on women, now pt 2
3:02PM on February 24, 2010

you really should read part 1... it kinda prefaces this entry...

Does society want women to be dainty (helpless, simple) ??? Like our ideal predecesors... not expected to function of our own volition...

It would seem that way. On the one hand you have todays' successful woman.
She balances business, children, home & a sexlife... Not perfectly but still pretty amazingly...

It would seem that if you are not in a compromising postion they seek to trap you in one. You have no idea how many people have approached me with the question: Why don't you have kids ??? How did you accomplish this ??? Why did you do that ??? You can hear the shock, disdain etc. in their voice even if they don't say it... 

Then you have society old & young alike who can totally understand (and have many negative opinions but none that are helpful for) a woman with several children, poor living standards & really stagnant in very compromising, degrading & damaging conditions. No plans for moving forward. Actually oblivious to the situation they are subjecting themselves & their children to....

you're pregnant (and alone, ineviatably) -Where are the people to help you make a competent decision ??? Or at best to tell you that your life is not over if you keep the child & keep you from falling out of the race.

you're in an abusive relationship- Where are the family & freinds to pull you out of that situation ??? Do you realize you are in an unhealthy relationship ???

you're hustling on the street to no avail- How do you get to that place where you are  happier, with yourself, with your surroundings, with your life ??? If you are happier (as opposed to desperate, vengeful, miserable & just seeking something to make you laugh for the moment...) it's contagious, you make the people around you happier (if they want to be)

Bottomline... you own your body... what you do with it is up to you, that's how I think it should be... You should be seeking to elevate yourself... not materialistically... In the mental aspect... Do what you know is right for you... If you don't know figure it out... It does not help to hurt others, that has no positive effect for you (it shouldn't, nowadays who knows...) 

You could take the teachings of Nietzsche & apply them in a good way... Or you can be another Hitler... That's what he utilized from his studies...

The thing is... if you are already on the bottom of this worlds' shit pile & shit rolls downhill... where is it gonna go ??? Right back on you... I'll b back to bitch some more later... need some funny... lol