Good looks...bad sex?
5:10AM on July 24, 2009
SENARIO ONE: Well built man, rock hard six pack abs, looking like he just stepped out of a magazine ad. Of course, you lust after him like a cat in heat; the mere sight of him makes your panties wet on the spot. You get the chance to get down and "dirty" with him and his skills are marginal, at best. He's not terrible in bed, but you've had much better. But, he damn easy on the eyes, and thats all that matters. Or does it?
SENARIO TWO: This guy got skills!! Can eat the lining out of a pussy, nice sized dick and KNOWS what to do with it; in more ways than you can even imagine. You've never cum as many times as you have with him, in ONE night. BUT, on the looks meter he's only busting a strong 7, and thats being generous. He's got a bit of a gut, and is balding a lil bit.
I was having a discussion with a lady friend who was watching the Mr. Marcus video I posted in my previous blog. She was all in "lust" over him and all excited about watching the video, until I brought up the point about his actual skills. Up to that point, she had never paid much attention to what he was doing because she was so in awe of his looks; and I can admit, dude is very well put together. When she went back and watched the video again, and looked at it with a more critical eye, she found that he wasn't doing anything extraordinary. Matter of fact, according to her, he wasn't really doing much at all, especially compared to the men she had been with. It totally changed how she saw him, and maybe how she views pornos, from this point on.
"It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same." -Fabienne, from PULP FICTION
We all, at some point, are visual creatures. A lot of the asssessments we make about people, initially, come from our what we see. Then we can usually delve deeper when we interact with them. But, it seems, most times we are so fixated on looks that we focus ONLY on that initiall judgement that we've made about them. So you continue to entertain a person, with "dime" looks and lackluster skills, OVERLOOKING the "average" looking people who maybe able to take you to the next "level". This is not to say that ALL "pretty" people lack skills (because we know thats a lie) and that all "average" people HAVE skills (because we know that, too, is a lie); that's as bad as the phallacy that ALL good pussy eaters CANT put "it" down. In the end, as the saying goes, we all look the same in the dark. Now what you gonna do when the lights go out?
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