Kiss Kiss Kiss
12:29AM on November 03, 2009
Sex obviously is one of the most intimate things you can do with another person. In a "perfect world, it preferably, is somthing you do with a person you are married to, or in a commited relationship with. But, we all know that sex is a much more powerful driving force than many people would like to admit; and that many individuals NOT in serious relationships readily indulge in sexual connections with others. Its just a part of life.
How much more intimate can you get with a person and being totally nude, one person inside of the other making, not only, a physical connection but, because of the sheer intensity of the act, an emotional connection, as well. Some would say that the act of sexual intercourse is a connection on a spiritual level; that you are, also, linking the soul, of the two people, involved.
With all that said, I come to the point of kissing. We all know there are different "levels" of kissing. Whether it be a kiss you receive from your mother, a peck on the cheek from a friend or a deep tongue down from a lover, kisses mean different things, to different people, in different situations. These factors, also, extend to the reasons why people do, and dont, kiss in the first place.
Over the years of talking with various people and reading different accounts from others, it is VERY interesting to observe the many people who DONT/wont kiss another person, BUT, will indulge in oral sex, as well as, intercourse with that same person; BUT AGAIN, they WONT kiss them.
Much of the reasoning behind this is the implications of kissing, that kissing someone in the heat of intimacy implies a deeper commitment than the person denying the kiss, is willing (or ISN'T willing) to make. Like, having sex DOESN'T make the same implications to commitment. I guess, at this point, the significance of sex has been so watered down that many CAN differentiate its "current" significance from its "historic" meaning.
All this to say, there is a large population of people that are able to maintain a purely sexual, no strings attached, relationship WITHOUT involving kissing in it. That if they kiss that person, it signifies a deeper commitment being made to that person. But to be able to place your mouth on the "holiest of holys" and to engage in activities, normally, reserved for procreation and NOT, at least, kiss the person, seems hypocritical, at best (not be a judge of anyone...just my opinion). The floor is open...
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