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cpounder |
September 23, 2008 (Report It)
At this time it is only human for you to feel this way and no one else can say how long it will take for you to decide to move forward. My advice would be to look at yourself and be proud of who and what you stand for first, make sure that the next man is a man MENTALY as well as physicaly then you won't be having to put up with a relationship that reminds of your boyfriend in highschool. Remember not All men are the same , but if you keep getting involved with men of the same nature as the ones who hurt you then will always be hurt in or about the same way and time as before. |
astrokes |
September 22, 2008 (Report It)
Damn ma I'm sorry u got broken. I have been on both sides of the fence (hurting and hurted), I broke a few but when it trns around and happens to you it doesn't feel good! Honestly I can't say what I have done to get over someone, I just take it and move on, give them that "Fuck Em" Attitude! From being being here on rude I can tell you have a good heart so it was their lost......FUCK EM, Strokes gotcha babe! |
badbo... |
September 14, 2008 (Report It)
Wow I definately know how you feel! I can't imagine someone would do that to you of all people being that you have a beautiful heart and your always willing to help others! Whomever it is that did break your heart will only regret ever doing so because you are a good one and you will find your someone! |
Eroti... |
September 14, 2008 (Report It)
stunna stunna...i can honestly say that right now i feel what u are going through...but i will save my thoughts for later dont want to pour it all out here... |
TaQuilla |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
I don't know any1 who hasn't had a broken heart. As far as healing goes... resign yourself to trust a person to be exactly who you know they are, never for what you want them to be. Preventive medicine. @>~~~~ for my StunnaBoo |
derek... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
I've had my heart broken, several times. If it doesn't hurt when a relationship ends, then it was not much of a relationship to begin with. Falling in love is like having children. Losing your virginity can be painful, but is essential. Childbirth can be painful, but has to be gone though. And children can cause so much pain to the parents, at various points in your life. But the pain is worth it. In the same way, the pain of broken hearts is part of the job description of being a human being on the lookout for a soulmate. If you get dumped by someone who does not want the relationship to end in bitterness and acrimony, then I think if you cannot persuade him/her to change their mind, you need to move on, and let them have their freedom to find someone who can give them waht you cannot. You need a support network of friends to help with the healing process, because it is ALWAYS painful when you get dumped by someone you still love and respect. If, on the other hand, you get stabbed in the back by someone who shows zero concern for you, then in certain respects that's easier to recover from. You know that the person you had feelings for no longer exists, and maybe was never more than a figment of your imagination. Your ex-lover painted a false image of himself/herself, simply in order to get laid, or to get something else. Such a person is beneath contempt, and you should not let that experience poison your hopes of finding your real soulmate. It sounds to me like you have been dumped by the bastards. Just wait until you get dumped by a non-bastard. That, in my experience, is much more painful. |
nasty... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
Stunna there isn't a time limit on how long it takes to heal. Everyone heals in their own time. But from my experience I can tell you that don't jump into another relationship to quickly. The reason I say that is because I did that one time and I ended up hurting the other person because I still was emotionally connected to the previous person. Just take your time and get you together and then you will be ready for whatever comes along next. But I know you are a strong woman and you can do it. Just take a deep breath and exhale andrealize the hurt and pain and deal with it. But don't let that hurt and pain consume you. Yeah you might cry. Yeah you might scream or have a down day, But just realize that that day was just that day and the next day you'll try to make it better than the last. |
turbo... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
stunna ur strong u'll bounce back girl, i know u will |
MIZZ_K |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
Mamy I also know what Ur going thru, and for me it was horrible.
I had to let a man go that I loved but yet, I was not( at that Time)
ready to get married or move . I had to let Him go and it broke mmine and his Heart. After I did not talked to anybody online or touched my Pc for a Year. I changed my nicks on every Messsenger I had .... and now after alsmost 2 years I can say Im getting over it.Yes Time heals ............sometimes it takes too damn long ......But I know ur a very Strong Blk Women and I know U will pass thru this ......And U know if I could do more for U then listen to U i would .But I always have an ear for U , if U need to talk
I loves ya Mamy |
MsBambie |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
I knew I should have proof read it...that's what I get for being lazy... heals* not heels...lol. I was looking at them damn heels over there>>>>>>>>>>>>>>lol. there are other corrections but i'm sure you all get the point dammit!!! Smooches from Ms Bambie (yes again) |
MsBambie |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
Stunna Stunna Stunna, that's was a place I thought i'd never visit again. *Inhales...exhales...* Okay, First let me say that time heels all things. With that I also need to say that there is no time limit on how long your heart will be broken. I've had my heart broken before. I just knew he was gonna be the man I marry have kids by and just do the whole nine yards. Come to find out he was promising the same thing to three other women (one of which WAS my best friend). I loved him with ever fiber of my being. I wanted forever with him, needless to say I got sooooo depressed and stop eating all that shit. This is how I got over it. My granny said "That, that does not kill you, can only make you stronger." I came close but was NOT dead. I got my shit together and vowed to myself to never let any man or woman get me in that state of mind again. It's worked for me. Well I have rambled enough. Keep ya head up sexy. I on the sideline cheering for ya...I wanna see you get up and knock him out!!!! I hope my two pennies help. Wuv u!!!
Smooches from Ms Bambie
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dasug... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
Mami...I know how you feel. And no babes..there's no time limit as to how long the pain will last..cause if left untreated..the pain can last forever..you know? Honestly..they didnt deserve you mami. A beautiful soul like yourself should never EVER be treated with unfairly! I know there's someone out there for you that will love you unconditionally..right down to the pure essence of you. You will find someone deserving of your love. All I can say is keep the faith..stay prayed up..and trust...Mister Right will be here before you know it! Besides...I'll cut their asses if you need me to : ] |
Kingo... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
Aaawww. It's gonna be ok Stunna. It seems like whenever a woman falls for a man they have to ask will they be hurt. A man only knows how to answer "no" at that point. I have had my heart broken too, but the key is to remember that you are still loved by others and now you have more energy to focus on what you love to do.
Truth is, this is a good thing. God puts the bad relationships in our lives to prove as prototypes. False love that makes our true love that much more special. You will find yours Stunna. You are gr8 ;-) |
miss4... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
i don't know if its a time limit on pain...but you just gotta let go and trust god....it hurts and if you dwell you will hurt and he will become strong off of your pain....
it hurts now but time heals all things...so a broken heart can be healed.....u have us and he will soon see he lost a wonderful thang...
KEEP STUNTTIN ON THEM MOFO'S...u know you got us and we got your back....
miss411 |
Sexxx... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
Hey Miss Stunna...only your heart knows when it's time to move on...only your mind will tell you to get up one day and stop being so sad. I think all of us women have had our hearts broken at some time in life. I was with a guy for some time and thought he was the one I was going to with with...for the remainder of my life. Of course..as you know...i'm single. He found someone that had more to offer..I guess...I have healed and learned from this experience...I will never forget it. I won't say it made me bitter but it has made me wise...so..with that being said...we all need time to grieve and be sad...it's healthy but the question is how will you use this experience. Keep your head up but never be to proud to ask others for support...to lean on....I will be checking on you daily...~Angel~ |
swoll... |
September 12, 2008 (Report It)
Hey Miss Stunna I know how you feel gave my heart to my first born father for nine years we were planning a wedding and everything the just out the blue I wasn't enough for him and he had to go find two or three more women I can't say I did anything wrong never cheated all I did was went to work came home took care of the house and catered to him I even lost alot of good friends because of him my world was just centered around this one man. But in the end I came out on top all I can say is be strong hold your head up because the right man is out ther for you I'm now engaged to be married to the love of my life we dated in middle school I left and went out of town for 6yrs came back to hometown and we seen each other in a place we both worked a hospital started talkin again had a beautiful baby girl who is now three hand I'm as happy as can be and for the one that did me wrong well all of his relationships didn't turn out so well see the always say what gose around comes around so just stay strong ma. |
