Right now in my life, and I want to share this with you
3:20PM on February 08, 2010
If you want something to change in your life, you gonna have to change something in your life!
«This post is an answer to someone who asked me how to do so. I think many of us would benefit of the answer...»
Well you first need to consider that every case is different but for sure, you can't keep doing what you've been doing and expecting differents results. You just gonna keep getting what you've been getting...
But maybe it's a change of attitude
(how do u talk to urself and to others? the words u say have the biggest impact on urself. do u see the problems first or the solutions? on what do u focus? do u see problems as something that gonna slow u down, or as something that is part of success, as an opportunity to do things differently, as a challenge to become better?),
a change of minding
(what you think about yourself, about your projet. do u really really believe in it? do u congrats urself? or do u repeat u 're stupid and cant make it happen? )...
A change of action
(is the action u invest in ur project is representative of the results u expect? Do u take the time to look from the outside to see what are ur progress? Are u doing the right things to get the results u want? Are u working in the right direction? u may do a lot of work but in the wrong direction? or on things that wont give u big results, wont do a real difference, or simply on stuff that wont make u achieve it at all. the biggest efforts arent necessary the one that gives the biggest results.)
a change in your schedule
(maybe the deadline you've fixed isnt properly related to the work that has to be done, sometimes u have to take the time, not to take ur time, but to take the time it needs. Do u expect too much? Is ur goals are unrealistics? Not too big they are but maybe the deadline or the action too importants. Do u loose a lot of time doing things u could make it done by other people? Or that just make u loosing time, and not doing the things that really matters?
Never think that a dream may be too big. Only the time, the action, the schedule, your minding or the actuals ressources arent at the right level. There is no dream that u can dream, that u can imagine that is too big to be realized.
Now how would u like your life to be? what do u exactly want? want do u want to change? and what do u want to achieve to give a sense to ur life? who do u want to become? what do u want to live or to see?
U have to write it down, CLEARLY with all the details. that when u read it, u can feel it. read it outloud for urself every day, that u know why u wake up and why u go sleep, for the next day that comes...
so much that when u close ur eyes, day or night, u see ur dreams & ur life u want! if u dont believe yet that u can do it, by the time u read it, u gonna start to believe its possible.
and ur mind gonna record it as something possible. its gonna work to find solutions to make it happen.
so now, i wont go on details for that, unless u want me to, but:
-stay away of dream busters.
-find ur life purpose. U dont have one, u dont have any dreams? Find one! (there is ways to do it, so no panic! But everyone has somes, maybe so deep inside of u that u cant see it but we all have it!
and no matter what happen, remember to urself:
-the succes isnt an achievement. its a long way to walk on.its who u have to become to make it happen that gonna make U, a success.
-dont let anybody or anything steal your dreams.
-u are unique and precious. u are more powerful than what u can think. u just dont know yet....
-a setback is only a setup for a comeback (willie jolley)
-dont give up. Dont ever ever give up. Never give up.(winston churchill)
-its not over until I win! (Les Brown)
U can do it! Its never too big to be real!
So now, lets just start!
Become your BIG U!!
|
