see the farmer mowing the next field over, or rather we saw the machines moving about. Sitting sideways on your seat, you took off your helmet and shook your hair loose. I walked over and put my arms around you, standing between your knees. Your lips sought mine and the kiss would have melted an iceberg. Perhaps it was the vibration of the moped, but you were unmistakably horny and the realization stiffened me immediately.

My hand went to the back of your neck and I drew my fingers along it from your scalp to your shoulders. Your hand went to my chest and I could feel my heart beating against your palm as your fingers tickled my tiny nipples.  Our lips still together, I cupped your breast and squeezed softly. Your hand rubbed the bulge in my jeans and we both moaned softly. I heart the ziiiip of my jeans opening and your hand felt cool against my hard cock. It lay in your cupped hand and you massaged me from the tip to my balls. I moaned again.

I put my hand on your thigh and slid my fingers under the hem of your shorts. The leg openings were large and allowed me easy access to you. I felt your panties, wet and sticking to your shaved skin. My thumb pressed against your clit and moved back and forth.

"Fuck me, baby!" you said "Here! Now!"

You stood and moved to the waist high wall. You glanced at the farmers in the next field and smiled. You pulled your shorts and panties to your ankles then bent to lean against the wall. I stood behind you and rubbed the head of my cock against your pussy to get it as wet as you were. I pushed the head into you and moved it up and down. You pushed back against me and I pushed until my pubic hair brushed your ass.  I pulled back slowly and tightened my ass to slam back into you. I varied the speed and power of my thrusts and left just the head of my cock inside you one time. You looked back at me and with a snarl you took over. I put my hands on my hips and watched your ass vibrate with each thrust.

You arched your back and tried to stifle the cry as your last thrust pushed you too far. I felt your hot cum on my cock and slid my hips back and forth slowly, watching your whole body vibrate.  I was very close to my own orgasm when you collapsed to your knees. You turned around and gulped my cock, fucking me with your mouth. I held your head in my hands and moved my hips slowly, barely in sync with you. Your hand went between my legs and I felt your finger on my ass. It pushed in and out just enough.

"I'm cumming!" I warned. You either didn't hear or didn't care for you increased your pace. As you felt my cock swell as it prepared to explode, you pushed me deeper into your throat and swallowed my cum as fast as I could give it to you. You didn't stop sucking till I softened in your mouth.  I guess my cries as I came were louder than I thought. We heard a horn behind us and turned to see the lights on the farmer's tractor flashing off and on. We realized that he was too far away to see much and it struck us as funny. I helped you to your feet and we both bowed in that direction, pulled up our pants, donned our helmets and hit the road, still laughing at our brazen performance.

From time to time I'd see you shake your head as we rode as if to question your sanity, but still you smiled.  The smiles were still on our faces as we pulled into a little deli for lunch. As we got off the bikes you almost fell over from laughing and I couldn't help but join you. We got some strange looks from the family sitting at the picnic tables, but I suspect they were nothing compared with the looks they'd give us if they knew WHY we were laughing.  I sat next to you at the table and as my weight hit the bench, the table started tipping. I managed to stand before we both hit the floor with our meals, but it started the laughing all over again. As we ate, we talked about the things we'd seen: the gorgeous little house near the beach, the flowers growing wild in the field nearby and the miles of woodlands; anything but that farmer's field.

The rest of the day was blissfully peaceful. We walked the cliffs high above the ocean and sat on a huge rock and watched the ships sail past and the clouds drift by. The breeze turned chilly and we thought we'd better head back `home'.  Still following your lead, we took a different route back to the inn. The clouds grew ominous and the air quite cool before we got back  to turn in the bikes. We stopped for cappuccino to warm us and noticed the first drizzle of rain starting to fall.

We made the inn just as the occasional sprinkle turned into a hearty shower and by unspoken agreement, went to the swing on the porch. My arm kept you warm as we watched the rain and listened to it's pattering on the roof. It muted every sound around us and added to the feeling that this was our private world.  The sky grew dark and lightning flashed. We kissed and looked into each other's eyes and yours would sparkle with each heavenly flash. The wind changed directions and blew the cold rain on us so we abandoned the swing, damp of body, but not of spirit.

Back in our room, I lit the candles next to the bed and barely got the covers pulled down before you were undressed and shivering. You crawled into bed and waited for me to warm you.  I laid beside you and you drifted into my arms. Like the night before, we took our time. Our kisses were softer and slower, our caresses tender. I slid my hand up and down your back, feeling the softness of your skin. My hand lingered on you butt and my fingers moved up and down between your cheeks.  You lifted your leg on top of mine and raised your knee. My hand caressed your thigh and I felt the heat at the top of it. Constantly moving, my fingers barely touched you at first, then I increased the pressure entering your private domain a little more each pass.  You were incredibly wet. My fingers slid in and out with the wet sounds I love to hear. Your sigh was felt against my lips more than heard as I rubbed the hard nub of your clit, feeling it grow beneath my fingers. My cock swelled and rubbed against your tummy as I slowly moved my hips. I felt your hand snake between us to stroke me.

I started to rise and move on top of you. You placed your hand on my chest and told me "Uh uh, it's my turn, lover."

You pushed me to my back and straddled me. My cock was pinned beneath you and I felt your pussy lips part to slide on either side of it. You slid slowly back and forth, coating me with your wetness. You were sitting up, your hands on my chest smiling as you moved.  Without warning, I felt myself slip inside of you. The soft, wet heat surrounded me and you just sat there, not moving for a long time. Your eyes were closed and your lips smiling.

"God, this feels so good!" you said softly then started to move your hips in circles above me. Your movements started out slow and long and occasionally you'd stop again and press down onto me. But before long you increased the pace of your hips as well as your breathing.  I cupped your breasts in my hands and gently squeezed your nipples.

"Ohhhh, Yes" was what I imagined I heard, too quiet to be certain.

Your hips moved with less control now. Faster and shorter movements. Constantly changing position, chasing the pleasure from one spot to another. I tugged gently on your breasts, quietly asking you to bend down. I held your breasts together and licked your nipples as you rubbed the length of my cock along your clit.  I was getting close to cumming when I felt the first tremor in you. I sucked your nipple into my mouth and my hips joined yours, torturing the bedsprings.

Both of our breathing was ragged. Each knew the other was close, but wanted to stretch out the pleasure we were feeling.  Suddenly you couldn't hold back any longer. "I'm cumming, baby" you said as you bit your lip. The lightning flashed and the thunder rolled, both outside the windows and inside of you as your orgasm raced through your entire body. You sat upright, tossed your head back and tried to suck all of the air from the room. Your hips pounded into me.

"Ugh! I'm cumming!" I cried and thrust my hips up into you with each spurt of pleasure.

"UUGGGHH! UUGH!" The final spasms left me and took all my energy with them. I felt my body go limp then felt yours slowly lay atop me, your head on my chest.

We laid together like that for a long time catching our breath and listening to the thunder drift out to sea. You finally lifted your face and kissed me softly. "I love you, Troy." you whispered.

"I know!" I smiled. "And I love you too, Cindy!"

You rolled to my side and was asleep in seconds. I lay there watching you and drifted off to sleep hearing your words echo inside my mind. We may be leaving in the morning, but I promised myself that we'd return some day and capture some more magic in the room by the sea. 

Thank You
11:34PM on April 14, 2009

If the sun refused to shine, I would still be loving you.
If the mountains should crumble to the sea, there would still be you and me.

Kind woman, I give you my all, Kind woman, nothing more.

Little drops of rain whisper of the pain, tears of loves lost in the days gone by.
But my love is strong, with you there is no wrong,
together we shall go until we die. My, my, my.
Inspiration's what you are to me, inspiration, look... see.

And so today, my world it smiles, your hand in mine, we walk the miles,
Thanks to you it will be done, for you to me are the only one.
Happiness, no more be sad, happiness....I'm glad.
If the sun refused to shine, I would still be loving you.
If the mountains should crumble to the sea, there would still be you and me.

Thank You by Led Zeppelin

sunflower
1:45PM on February 03, 2009

If this world were a flower garden
And your smiling face a flower therein
Sunflower, with the golden hair
I would know you anywhere
I could visit you in moonlight
Wouldn’t make no difference, in the darkness you shine bright
Sunflower, with the eyes of blue
I’d do everything just for you

Sunflower makes me sing
Of the joy you bring to me

And we could make this world a flower garden
I would take you in my arms and then
Sunflower, I will take you there
It’ll be our garden everywhere

All the joy you bring
Sunflower makes me sing

And if this world were a flower garden
And your smiling face a flower therein
Sunflower with the eyes of blue
I’d do everything just for you

by C & K

A Hot Summer's Day
11:10AM on January 21, 2009

when i think of you
10:50AM on January 21, 2009

My mind becomes a haze of wants and desires. My body heats up, my nipples become erect, and a sweet pain swirls deep inside me. My mind races in its imagination of your searching touch, as your fingers leave trails of fire across my flesh. The vision of your eyes lost in my mind with your desires locked deep inside, these images are sending me deeper into my body’s search for your touch.

The sweet tingling sensation becomes a deep needing ache. My body yearns so badly for its release, its ultimate need of you! My cloths become a heap on the bedroom floor as the switch is flipped to darkness. I lie back into the comforts of the warmth of the bed as my soul’s emptiness explodes in need.

I yearn for your kiss as I can only imagine the deep passion of its embrace against my mouth. I yearn for your touch as I can only hope your fingers find there journey delightful as my mind screams out “Touch me, oh please just touch me!!”

I hear the pounding of my need for your touch as the storm adds comfort to my emptiness. It is just the rain, and the vibration of the thunder, but it is movement beyond my own, and it allows me to not feel as alone.

I explore my body with my own hands, pretending they belong to you. Experience the feel of your journeys in my mind. Knowing the softness of my skin will
tingle to your touch as it is now tingling to mine. Knowing that my body will react to your needs as you explore them with me. Knowing that for a moment we will become one and it will be beyond anything I could ever imagine.

The rumble of thunder across the sky matches the vibration of my body; my fingers are working urgently to find the release of my desires. I need to feel you with me now the deep ache becoming a heated quest. The darkness now full of images of two bodies united in needs. The swirl of desires crashing violently over my body as I cry out your name.

My body’s release so close, but yearning for more. Oh, the sweet need of your touch. Crashing around the closeness of a climax my mind feels the deep heat as it consume my body with it quest of a brilliant release. My body shivers to the release as the fluids rush, and then moments later I lie there in warm wetness of my own release. My body content and motionless as my mind still thinks of you.

quotations
10:46AM on January 18, 2009



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Sometimes I think the surest sign that intelligent life exists elsewhere in the universe is that none of it has tried to contact us.

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Time is natures way of making sure everything doesnt happen at once.

--Anonymous


More than any other time in history, mankind now faces a crossroads. One path leads to despair and utter hopelessness. The other, to total extinction. Let us pray we have the wisdom to choose correctly.

--Woody Allen


It is bad luck to be superstitious.

--Andrew Mathis


Instead of getting married again, Im going to find a woman I dont like and just give her a house.

--Lewis Gizzard


Sometimes you can observe a lot by watching.

--Yogi Berra


I think its unfair that only one company makes the game Monopoly.

--Steven Wright


See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time.

--Robin Williams


One should never lose hope. Homosexuality can strike any straight man at any age.

--Roger Peyrefitte


All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others.

--George Orwell


If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball and saving an infants life, she will choose to save the infants life without even considering if there is a man on base.

--Dave Barry


If women are so smart, why do they dance backwards?

--Steve McGarrett


I saw George Bush at a benefit concert actually waving at Stevie Wonder. Someone had to tell him, He cant see you.

--Anne Robinson


Karaoke bars combine two of the nations greatest evils: people who shouldnt drink with people who shouldnt sing.

--Tom Dreesen


The trick to flying is to throw yourself at the ground and miss.

--Douglas Adams


If homosexuality is a disease, lets all call in queer to work. Hello, cant work today. Still queer.

--Robin Tyler


He was about as useful in a crisis as a sheep.

--Dorothy Eden


When a gay man comes up to me and says, I love the show, I know that hes coming on to me. I say thank you and I make out with him. But only for a minute, no longer, because I am straight.

--Eric McCormack (Will & Grace)


The greatest thing since they reinvented unsliced bread.

--William Keegan


I dont even consider myself bisexual. Frankly, I just think of myself as a people person.

--Michael Dane


Dont look now, but theres one too many in this room and I think its you.

-- Groucho Marx


I like long walks, especially when they are taken by people who annoy me.

--Fred Allen


Why cant they have gay people in the army? Personally, I think they are just afraid of a thousand gay guys with M16s going, Whod you call a faggot?

--John Stewart


That young girl is one of the least benightedly unintelligent organic life forms it has been my profound lack of pleasure not to be able to avoid meeting.

--Douglas Adams


What do people mean when they say the computer went down on them?

--Marilyn Pittman


Sex is like bridge: If you dont have a good partner, you better have a good hand.

--Charles Pierce


I woke up when I was 14 and went to speak to my mother and scared us both to death.

--Barry White (on the moment he acquired his deep, velvety voice)


I dont know, darling - he never sucked my cock.

--Tallulah Bankhead (on being asked if a certain acquaintance of hers was gay)


I discovered I scream the same way whether Im about to be devoured by a Great White or if a piece of seaweed touches my foot.

--Kevin James

more words
10:44AM on January 18, 2009

Dysfunction: The only consistent feature of all your dissatisfying relationships is you


Insanity: Its difficult to comprehend how insane some people can be. Especially when youre insane.


Laziness: Success is a journey, not a destination. So stop running.


Goals: Its best to avoid standing directly between a competitive jerk and his goals.


Indifference: It takes 43 muscles to frown and 17 to smile, but it doesnt take any to sit there with a dumb look on your face.


Planning: Much work remains to be done before we can announce our total failure to make any progress.


Fear: Until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore, you will not know the terror of being forever lost at sea.


Loneliness: If you find yourself struggling with loneliness, youre not alone. And yet you are alone. So very alone.


Regret: It hurts to admit when you make mistakes. But when theyre big enough, the pain only lasts a second.

Man Law
10:22AM on January 18, 2009

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every
question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.

1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap opera guys.

1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a
fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an
answer you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine...Really.

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation, or monster trucks.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round is a shape.

1. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight; but did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.

after the lovin
10:21AM on January 18, 2009

How long we drifted I don't know. When the world returned, you were laying on my chest, my cock still inside you, making the most contented sounds. I wrapped my arms around you and you lifted your head to kiss me again. Soft and contented. You laid your head back on my chest and smiled.

Your smile alone was enough to fire my passion. You leaned forward and I met you half way in a kiss. It started as just a peck, but built quickly, our lips melted into each other and our tongues danced with each other.

You straightened your legs and wrapped your arms around my neck. My arms found their way around your waist and I scooted up as I laid you back onto the pillows. We continued kissing each other, deep, hot, wet kisses. Our breathing getting more and more irregular. I could almost hear your heart pounding. I was sure mine was going to leap from my chest at any minute. At last we were forced to come up for air and I looked into your eyes and saw everything I wanted in life in there. I touched your cheek and traced your features with my fingertips, barely touching your skin.

My fingers combed your hair and I couldn't resist kissing your forehead. Then the ridge of your nose, then the tip. God I couldn't stop kissing you. While I kissed you and ran my fingers through your hair, my other hand found your left breast. I felt the heat through the soft flannel and was drawn to it. Your breast was firm, yet yielding to my touch. Your nipple was hard as a lemon drop.

My lips moved to your neck. You turned your head to give me freer access and I took advantage of the soft skin you offered.

Your hand explored my body there was no doubt about what it was telling you or the effect you were having on me. My tongue traced patterns on your delicious throat and chin. I could feel you shudder from time to time. Whether it was a tickle or passion I'm never sure.

Your warm hand engulfed me while my left hand paid homage to your right breast as my lips did their best to entertain the right. Your sensitive nipple seems to beckon me almost constantly, and it's there my lips were drawn.

Your hand sought and found my cock. I almost lost it at your touch, so gentle, so loving. But you knew what you were doing and the need (but not the desire) quickly passed.

You smiled at me and rolled on top of me, straddling my waist. You leaned forward and kissed me and when you straightened, your pussy inhaled my cock in one long, deep thrust. Your pussy was hotter than I thought possible.

You gripped my cock tightly, your muscles drawing me in as deep as my length allowed. You moved your hips, slowly at first, in circles, then simply back and forth. Oh you are good! Your breasts were right in front of my eyes. I reached up with both hands and cupped one in each hand. As I massaged your breasts and teased your nipples, your hips were busier than ever moving up and down, back and forth, left and right. I just lay there, afraid to interrupt your rhythm, afraid to move, concentrating on the pleasure you were giving me.

Your movements became less controlled. I t was obvious that I wasn't the only one about to cum. I couldn't hold still any longer. I thrust my hips up to meet you and we quickly found an easy synchronization, trying our damnedest to prolong the pleasure, but knowing we were both too far gone. I don't know who's screams of passion and lust were first. It hardly matters. The result was that we came at the same time or so nearly that no one could tell differently. We both cried out in sounds of both joy and almost pain as our orgasms fed off of each other and we lost ourselves in paradise. I could feel my balls tighten and my cock convulse as each jet of hot cum shot into you. Mixing with your cum there was too much for the limited space and I could feel it run down my balls like molten steel.

STD
10:18AM on January 18, 2009

Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) also known as sexually transmissible diseases, sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and, infrequently, as venereal diseases (VD) are diseases or infections that have a significant probability of transmission between humans by means of sexual contactvaginal intercourse, oral sex, and/or anal sex.

Until the 1990s, such afflictions were commonly known as venereal diseases: Veneris is the Latin genitive (possessive) form of the name Venus, the Roman goddess of love. More recently, public health officials introduced newer terms such as sexually transmitted disease in efforts to improve the clarity of their warnings to the public.

The term sexually transmitted disease remains in common use; however, clinicians are increasingly using the term sexually transmitted infection and sometimes distinguish the two

Sometimes the terms STI and STD are used interchangeably. This can be confusing and not always accurate, so it helps first to understand the difference between infection and disease. Infection simply means that a germ virus, bacteria, or parasite that can cause disease or sickness is present inside a persons body. An infected person does not necessarily have any symptoms or signs that the virus or bacteria is actually hurting their [sic] body (they do not necessarily feel sick). A disease means that the infection is actually causing the infected person to feel sick, or to notice something is wrong. For this reason, the term STI which refers to infection with any germ that can cause an STD, even if the infected person has no symptoms is a much broader term than STD.

The distinction being made, however, is closer to that between a colonization and an infection, rather than between an infection and a disease.

Specifically, the term STD refers only to infections that are causing symptoms or problems. Because most of the time people do not know that they are infected with an STD until they start showing symptoms of disease, most people use the term STD, even though the term STI is also appropriate in many cases.

Moreover, the term sexually transmissible disease is sometimes used since it is less restrictive in consideration of other factors or means of transmission. For instance, meningitis is transmissible by means of sexual contact but is not labeled as an STI because sexual contact is not the primary vector for the pathogens that cause meningitis. This discrepency is addressed by the probability of infection by means other than sexual contact. In general, an STI is an infection that has a negligible probability of transmission by means other than sexual contact, but has a realistic means of transmission by sexual contact (more sophisticated meansblood transfusion, sharing of hypodermic needlesare not taken into account). Thus, one may presume that, if a person is infected with an STI (e.g., chlamydia, gonorrhea, genital herpes), it was transmitted to him/her by means of sexual contact.

Humans are more susceptible to transmission of infection by means of sexual contact for two main reasons: The penis and vulva contain mucous membranes. Mucous membranes differ from skin in that pathogens (viruses or bacteria) can easily gain entry into the human body. When both factors are considered, the probability of transmission of infection is far higher than by other means of transmission (non-sexual contacttouch, sharing cutlery, shaking hands).

Depending on the STD, a person may or may not still be able to spread the infection if no signs of disease are present. For example, a person is much more likely to spread herpes infection when blisters are present (STD) than when they are absent (STI). However, a person can spread HIV infection (STI) at any time, even if he/she has not developed symptoms of AIDS (STD).

All sexual behaviors that involve contact with another person or the bodily fluids of another person should be considered to contain some risk of transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. Most attention has focused on controlling HIV, which causes AIDS, but each STD presents a different situation.

As may be noted from the name, sexually transmitted diseases are transmitted from one person to another by certain sexual activities rather than being actually caused by those sexual activities. Bacteria, fungi, protozoa or viruses are still the causative agents. It is not possible to catch any sexually transmitted disease from a sexual activity with a person who is not carrying a disease; conversely, a person who has an STD got it from contact (sexual or otherwise) with someone who had it, or his/her bodily fluids.

Although the likelihood of transmitting various diseases by various sexual activities varies a great deal, in general, all sexual activities between two (or more) people should be considered as being a two-way route for the transmission of STDs (i.e. "giving" or "receiving" are both risky).

Healthcare professionals suggest safer sex, such as the use of condoms, as the most reliable way of decreasing the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases during sexual activity, but safer sex should by no means be considered an absolute safeguard. Abstinence from sexual activities involving other people will protect against sexual transmission of sexually transmitted infections; however, it must be noted that STDs can also be transmitted through other activities involving transfer of and exposure to bodily fluids, such as blood transfusions and other blood products, sharing injection needles, needle-stick injuries (when medical staff are inadvertently jabbed or pricked with needles during medical procedures), sharing tattoo needles, and childbirth. These means of transmission make certain groups, such as doctors, haemophiliacs and drug users, particularly at risk.

Recent epidemiological studies have investigated the networks that are defined by sexual relationships between individuals, and discovered that the properties of sexual networks are crucial to the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. In particular, assortative mixing between people with large numbers of sexual partners seems to be an important factor.

Since prostitutes tend to have large numbers of sexual partners, prostitution without the use of safer-sex precautions has often been associated with the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. Some travellers such as truck drivers and sailors also often have high numbers of sexual partners (often prostitutes). However, sexually transmitted diseases are potentially transmitted in any form of sexual relationship, so it is important that all members of the community that are engaged in sexual relationships use safer-sex precautions, regardless of the nature of their relationships.

It is possible to be an asymptomatic carrier of sexually transmitted diseases. In particular, sexually transmitted diseases in women often cause the serious condition of pelvic inflammatory disease.


Sexually transmitted diseases have been well-known for hundreds of years the English language has short words for two of the most common: the "pox" (syphilis) and "the clap" (gonorrhea).

Prior to the invention of modern medicines, sexually transmitted diseases were generally incurable, and treatment was limited to treating the symptoms of the disease. The first venereal diseases clinic opened on January 31, 1747 at London Lock Hospital.

The first effective treatment for a sexually transmitted disease was salvarsan, a treatment for syphilis. With the discovery of antibiotics, a large number of sexually transmitted diseases became easily curable, and this, combined with effective public health campaigns against STDs, led to a public perception during the 1960s and 1970s that they had ceased to be a serious medical threat.

During this period, the importance of contact tracing in treating STIs was recognized. By tracing the sexual partners of infected individuals, testing them for infection, treating the infected and tracing their contacts in turn, STI clinics could be very effective at suppressing infections in the general population.

In the 1980s, first genital herpes and then AIDS emerged into the public consciousness as sexually transmitted diseases that could not be cured by modern medicine. AIDS in particular has an asymptomatic period, which allowed the disease to be spread to others, followed by a symptomatic period, which leads rapidly to death unless treated. Recognition that AIDS threatened a global pandemic led to public information campaigns and the development of treatments that allow AIDS to be managed by suppressing the HIV virus for as long as possible. Contact tracing continues to be an important measure, even when diseases are incurable, as it helps to contain infection

Note: All of the diseases on this list can be transmitted sexually. Some of the diseases on this list are commonly transmitted in other ways besides sexually; for example, HIV/AIDS is also commonly transmitted through the sharing of infected needles by drug users, and candidiasis while it can be sexually transmitted, is very often not associated with sexual activity.

The Adult Industry Medical Health Care Foundation administered voluntary tests to a group consisting primarily of adult film workers. Of 483 people tested between October 2001 and March 2002 about 40ad at least one disease. Nearly 17ested positive for chlamydia, 13r gonorrhea and 10r hepatitis b and / or hepatitis c.

taoist sex
10:17AM on January 18, 2009

Certain schools of Taoist practitioners in China have researched a number of specific sexual practices over many centuries of applied study. The main goal of these exercises is to utilize the physiological energies of the sexual reproductive drive, known as jing, for the benefits of health, longevity, and spiritual development. Taoism is a diverse philosophy, and not all Taoists study these practices.

Although some exercises and principles are the same for both men and women, there are fundamentally different practices for both. According to Taoist tradition women are mostly yin, whereas men are yang. Both men's and women's practices focus on the conservation of jing, which is seen by them as a component of original birth qi. These sexual practices are regarded as a sub-class of the many and varied practices of qigong.

Deer Exercise

The muscles of the pelvic floor are contracted, pulled upward and in towards the body. This practice is done by both men and women (Dr. Arnold Kegel recommends a very similar practice specifically for women known as kegel exercises). Some Taoists contend that prolapse of the anus causes premature aging, and by therefore toning and tightening this muscle, one can remain youthful. This exercise is named Deer Exercise because the Taoists are said to have observed that deer would regularly do so.
There are two main variations of the Deer Exercise:

1. The muscles are pulled and held for as long as possible.
2. The muscles are flexed and released repeatedly for a specific count, often repeated after a short pause between sets.


Jade Eggs (also known as Vaginal Weight Lifting)

An egg-shaped smooth jade ball (with a loop at the bottom) is inserted into a woman's vagina as she is in standing position. The loop on the bottom is used to suspend progressively more weight as the woman's pubococcygeus muscles strengthen.

Male Control of Ejaculation

Many Taoist practitioners link the loss of ejaculatory fluids to the loss of vital life force, where excessive fluid loss results in premature aging, disease, and general fatigue. The more extreme Taoists contend that one should never ejaculate, where others provide a specific formula to determine the maximum amount of regular ejaculations. The general idea is to limit the loss of fluids as much as possible to the level of your desired practice. Although increased performance for men is one of the direct benefits of this practice, many Taoists agree that this should not be the ultimate goal in practice or the maximum benefits of spiritual development will not be received.

There are different methods to control ejaculation prescribed by the Taoists. The most simple being not to allow oneself to reach "the point of no return." This can result in blue balls or other uncomfortable and frustrating situations unless certain techniques are followed to help recirculate the blood and semen from those areas. The most common are to gently massage the testicles and surrounding areas, to breathe deeply into the abdomen in a specific way, and/or to do a headstand or some other form of inversion in which the genitals are raised above the torso. Regardless of which method one practices, many Taoists agree that these practices are helpful after sexual stimulation in all cases.

One method is to push on the Million Dollar Point immediately before ejaculation. This point is located directly between the scrotum and the anus, where the urethra passes close to the surface of the skin. By using the middle three fingers of the left hand, one reaches to their perineum (or their partner's) and applies mild pressure to block the passage of semen through the urethra during orgasm. This is generally considered as a means to an end to reach the level of practice where, through the development of proper muscle control, one no longer needs to use the "Million Dollar Point".

Through the strengthening of the pelvic floor muscles, a man can learn to withhold ejaculation and orgasm indefinitely. At this point, one can even orgasm fully without any fluid loss. Men who have reached the highest levels of practice can maintain an orgasmic state for a duration much longer than the unpracticed male, and can orgasm multiple times in a row without a refractory period.

There is little evidence to support the health claims of this practice. The debate is somewhat controversial because of the lack of proper research. The opponents to these practices claim that they may be unhealthy (particularly the use of the Million Dollar Point) -- either inherently and especially if done incorrectly. One criticism is the occurrence of retrograde ejaculation, where the ejaculatory fluids actually end up in the urinary bladder, to be urinated out shortly after the erection subsides. Although the health risks associated with retrograde ejaculation are rare, it is improper practice if nothing else and can be easily avoided and identified (to test for retrograde ejaculation: check urine after orgasm by urinating in a clear cup, any cloudiness may indicate the presence of semen and indicate retrograde ejaculation). Another claim against the practice of withholding ejaculation is that the pressure from the force of ejaculation (the contractions of the prostate gland), can actually cause damage to the urethra, vas deferens, or other parts of the reproductive system by sudden force against the valves designed to be one way. Both of these claims have little research to back them, as do the claims of the Taoists. The Taoists use experience as the grounds of their research, with their practices evolving over generations of practioners. Western culture in general overlooks subjective data because it is not repeatable or controllable. There are significant benefits to recognizing experiential data, and significant flaws as well. More controlled studies are needed on the subject to support or provide evidence against the Taoists' health claims about this practice.

Advice from the Masters:

A man should learn to control his ejaculation. To be greedy for feminine beauty and emit beyond one's vigor injures every vein, nerve, and organ in the body, and gives rise to every illness. Correct practice of sexual intercourse can cure every ailment and at the same time open the doors to Liberation. -- Yang Sheng Yao Chi

The way to make the semen return, to thereby nourish the brain, is as follows. When a man feels that he is about to ejaculate, he should firmly press the place between the scrotum and anus with the fore and middle fingers of his left hand, at the same time inhaling deeply and gnashing the teeth, without holding the breath. This practice will cause the semen to be activated but not ejaculated. It will instead return from the Jade Stalk, ascend, and stimulate the brain. This method was taught by Lu the Immortal, but he ordered his disciples to swear an oath that they would not divulge this potent secret to the uninitiated. -- Classic of the Immortals

Nyotaimori
10:15AM on January 18, 2009

Nyotaimori (Japanese: "female body presentation"), often referred to as "body sushi", is the practice of eating sashimi or sushi from the body of a woman, typically nude, for the purpose of sexual excitement. As a result of being served on a human body, the temperature of the sushi or sashimi comes closer to body temperature, which some may see as a downside or a benefit. Since fish can spoil easily.

The practice is, in fact, not in any way common in Japan and generally associated with prostitution and the infamous Japanese mafia known as the Yakuza. Western media reporting of the phenomenon severely misrepresents this to the point that it is perceived in Japan as a European fad.

Even less common, but not unheard of, is the practice of using a male model for the same purpose, this would be called, nantaimori.

Another variation of nyotaimori is the "bondage sushi bar", which can be found in some BDSM conventions and play parties in Europe. In this variation, the woman acting as a living sushi plate is tied up to hinder movement or prevent it altogether

Before becoming a living sushi plate, the woman is trained to lie down for hours without moving. She must also be able to withstand the prolonged exposure to the cold food. Her body hair, including pubic hair, would also be shaved.

Before service, the woman would take a bath using a special fragrance-free soap and then finish off with a splash of cold water to cool the body down somewhat for the sushi.

In some countries, in order to comply with sanitation laws, there must be a layer of plastic or other material between the sushi and the body of the woman or man.

Similar to Nyotaimori (eating sushi off of a woman's body), and similarly uncommon. Wakame sake is a sexual act involving drinking alcohol from a woman's body. The woman closes her legs tight enough that the triangle between the thighs and Mound of Venus form a cup, and then pours sake down her chest into this triangle. Her partner then drinks the sake from there. The name comes from the idea that the woman's pubic hair in the sake resembles soft seaweed (wakame) floating in the sea.

is this love?
9:53AM on January 18, 2009

words
8:32AM on January 18, 2009


It is often said that definitions state the meaning of words. This is true, "words" do mean something, but it is not entirely exact. A word is merely a symbol used to represent a concept; a word has no meaning other than that of the concept it symbolizes.

In today's world people too often say one thing and mean another. Sometimes, intentionally, more often and more damaging, unintentionally. The practice of it has spawned ignorance and created myriad scapegoats for people who are always saying, "No, that's not what I said, you must have misunderstood me". There is a real easy way to circumvent this type of behavior. Know your shit. Know what you mean and what they mean - know what everyone means. Become an interpreter for others, so everyone understands exactly - faultlessly - where everyone stands, most importantly, you. There is no greater power than that of The Word.

A good rule of thumb is to buy a cheap dictionary - and use it! Whether you're reading a newspaper, magazine or even listening to a television or radio program and you hear a word you don't understand the meaning of - look it up! There is a great satisfaction you will get from learning the literal meanings of words in the English language - your language!

The words that follow are in no particular order or categorization . Maybe as the list lengthens, doing so will be justified...for now - what is will do. Besides, all words are important! Every once in a while, I'll enter some more for those who do want continuing edification. I think you'll see that even the most common words are regularly mis-used. Remember, living your life requires "precision in decision" - knowing your words guarantees it!

warrior (n.) - 1. One engaged or experienced in struggle; in battle. 2. One confronting challenge.

battle (n.) (v.) - 1. An encounter between opposing forces. 2. A protracted struggle. 3. An intense competition.

challenge (n.) (v.) - 1. A call to engage in a contest, fight, or competition. 2. A demand for an explanation. 3. A formal objection. 4. To invite with defiance; dare.

egoism (n.) - The belief that self-interest is the just and proper motive for all human conduct.

individualism (n.) - Belief in the primary importance of the individual and personal independence.

individualist (n.) - A person of independent thought and action.

word (n.) - 1. A meaningful sound or combination of sounds, or it's representation in writing. 2. Something said; a remark or comment. 3. (v.) To express in words.

literal (adj.) - 1. Conforming or limited to the simplest, nonfigurative, or most obvious meaning of a word or words. 2.Word for word; verbatim: a literal translation. 3. Avoiding exaggeration or embellishment; prosaic.

embellishment (n.); embellish (v.) - 1. To make beautiful, as by ornamentation; decorate. 2. To add fictitious details to.

prosaic (adj.) - 1. Matter-of-fact; straightforward. 2. Lacking in imagination and spirit; dull.

opinion (n.) - 1. A belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by proof. 2. A judgment based on special knowledge. 3. A judgment or estimation.

belief (n.) - 1. Trust or confidence. 2. A firmly held conviction or opinion. 3. Something believed or accepted as true.

believe (v.) - 1. To accept as true or real. 2. To credit with veracity. 3. To have confidence. 4. To expect or suppose; think. 5. To have firm faith in.

veracity (n.) - 1. Adherence to the truth; truthfulness. 2. Conformity to fact or truth; accuracy. 3. Something that is true.

always (adv.) - 1. At all times. 2.For all time; forever. 3. At any time; in any event.

moral(s) (n.) (adj.) - 1.Of or concerned with the judgment or instruction of goodness or badness of character and behavior. 2. Conforming to established standards of good behavior.

ethic(s) (n.) - 1.A principle of right or good conduct or a body of such principles. 2. A system of moral principles or values. 3. The study of the general nature of morals and of specific moral choices.

virtue (n.) - 1.Moral excellence and righteousness; goodness. 2. An example or kind of moral excellence.

commit (v.); commitment - (n.) - 1. To do , perform, or perpetrate 2. to consign; entrust. 3. To pledge or obligate (oneself).

discipline (n.) - 1. Training expected to produce a specific character or pattern of behavior. 2. Controlled behavior from such training. 3. A state of order based on submission to rules and authority. 4. A set of rules or methods.

methodology (n.) - 1. A body of practices, procedures, and rules used in a discipline. 2. Orderly arrangement of parts or steps to accomplish an end.

objective (adj.); objectivity (n.) - 1. Of or having to do with a material object. 2. Having actual existence. 3. Uninfluenced by emotions or personal prejudices. 4. Based on observable phenomena 5. Something worked for or strived for.

subjective (adj.); subjectivity (n.) - 1. Proceeding from or taking place within a person's mind such as to be unaffected by the external world. 2. Particular to a given person; personal.

rational (adj.); rationality (n.) - 1.Having or exercising the ability of reason. 2. Of sound mind; sane. 3. Consistent with or based on reason.

cynosure (n.) - A focal point of attention and admiration.

insolent (adj.) - Disrespectfully arrogant; impertinent.

impertinent (adj.) - 1. Imprudent; insolent. 2. Not pertinent.

reason (n.) (v.) - 1. The basis or motive for an action, decision, or conviction. 2. An underlying fact or cause that provides logical sense for a premise or occurrence. 3. The capacity for logical, rational and analytical thought. 4. A normal mental state; sanity. - (v.) - 1. To use the faculty of reason; think logically. 2. To talk or argue logically or persuasively. 3. To determine or conclude by logical thinking.

logic (n.); logical (adj.) - 1. The study of the principles of reasoning. 2. Valid reasoning, esp.as distinguished from invalid or irrational argumentation.

valid (adj.) - 1. Founded on evidence or fact; sound. 2. Having legal force; effective.

premise (n.) - 1. A proposition upon which an argument is based or from which a conclusion is drawn.

proposition (n.) - 1. A plan suggested for acceptance; proposal. 2. A matter to be dealt with; task. 3. A subject for discussion or analysis.

existentialism (n.) - A philosophy that emphasizes the uniqueness and isolation of the individual in a hostile or indifferent universe.

metaphysics (n.) - The branch of philosophy that examines the nature of reality and the relationship between mind and matter.

epistemology (n.) - The branch of philosophy that studies the nature and theory of knowledge. -to understand.

semantic(s) (n.) - The study of; relating to the meaning in language.

pragmatism (n.) pragmatic (adj.) - A practical, matter-of-fact way of approaching or assessing situations or of solving problems. 2. Concerned with facts or actual events; practical.

quest (n.) - 1. The act or an instance of seeking; search. 2. To search or seek.

progenitor (n.) - 1. A direct ancestor. 2. An originator of a line or descent. 3. An originator; founder.

magnum opus (n.) - The greatest single work of an artist, writer or composer.

desultory (adj.) - Without a plan or purpose; disconnected, random.

diffident (adj.) - Lacking self-confidence; timid.

autodidact (n.) - One who is self-taught.

hyperbole (n.) - A figure of speech in which exaggeration is used for emphasis or effect.

venality (adj.)(n.) - 1.open to, marked by or susceptible to bribery. 2. Corrupt or corruptible.

exigency (n.) - 1. A pressing or urgent situation. 2. Urgent requirements.

maverick (n.) - A non-conformist; a rebel.

paradigm (n.) - 1. An example of that serves as a pattern or a model.

repudiate (v.) - 1.To reject the validity of. 2. To refuse to recognize, acknowledge or pay.

intrepid (adj.) - 1. Resolutely courageous; fearless.

reprobate (n.) - A morally undisciplined person.

tacit (adj.) - 1. Not spoken. 2.Implied by or inferred from actions or statements.

prevaricate (v.) - 1. To stray or evade from the truth.

inertia (n.) - 1. The tendency of the body to remain at rest or stay in motion unless acted upon by an outside force. 2. Resistance to motion, action or change.

co..adj.) - Of or originating or existing during the same time period or time.

bravura (n.) - 1. Brilliant technique, style or performance. 2. A showy manner or display.

mein (n.) - Bearing or manner; appearance.

astute (adj.) - Having or showing keen judgment; shrewd.

incorrigible (adj.) - Incapable of being corrected or reformed.

redound (v.) - 1. To have an effect or consequence. 2. To contribute or accrue.

incorporeal (adj.) - Lacking material form or substance.

standard (n.) - 1.An acknowledged basis for comparing or measuring; criterion. 2. A degree or level of requirement, excellence or attainment.

criterion (n.) - A standard or test on which a judgment can be based.

attain (v.); attainment (n.) - 1. To accomplish; achieve. 2. To arrive at.

quid pro quo (n.) - An equal exchange or substitution.

creed (n.) - A formal statement of belief.

ethos (n.) - The character or values peculiar to a specific person, people, culture or movement.

hypocrisy (n.) - The professing of beliefs or virtues one does not possess.

hypocrite (n.) - A person given (acting) to hypocrisy.

intuition (n.); intuitive (adj.) - The faculty of knowing (as if) by instinct without conscious reasoning. 2. A perception based on this faculty. 3.Sharp insight; impression.

sage (n.) - A venerated, wise person.

venerable (adj.); venerate (v.) - 1. Commanding respect by virtue of age, dignity, or position. 2. Worthy of reverence. (v.) - To regard with respect or reverence.

aberration (n.) - 1. A deviation from the normal, proper, or expected course. 2. A defect of foke.

volition (n.) - 1. The act of making a conscious choice or decision. 2. A conscious choice or decision. 3. The power or faculty of choosing; will.

destiny (n.) - 1. One's own inevitable, inescapable fate. 2. A predetermined course of events. 3. The power or agency thought to predetermine events.

fate (n.) - 1. The supposed force or power that determines events. 2. A final result; outcome.

preeminent (adj.) - Superior to all others; outstanding.

luminary (n.) - A notable person in a specific field; celebrity.

charlatan (n.) - A person who makes elaborate and fraudulent claims to skill or knowledge.

draconian (adj.) - Exceedingly harsh; very severe.

renown (n.) - Widespread honor and acclaim; fame.

subterfuge (n.) - A deceptive stratagem or device.

pseudo (pref.) - False; deceptive.

quasi (adj.) - Having a likeness to something; resembling.

redoubtable (adj.) - 1. Arousing fear or awe; formidable. 2. Worthy of respect or honor.

ostracize (v.) - To banish or exclude from a group.

feckless (adj.) - 1. Lacking purpose or vitality; ineffective. 2. Careless; irresponsible.

antipathy (n.) - 1. A strong aversion or repugnance. 2. An object aversion.

impediment (n.) - Something that impedes; hindrance or obstruction.

impede (v.) - To retard or obstruct the progress of.

contrarian (n.) - An investor who makes decisions that contradict prevailing wisdom.

relegate (v.) - 1. To assign to an obscure place or position. 2. To assign to a category; classify. 3. To refer or assign for decision or action.

emend (v.) - To improve by editing.

philosophy
6:20AM on January 18, 2009

watching the wheels by john lennon
8:24PM on January 15, 2009

Watching The Wheels by John Lennon

People say Im crazy doing what Im doing
Well they give me all kinds of warnings to save me from ruin
When I say that Im o.k. well they look at me kind of strange
Surely youre not happy now you no longer play the game

People say Im lazy dreaming my life away
Well they give me all kinds of advice designed to enlighten me
When I tell them that Im doing fine watching shadows on the wall
Dont you miss the big time boy youre no longer on the ball

Im just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round
I really love to watch them roll
No longer riding on the merry-go-round
I just had to let it go

Ah, people asking questions lost in confusion
Well I tell them theres no problem, only solutions
Well they shake their heads and they look at me as if Ive lost my mind
I tell them theres no hurry
Im just sitting here doing time

Im just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round
I really love to watch them roll
No longer riding on the merry-go-round
I just had to let it go
I just had to let it go
I just had to let it go

Pleasure or Pain
4:17PM on January 15, 2009

the little mermaid
8:51AM on January 13, 2009

Taking request from you
3:40AM on January 13, 2009

Words of Wisdom
9:05PM on January 12, 2009