The Shit I've learned thru Trail & Era
8:00PM on January 27, 2010

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Ms. SeXy Ass SaXX and what she's been up to lately
2:36PM on December 09, 2009

I have so very busy, Im so sorry. I have been busy filming . I also have been doing 5 hours at the gym getting my body in the best shape as possible before the AVN awards out in Vegas. Yes I will be there from Jan 7 til I have an open ended ticket. I have been ask to work with a shit load of others out that way so Im leaving my schedule open. I have Pics and stuff to share and I do all this myself so I will really try hard in the next few days to get thing back up and poppin for you all. This Friday I will be shooting with The Lovely Karen Kougar, Yeah Im finally going to eat me sum VANILLA mmmmm! So stay tuned. I want to thank you all so much for the luv and u know where u can watvh me online live Vouyering around my house. Gang Banging with Danny at his home and we always have guess from all over stopping thru nightly so make sure and check out http://rude.com/Dannyblaq.com also htt://rude.com/1Don-n-Lisa-4u, there great people to play with... Check me out and all of us in the crazy ass videos we have been shooting at http://rude.com/SAXXXJUST4U

Who will be going.......
12:11PM on July 06, 2009



When:
Sunday Jul 26, 2009 at 01:00 AM


Where:
Boulevard 3
6523 W Sunset Blvd
Los Angeles, California 90028
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The Urban X Awards hosted by Roxy Reynolds and Mr. Marcus
Be a part of the 2nd annual Urban X Awards,at Blvd3 in Hollywood California on Sunday July 26th, 2009. The only show of its kind, this event celebrates all aspects of urban erotica. This event will be taped live. The show will have live entertainment, audience participation, red-carpet entrance, V.I.P seating and an after party, as well as the most influential names in urban and ethnic adult movies. The Urban X Awards (UXAs) was created to honor all producers, directors, talent, agencies and companies who have worked hard throughout the year to produce the best ethnic adult content for you to enjoy. The Urban X Awards will celebrate and showcase the achievements of Black, Latin, Asian and Interracial productions.


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SaXXX Daily: It Has Been Ruff Out Here, For A Star Like Me
11:00PM on April 11, 2009

Okay my peps what can I blog about, well as you know my new website is up and running and I'm feeling the burn. So my true die hard fans, please drop by it and enjoy the hardcore ness of it all...............SAXTRIPLEX>COM  I have had to be so freakin busy, trying do do all your own shit is not easy! Plus I'm really know computer wiz, but I do the best I can.

Hey are there any of my rude buddies out here, that are in my area and want to do some content exchange on top of fucking the hell out of each other then I am gamed.

I will  be headed back to NYC to do more taping on the 18th of this month and I am really hoping to be getting it on with a dime piece or two. I'm also hoping to be change or putting in some new pages. While I'm waiting for my DVD's to be processed for sales, but that might be another two-three months.........

So utnil then I will be uploading my love here at rude......................


Well as for now I am this is your Gal Pal SaXXX

                                                                                                                                          I'll be back 

My First Show since I
8:27AM on March 22, 2009

Wow! I was so happy to see the turn out for my first show since I have come back from my tour in the NYC/NJ. I just want to thank you all.

You all know that I have been working hard with Back Shot Productions, to bring to all some of the best MILF online video's and blog pages of my own. To my very own site. I lefted for NYC a month ago and twice a week I was banging it out with some of the hottest Newbies to the industry of Porn. I had agreat time each shoot. I love the work, plus being able to travel and have men begging to fuck my sweet pussy is so Exciting! But I get myself humble.

I just want enjoy and make it so that everyone else will enjoy the entertainment along with me. I am a very down to earth kinda lady. I love to please others no matter what it is that I'm doing, I do my very best!  So here is my question to you (My Fans and Friends) ,

What are some of the scene, scenrio, pics, would you all like to see me in?

What are some of the things chould I improve on in my work?

Would you like to see more of me here at Rude.com and in what areas?

Why is it that you like me?

And last one......... Would you if you had a chance get busy with me ? on cam ?

LOL! LOL! LOL!

PS. I am trying to adjust my schedule to where I can do at least a nightly show again, I just have so much stuff on my plate, so please stay true. I hope to give you all what it is that you and I really want, soon!!

Kiss Kiss, Satriplex aka SaXXXJust4u bka SaXXX

I am missing my Rude online Show's and just want you all 2 no......
4:03PM on March 13, 2009

Mar 13, 2009 by SaXXXJust4U

I am still in The NYC and Headed back To The DMV sunday this week the 15th, I just want to say SORRY I have been gone from my fans and friends for so long. I hope to be back on Rude this week, Okay Buddies!!!!
I wanted to make sure and show some luv, I know that It has been a while. I have been so busy touring and launching my New Site, I miss my Rude Peep's and hope to be home soon to resume my online regular 11pm show's right here on rude everynight. I am so eager to play and dance for you all!!!

Ur gal Pal SaXXX! and much success 2 all!


PS. I have some really good clips of my video shoot to put up but can't at this moment, I'm having to use someone else pc, but I got some really hot pics and I know you all will just have a very good time viewing commenting on, so stay tune, I can't wait to be live online with you all again, Muaw!!!!

Two guys at once, Deep Dick Sucking, Gagging, My Pussy Being Eaten, and vivid video's and Pics of SaXTripleX in them all............. you know you luv me..... LOL!!!

So stay tuned.....

oh yeah goggle my name saxtriplex , if you don't remember me, LOL i know it's been awhile, lol!!

There has been some changes, I'm looking for a lover...
7:09PM on February 09, 2009

Robert has choosen not to perform with me online anymore, I guess I'm not that good. LOL!!! You know how men are one minute your there it girl, and then next it's some other new girl! So I'm open he say's I can do what I want with anyone( and no I don't think he's mad we have been very open with our sex life since we met ) so guys and gals if your near me, DC, and NJ/NYC. lets do content exchange. I pretty sure I will find another to give me lots a good lovin.


So I looking for a lover.......

My personal website is on it's way and I am proud to repersent Rude and You
2:18PM on November 29, 2008

 *****************************Coming Soon************************** 

The Official Fan Club Site of 

SaXXX
Just 4 U Entertainment and Sexy Entertainer/ Promoter 


Main Membership Biography Juicy Blog Free Tour Links.......and Contact Info for Bookings 


I see you have stopped by and I want to say, Thanks so Much 
for being a fan of mine, and for all your support. OXOX! 
But Until Then, You Can View Me and Many More By Clicking Below! 

**********************Also Coming Soon************************** 

I hope to heat things up for you, and I want you to 
enjoy every bit of my yummie scenes. 

I will try to keep you Excited and take you Over the Edge 
with Entertaining Sexy, Stimulating, Juicy Eye Popping, 
Lust Filled Videos, Clips, Pics, Blogs and more............ 

You can also get Custom Made Content with my John Hand Cock on it! 

Also you will be able to buy Specialty items in my SaXXX Goodies Store! 

Staring your Glamour Girl SaXXX and my many Sexy Friends! 

So get ready to be Entertained........................................... !!!!!! 

My Mom Died This Morning.............
2:10PM on November 19, 2008

 I just got the call this morning and wanted you all to know that my mom died early this morning, one day before my 41st. Birthday! Thanks for encouraging me to spend time with her! I was not there when she died as you know  I had to bring my grand daughter, back to DC, because her mom is not able to care properly for her and needs to start and finish school. So I will be trying to make arrangements from here. I just thought you all would want to know.

'Deep Throat' Director Gerard Damiano Dies at 80
9:10AM on November 04, 2008

 'Deep Throat' Director Gerard Damiano Dies at 80
Posted: 10/30/2008 Author: xPeeps Team Views: 133 

FORT MYERS, Fla. - Pioneering adult film director Gerard Damiano died Saturday of complications from a stroke. He was 80.

A former hairdresser from the Bronx, N.Y., Damiano is best known for directing the adult film classics Deep Throat and The Devil in Miss Jones. The theatrical release of Deep Throat in 1972 created the phenomenon of "porno chic," making it acceptable for couples and celebrities to attend X-rated movies and changing the way the public viewed explicit sex on screen.

Gerardo Rocco Damiano was born Aug. 4, 1928 to an Italian-Catholic family. His father died when he was six, and his mother never remarried. Damiano joined the Navy at 17 and served for four years, later studying X-ray technology on the G.I. Bill.

Damiano opened a beauty parlor in New York City in 1956. He often told the story that he realized sex films could have crossover appeal after listening to the conversations of the women who made up his salon clientele. Looking back on his career in 2005, he told the Fort Myers News-Press that he became interested in moviemaking when his accountant introduced him to an industrial film producer who was shooting a low-budget horror feature.

During the late '60s and early '70s, Damiano directed sex documentaries and "marriage manual" films including We All Go Down (1969), Changes (1970), and Sex USA (1971). These early skin flicks made Damiano part of a circle that included performers Harry Reems, Jason andTina Russell, Jamie Gillis, Fred Lincoln, Marc Stevens, and Shaun Costello (who was later credited under Damiano's name as director of the enema-bandit epic Waterpower.)

But it was Deep Throat that defined Damiano's career and revolutionized adult cinema. Shot in six days on a shoestring budget in Miami, theLinda Lovelace classic became an instant box-office smash and a cultural event whose impact continues to be felt today.

Damiano first met Linda while he was casting a hardcore insert scene for Changes. After witnessing her sexual talent, he was so impressed that he spent the next couple of days writing a film just for her. Damiano famously created the name "Linda Lovelace" for the star after finishing his script, which became Deep Throat.

While Deep Throat is said by some to have grossed in excess of $600 million, Damiano did not share in those notorious profits. The director sold his interest in the film after its release to his producing partner Louis "Butchie" Peraino for a reported $25,000.�

By the time Damiano made his follow-up film The Devil in Miss Jones in 1973, he had become the adult film world's first real auteur. "They invented a new word, filmmaker," he recalled in the 2005 documentary Inside Deep Throat. "Suddenly, there were independent filmmakers."

Actress Georgina Spelvin, who played the part of Miss Jones in the seminal film, met Damiano through Harry Reems. Spelvin wrote about her first encounter with "a real fuck-film director" in her recently published memoirThe Devil Made Me Do It.

"What's a nice girl like you doing in a porn shop like this?" Damiano asked Spelvin. It was the beginning of a warm friendship that would last for 35 years.

Devil was another highly influential success that fueled the "porno chic" craze. The movie began and ended with Damiano himself playing a memorable cameo role as the nameless, impotent mental case trapped in an existential cell with the eternally frustrated Miss Jones.�

Damiano went on to direct other acclaimed, high-profile adult features including Memories Within Miss Aggie (1974), The Story of Joanna(1975), The Satisfiers of Alpha Blue (1981) and Night Hunger (1983). Outside the X-rated genre, he made the little-seen '70s horror filmLegacy of Satan.

Other notable Damiano credits include the cult classic Let My Puppets Come (1976), Odyssey (1977), and People (1978), a documentary-style experiment that might be considered the forerunner of modern reality-porn videos such as Tristan Taormino's Chemistry.

Damiano married porn actress Paula Morton in 1975, and the couple had two children, Christar and Gerard, Jr. The family moved from New York to Fort Myers in the '70s. Although Damiano and Morton eventually divorced, they remained close until his death.

Damiano flew back and forth to New York to work until he retired from the business in 1994, having directed a total of 47 movies. According to the News-Press, the legendary director "lived out his final years in Fort Myers quietly, enjoying theatre, attending art openings, appearing at charitable events and reveling, especially, in the accomplishments of his two children."

Spelvin, Annie Sprinkle, and other industry friends joined Damiano's family to celebrate with the director at a surprise 80th birthday party this summer.

"When the lights came up and we all yelled 'Surprise,' I feared my favorite director was going to bolt," Spelvin wrote. "He later said, 'I haven't been that surprised since I was arrested.' He just couldn't believe his loving former performers and pals had traveled from New York and California just to nuzzle and hug and kiss him to pieces."

No memorial service is planned for Damiano. "That 80th birthday party was a celebration of his life - while he was still alive," his son said.

Contributions can be made in Damiano's name to AIM Healthcare Foundation.

source: http://avn.com/video/articles/33053.html

Relationships are social associations, connections, or affiliations between two or more people.
4:52PM on July 14, 2008

 RELATIONSHIPS       Relationships are social associations, connections, or affiliations between two or more people. They vary in differing levels of intimacy and sharing, implying the discovery or establishment of common ground, and may be centered around something(s) shared in common. The study of relationships is of concern to sociology, psychology and anthropology.

Stages of formation
1) Contact:

a) Perceptual - notice how a person looks at the other and their body language. 
b) Interactional cues - nodding, maintaining eye contact, etc. 
c) Invitational - encouraging the relationship (e.g. asking if they want to meet up later for coffee) 
d) Avoidance strategies - if one person discloses and the other does not, minimal response, lack of eye contact, etc. 
2) Involvement

a) Feelers - hints or questions (ex. asking about family) 
b) Intensifying strategies - further the relationship (ex. meeting old friend, bringing the other to meet family, becoming more affectionate, etc.) 
c) Public - seen in public together often (ex. if in a romantic relationship, may be holding hands) 
3) Intimacy - very close, may have exchanged some sort of personal belonging or something that represents further commitment. (ex. may be a promise ring in a romantic relationship or a friendship necklace symbolizing two people are best friends)

4) Deterioration - things start to fall apart. In a romantic relationship, typically after approximately six months, people are out of what is sometimes referred to as the "honeymoon stage", NRE, or limerence and start to notice flaws. The way this is addressed determines the fate of the relationship.


Types of interpersonal relationships
Kinship relationships, including family relationships, being related to someone else by blood (consanguinity), e.g. fatherhood, motherhood; or through marriage (affinity), e.g. father-in-law, mother-in-law, uncle by marriage, aunt by marriage. 
Formalized intimate relationships or long term relationships through law and public ceremony, e.g. marriage and civil union. 
Non-formalized intimate relationships or long term relationships such as loving relationships or romantic relationships with or without living together; the other person is often called lover, boyfriend or girlfriend (not to be confused with just a male or female friend), or significant other. If the partners live together, the relationship may be similar to marriage, and the other person may be called husband or wife. In Scottish law they are so regarded by common law after a time. Long term relationships in other countries are often erroneously called common law marriages, although they have no special status in law. Mistress is a somewhat old fashioned term for a female lover of a man who is married to another woman, or of an unmarried man. She may even be an official mistress (in French ma�tresse en titre); an example is Madame de Pompadour. 
Soulmates, individuals who are intimately drawn to one another through a favorable meeting of the minds and who find mutual acceptance and understanding with one another. Soulmates may feel themselves bonded together for a lifetime; and, hence, they may be sexual partners but not necessarily. 
Casual relationships, relationships extending beyond one night stands that exclusively consist of sexual behavior, the participants of which may be known as friends with benefits when limited to considering sexual intercourse or sexual partners in a wider sense. 
Platonic love is an affectionate relationship into which the sexual element does not enter, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise. 
Friendship, which consists of mutual love, trust, respect, and unconditional acceptance, and usually implies the discovery or establishment of common ground between the individuals involved; see also internet friendship and pen pal. 
Brotherhood and sisterhood, individuals united in a common cause or having a common interest, which may involve formal membership in a club, organization, association, society, lodge, fraternity or sorority. This type of interpersonal relationship also includes the comradeship of fellow soldiers in peace or war. 
Partners or coworkers in a profession, business, or a common workplace. 
Participation in a community, for example, a community of interest or practice. 
Association, simply being introduced to someone or knowing who they are by interaction. 

Factors
The discovery or establishment of common ground between individuals is a fundamental component for enduring interpersonal relationships. Loss of common ground, which may happen over time, may tend to end interpersonal relationships.

For each relationship type, essential skills are needed, and without these skills more advanced relationships are not possible. Systemic coaching advocates a hierarchy of relationships, from friendship to global order. Expertise in each relationship type (in this hierarchy) requires the skills of all previous relationship types. (For example partnership requires friendship and teamwork skills).

Interpersonal relationships through consanguinity and affinity can persist despite the absence of love, affection, or common ground. When these relationships are in prohibited degrees, sexual intimacy in them would be the taboo of incest.

Marriage and civil union are relationships reinforced and regularized by their legal sanction to be "respectable" building blocks of society. In the United States the de-criminalization of homosexual sexual relations in the landmark Supreme Court decision, Lawrence v. Texas (2003) facilitated the "mainstreaming" of gay long term relationships, and broached the possibility of the legalization of same-sex marriages in that country.

In intimate relationships there is often, but not always, an implicit or explicit agreement that the partners will not have sex with someone else - monogamy. The extent to which physical intimacy with other people is accepted may vary. For example, a husband may be more receptive to his wife being physically affectionate with her female friend if she has one, other than with her male friend (see also jealousy).

In friendship there is some transitivity: one may become a friend of an existing friend's friend. However, if two people have a sexual relationship with the same person, they may be competitors rather than friends. Accordingly, sexual behavior with the sexual partner of a friend may damage the friendship. See love triangle.

Sexual relations between two friends may alter that relationship by either "taking it to the next level" or severing it. Sexual partners may also be friends: the sexual relationship may either enhance or depreciate the friendship.

The rise of popular psychology has led to an explosion of concern about one's interpersonal relationships (often simply called: "relationships"). Intimate relationships receive particular attention in this context, but Sociology recognises many other interpersonal links of greater or less duration and/or significance.

Relationships are not necessarily healthy. Unhealthy examples include abusive relationships and codependence.

Sociologists recognize a hierarchy of forms of activity and interpersonal relations, which divides them into: behavior, action, social behavior, social action, social contact, social interaction and finally social relation.


Theories
Social psychology has several approaches to the subject of interpersonal relationships, among them closure and also trust, as trust between parties can be mutual. This may lead to enduring relationships. 
Social exchange theory interprets relationships in terms of exchanged benefits. The way people feel about relationships will be influenced by the rewards of the relationship, as well as rewards they may potentially receive in alternate relationships. 
Systemic coaching analyzes relationships as expressions of our human need to love and be loved. Relationships can be confused by transferences, entanglements and substitution. Systemic coaching offers solutions for many relationship difficulties. 
Equity theory is based on criticism of social exchange theory. Proponents argue that people care more than just maximizing rewards, they also want fairness and equity in their relationships.
Relational dialectics is based on the idea that a relationship is not a static entity. Instead, a relationship is a continuing process, always changing. There is constant tension as three main issues are negotiated: autonomy vs. connection, novelty vs. predictability, and openness vs. closedness. 
Attachment styles are a completely different way of analyzing relationships. Proponents of this view argue that attachment styles developed in childhood continue to be influential throughout adulthood, influencing the roles people take on in relationships. 
Socionics and some other theories of psychological compatibility consider interpersonal relationships as at least partly dependent on psychological types of partners.

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THIS CHOULD HAPPEN TO YOU, SO STAY PERPIARED.,CAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW????
10:37AM on July 09, 2008

Hi my Peps! well It has Happen... it was such a surprise to me, but a very good one, so let me tell you what happen............................................................... I was out this weekend with my guy to the movies, to see "Wanted" If you haven't seen it you should get out and go see it. Well anyhow....... We walk out of the movies and I noticed this very cute little girl walking with a little boy and this Indian man. I noticed the kids more because I am a grandma and I love kids. She was so cute and I said hi to them a rob and I just kept walking towards the parking lot to our car. So all of a sudden my phone rings and I didn't really notice the number or even knew who it was, so I'm like "hello"? and the person on the other end says "WAS THAT YOU"? and I'm like "what"? who is this? so The person is a man and he say's this is _____ his name and I say" Oh! "Hey I'm just out with my guy at a movie" and he say's "I know" "The little girl you just spoke to is my daughter" and I'm like " "Get The F^^%##$@K Out Of Here!(by the way he has my number because I do speak to some people, by phone about business projects and he was one of them)" So I say "I didn't really pay attention to you I was more looking at the kids", So now my guy is like right there next to me listening, LOL!!! so we are very open and this is a testiment to it. So I say "have you gone in yet?" and he say's "nope I can come back out". So I told my guy remember when I was online one time and this guy connected with me and asked would he ever get a chance to be my friends? and you all know I was like maybe, with very little faith as to really going out somewhere with someone I don't really know. So I say to him "if my BOYFRIEND CAN COME TOO? LOL!!! He say's back "yeah we can make it a foursome (dinner date)." I'm like okay!!!! LOL!!! Well that is him on the phone and we just past by him and he really did recognize me. WOW!!! So we get out of the car and walk back towards the movie and sure enough here comes the beautiful little girl and boy and this man,that I now recognize, because of his pix and profile. We hugged and and my guy and him shuck hands andI was like in a bit of shock, because this has not happen to me in a while, not here in DC anyway. We all talked for just a moment and agreed on getting together for dinner and hanging out! WoW!!! Right!!!So I'm feeling alittle like DAM I hope I looked okay? and Then I think wow I'm hoping that I look okay to another guy? but It's not like I want to get with him,(Sexually) it's more like, I'm a bit of a celeb, and you don't want to be seen by your adoring fans and not look the part, Right! LOL!!!! LOL! (you guys know what that's like,The girl in the pic isn't the same girl at your front door for your date, or it's the same girl only 75 lb heavier!) Right! Gag! and come to think of it, so do us Ladies) So all I'm saying is Stop Fronting and always be REAL, cause you never know???) But I must do because this guy took time to call me and with his kids meet my guy and me! WOW!!! I was so proud of my guy and myself, my guy for not being like most guys would be, but understanding. %#&@$!! he is in some of my photo shoot's and me for just being recognized!!!!! LOL!!! So I'm like dang I better change my look because I didn't think anyone would really know who I am. Not in jeans and modest blouse and very little make up, and hair pinned up!!!! LOL!!! So to my lady friends, don't think that you won't get notice and if it happens to you, Let's all hope it's not a sicko, you know, LOL!!!! For me well it was nice I never really go anywhere with out someone with me, but I'm also thankful that it was one of my many nices fans and now we are most certainly friends! Happy ending!!! So don't think that you will never get your chance to empress and me to, Dam I got to keep my self looking good for sure, so it's off to the gym for me, LOL!!!!! This is a true story, Your galpal, SaXXX................