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ARE YOU BROKE AND NEED HELP????
11:35AM on December 03, 2009
I am so disgusted with the people that are always claiming I'm broke, I need this and that, I can't afford to pay this bill or that bill, I'm going to lose my house or my car, my computer broke...playing on the sympathies of others to give them cash or buy them want they need...
but yet you don't see these same people busting their asses trying to make their own money to pay their own bills or buy their own needed things....I AM WATCHING YOU SO..... BEWARE
You are just a user - try something different and take care of your own for a change!! You'd be surprised at how rewarding the feeling is..
STOP USING OTHERS TO GET WHAT YOUR WANT!! EARN YOUR OWN KEEP!!
If you CAN'T make it on the net, try getting another JOB!!
1. A regular activity performed in exchange for payment, especially as one's trade, occupation, or profession.
2. A position in which one is employed.
Are you broke and need help??
FUCKING HELP YOURSELF FIRST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Disclaimer:
If this doesnt apply to you don't take offense...no offense is meant to all the hard working people out there that take care of their own...we all may need help on occasion..but some people don't even try and ask for help ALL THE TIME...
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Camgi... |
December 08, 2009 (Report It)
I really hope the men that visit the lobby read this blog! We ladies are here trying to earn a living, not to give them everything. |
Mistr... |
December 05, 2009 (Report It)
High_Dave,
Lazy people are just that..lazy, no motivation for anything...and its sad...really sad that a person doesnt want to help themselves to better themself , other than to take advantage of others! |
Mistr... |
December 05, 2009 (Report It)
TheRudeBoner...
First I would have to see your boner!! giggle |
Mistr... |
December 04, 2009 (Report It)
Miss411
Hardworking people really do understand...we work for ours and really dont want to or just dont ask for help if needed...those that don't work just leech off others that are giving! |
Mistr... |
December 04, 2009 (Report It)
NurseVicki,
I agree with you so much...True friends are very hard to find...and when we do find them hold on tight!! |
High_... |
December 04, 2009 (Report It)
Very nice post and i would have to agree its one thing when u actually need help and then theres u being lazy and not even helping urself when u know u can i say cut off the beggers hun ya dont need those kind of ppl in ur life at all, im with ya fuck the beggers get a job lazy asses keep up the gd stuff sexy. |
theRU... |
December 04, 2009 (Report It)
Mistress Farrah, Oh my sexy friend...you are so correct!
question?
if I changed my name to TheBROKE boner, maybe then I could get the Big E.D. Sponsorship. I can see it now....ViagraSingles hour hosted by Rude's very own..Broke Boner.
or maybe
FunnyBoner is better suited for me. I will gladly pay you tuesday for a spanking today.
Muah...xoxox we should play together sometime |
Nurse... |
December 04, 2009 (Report It)
Been there done that and I don't even have a t-shirt I dont name names but I tried many times to help others help themselves and few can handle that they want you to hand it to them! I am learning to watch for true friends not users! These are gems that are hard to find! Great writing! |
Mistr... |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
Master your comment didnt sound bad...I agree with you whole heartedly...there are those that truely do need and DESERVE help....
but there are others that always play a "game" and use others for as much as they can get...without holding down a job other than the "net" ...crying the blues about not having something and needing something or a house payment they cant make etc...and it sickens me ! |
Maste... |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
understood Farrah and sorry my comment sounds so bad ...just hit home a lil to much |
Mistr... |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
My dear Tweety!
Words cannot describe the anger I feel towards those that abuse and try and take advantage of a kind heart!
More than just your ex should read this blog. |
Mistr... |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
TousledElegance....I so agree....its a natural high when we do something on our own..the sense of pride and accomplishment is awesome! |
Mistr... |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
Master I do agree....I am referring to the ones that ask over and over and over and really abuse the kindheartedness of another...but yet do nothing to help themselves.... |
Maste... |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
I cn somewhat agree as even at my worst times I am not someone to ask for help ...but there are times that it is needed and apreciated when hardship falls on some and they could use some help to get back on there feet... for example someone who looses just about everything they own due to fire but is to proud to tell folks or ask for help ...those are the people who trully deserve a helping hand |
Trifecto |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
Its hard to change people once they think they know who they are. |
Tousl... |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
Thank you for posting this. The sense of entitlement that is so prevalent today really chaps my ass! ;)
It feels so good when I know I've done something on my own! |
Miss411 |
December 03, 2009 (Report It)
I agree misstress, it's hard working on rude especailly but yet i have people that always want passes to something im doing...if i give everyone passes where's my profit..I don't know..maybe it's just hard working people that understand!!!great post |
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Users and Scamers and what drives them?!
3:52PM on July 20, 2009
In the almost 2 years I've been of rude I've gotten to know quite a few people here and I am amazed and shocked at the stories people have told me about scams and users..
People that get what they want/need/desire from others, with the promise to pay back but they are rarely , if ever, heard from again. And of course the "good deed doers" never gets paid back..
I've hear stories of borrowed money - hundreds and hundred of dollars, of purchased plane tickets, electronic equipment, etc etc etc...
What drives a user and scammer to do what they do? To take advantage of those with a kind heart , and then once they get what they want they go about their merry way without looking back...Or those that continue the game with I want this or I need this , this or that broke, I'm gonna be homeless, I can't pay my bills....blah blah blah....continuing on and on when they dont get something. Some bring their kids into the picture to use as leverage..
DON'T THEY GET THE HINT!!! THE ANSWER IS NO........................
If you're on the verge of being homeless , don't you think its time to GET A JOB (other than the internet), and/or get some assistance. If you cannot make a living on the internet - you should find a FULL TIME JOB off the net, or maybe two or three...
I am by NO MEANS trying to be heartless here with this rant....I've needed help (my sons medical bills for instance)....but my ass went and got insurance too!!.....I've also held down 3 full time jobs to take care of my family.. I am talking about those they get something and don't pay back, dont contact the person that helped them, and those that keep asking directly and/or indirectly...
GET A FUCKING JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for listening and would love your input!!
Kisses, Farrah **
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garybill |
July 21, 2009 (Report It)
In my lifetime I have both been helped and have helped, sometimes in ways that are not monetary or even noticed, sometimes a kind word or a vote of confidence is good. There are some though that will take and promise, like I need this much to get my phone on, then never call you. or someone who is your "Dear Friend" untill someone she thinks has deeper pockets. such is life someday we will all have to atone, but for now I just hope the few that are still my "True Friends" will come through and help each other. |
camcp... |
July 21, 2009 (Report It)
I have worked on the internet for many years and will give anybody that needs help anything I can. We have been payed back so many times by many people that had nothing to do with it. just a thought! |
Delmar69 |
July 20, 2009 (Report It)
Well, seeing how I am just a prick, it may not affect me so much....and I aint got nothin anywho, so, what the hey!!! Good post tho sweet lady, now lets get busy again he he |
CrissyDD |
July 20, 2009 (Report It)
It is always sad when floormats even walk all over those who help.
Great post, while I get used all the time and taken advantage of I had to learn to just go with the punches.
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Trini... |
July 20, 2009 (Report It)
I understand your frustration. I have been helped and have tried to return that help even if it is just a thank you. That being said, I have been scammed and screwed over in so many ways, but I know that is going to happen. That does not stop me from trying to be generous where I can (sometimes a thank you is all I can afford)... while your frustration is understandable, there will always be scammers and users out there.
Signed... a floor mat |
Juicy... |
July 20, 2009 (Report It)
I have had many people generous to help me in my times of need and i did everything in my power to if nothing else show my gratitude. I have also helped a few people and found out i was just being used and then tried to be made out to be the bad person. I am personally going through that situation now and it really sucks. Even more so because my poor children have to deal with the drama too. |
Cathe... |
July 20, 2009 (Report It)
It makes me sad for the people who get used but I truly believe that scam artists and the like will get what they deserve one day. |
Tweety79 |
July 20, 2009 (Report It)
For Whom doth the bell toll?? I am atoned to what you said Farrah but the feeling of shining feeling of helping a "friend" is soon tarnished by greed. Well said lady!!xoxox |
Nurse... |
July 20, 2009 (Report It)
yes well some people are that way they expect others to pull their weight And use you till your tired of their shit and then they find someone new! And user also are real life as well as on line! |
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