RELATIONSHIPS INSPIRED BY THE ONE AN ONLY TAQUILLA
3:56AM on May 19, 2009
as i lay awake not able to sleep at all.....i get up and check my mail.......low and behold TAQUILLA has written another blog.....of course i go check it out.....which i need to go check every one's out more often....so i read her latest blog and of course i love it.....but i scan her other blogs and i see one entitled "ONLINE DATING" also inspired by another wonderful person on rude by the name of CALIFSTYLE.....she has a list of different kinds of relationships posted there....if you haven't read it....put a pin right here and go check it out and come back to mine......so now that you've read hers or skimmed it whichever.....this brings me to my topic.....
a lot of you know that i have found the man of my dreams online.....and some of you don't believe this is possible.....i will say this...if you can become so close to people and want to know them better on a friend basis.....to know them outside of rude.....to want to go visit them....to want to be a part of their internal lives....then why would and could you not meet someone to be in a relationship with.....some people say that they are open minded......but these same people are not so open minded to see that this can be done.....for a lot of people rude has opened their eyes to a new way of living their lives in general.....not just on the Internet.....more people need to open their minds to new things and explore things......not just sexually but to become so close to people that you call them family...casual friends....comrades.....homies.....partners.....soulmates....ect......then why is finding a mate online impossible???
I'll expound on why it is possible......when you meet someone online....you have so much more time to get to know this person on a more mental level and open a line of communication that most people never have when it's based on just a sexual relationship.......if you so decide you can learn more about this person as time goes on if you find there is a connection......communication is key in any kind of relationship as most people know......you can't even be just passing buddies if you can't say hello to one another......with a distance between the two involved....talking to one another becomes the mainstay that makes it work in any relationship......if you are lacking in this part of a relationship...the Internet can be a tool for you to use to make said skill stronger.....for some it's harder to verbalize what you are saying and with having to write it down....makes it easier to ask questions that most would not dare ask in person or face to face.....
being opened minded doesn't mean you lose your common sense......if you get that feeling that most get when bullshit is being told to you in person....you will get that same feeling over the net......if they are lying about something....in time just like in person they will indeed tell on them selves......if you get that certain feeling in your body that says...run forest run...then damit cut all ties and stop talking to them just like you would if you were face to face with them.....being open minded does not mean you are stupid......it just means you are open to new things and are willing to give it at least one try and if not pleasing to you then you will never have to do them again......
i know there are a lot of single people on this site and on other sites as well.....but because you want someone to be in the same city as you are then you push all others away because the closeness of cities isn't there.....and because you do this you can be missing out on the man/woman of your dreams.....distance can be closed with the use of trains,planes and automobile......where there is a will there is always a way.....it makes the time that you do get to spend together that much better cause you know within those few days.....you will make it all it can possibly be......memories to hold until the next time you or they visit.....when you have a mate in the same city sometimes you forget all the sweet things you did to get them to be your mate.......but with distance.....you have to keep the creative juices flowing in order to make things work if you are willing to put in the time.....relationships of all kinds are hard to maintain.....they all take work....if you are not doing your part....be it friend...lover....soulmate...partner then it will not last.....
i consider a lot of you my friends and family here.....so i do my part to be here whenever you need me.....be it for business.....shoulder to cry on....ear to talk to....problem solver....confidant or just to have a few laughs with....for some it seems i have become a mother figure so to speak.....i'm just glad i didn't have to give birth or diaper your dirty butts.....omg and i didn't even have to breast feed any of you...hahahahhahaha.....just know that i wear all these hats and accept my place with so much honor and pride......like i always say to each of you
if you ever need me i am always here for you.....
now with that said....imma need your two cents...be it positive or negative.....you know imma read them all....kisses
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