Sometimes I feel like a nut....
12:11AM on August 13, 2009
Here's the senario: You are hot and heavy with your lady/man. Things are getting really good...I mean REALLY good. You feel yourself getting to that point, ever so closely then, SPLASH!! You cum REALLY HARD and you're done, thats it...roll over and go to sleep, while your partner sits there wondering if they are gonna be able to get theirs, without having to do it by themselves.
Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever been on either side of this equation?
Most of the time, and I've heard this complaint from women all the time, the guys gets his nut and he's done with his lady laying there to contemplate the future of her orgasm...and I'm sure, more times than we hear, women get theirs and consider themselves done for the night with their men, with dick in hand, jerking their way to a "happy ending". This brings me to the point of my blog and the main question I wanna ask...Is it NECESSARY to get your nut when you have sex?
Personally, sex is about the ACT and not the RESULT of the act. In layman's terms, I have sex just to have sex, NOT JUST to get my nut off. As anyone who truley knows that side of me, I always say, I CAN DO THAT ON MY OWN, I dont need a partner for that. Dont get me wrong, its a WONDERFUL thing to cum in the company of a good sex partner, but my goal is for THEM to get THEIRS, not about mine...so my pleasure is having my partner get theirs...SEVERAL TIMES, I hope. If I finish and DONT get mine, I'm not mad at all (a few times, I have wrapped up without getting my nut) I'm perfectly fine with it, because, like I said, its not about ME..its about her!
So is it possible for you to have fulfilling sex and NOT climax, is that within the realm of possibility?
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