ABOUT RUDE?!
4:55AM on September 29, 2009
 Okay, I'm interested to learn your experiences of Rude 
1) What is the Thing you LOVE BEST and HATE MOST about RUDE at this present time?? 2) And what are the PLUSES and the PITFALLS of being here? Be as candid as you want, or not(!) You never know, others might feel the same, it would just be nice to share POVs and see whether or not any particular themes emerge. I promise to respond to anyone who takes the time to post a comment (below) Thanks very much. Levity xx
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Levit... |
July 06, 2010 (Report It)
Well Rudy I know you're no longer here, not through choice, but rest assured u are missed. |
RudyB... |
June 09, 2010 (Report It)
Me...smile |
trans... |
June 08, 2010 (Report It)
I love rude. I wouldn't change anything about it. I know I would enjoy it more if I was able to do more posts, but that is my issue and not the site's. Fortunately, I can still enjoy the site a great deal because I am more of a voyeur than an exhibitionist. I appreciate that this site makes it possible to take the things that turn you on and turn them into lucrative enterprises for people who are real and not airbrushed and polished. I have enjoyed the opportunity to submit some of my erotic writings and I have received positive feedback from some, which is tremendously encouraging. I have met some of the sexiest people ever (including you ms. levityheaven). I was introduced to a wonderful virtual world, the utherverse, through rude; and I have met some interesting and sexy people there as well. I don't have a lot of experience with the message boards, but they seem to be pretty standard fare. I don't have a problem with the price of chips or the chip system. The system is pretty easy for me to follow and the price isn't a problem because I don't have to buy chips until I am ready and able. Overall, I would say my experience on rude has been fantastic. It has provided a forum for people to express themselves in varied ways without being judged adversely and that is a good thing. Thanks Lev for the opportunity to speak about these things on your blog and keep doing what you do.
All the best,
transitkid |
HEFRE... |
June 05, 2010 (Report It)
Well I think that RUDE is a place where people can let it all hang out, and be free, it's great to be in a place, where other's that think the same way are, and being able to make money here also is a plus, I feel that when your adult and you make that choice to be as open as we are here on RUDE, then your on your way to realy living life open and free! "Keep Fucking" And Levity, I want that pussy bad! |
Levit... |
June 05, 2010 (Report It)
Hey Tease LOL I agree, it's definitely addictive :) no question about that :) |
Tease... |
June 05, 2010 (Report It)
i dunno what to say im just ADDICTED to Rude.... |
Levit... |
June 05, 2010 (Report It)
Hi RudyBear800, glad you're having lotsa fun on the general and brawling pit message boards. Unfortunately though, there is no apparent business advantage to using them, and historically members social interaction on Rude is much better spent in other areas, but if you find it fun, good for you darlin. |
Levit... |
June 05, 2010 (Report It)
Camgirltee agree, there are many options here to explore, probably more than any other place I've come across online, a whole lot more could be done to ensure accesibilty for all potential customers but that being said, the wealth of facilities here is probably second to non. Re the lobby, you need alot of patience in that area, I'm with you on that :) |
Levit... |
June 05, 2010 (Report It)
Hi Mz_Minxxx thanks for commenting, sorry it's taken an age for me to respond. There is some 'community' aspect here, so I'm feeling you on that. Re VIP, we'll have to assume that VIP is a crucial funding stream to keep the site up and running, otherwise to me it's pretty obvious it creates disadvantages for producers. The only way we can look at it positively really is that perhaps if there was no VIP (or something similar to VIP), there would be no Rude. I don't know if that is the case, but that's the only way one could really square in ones head the abundance of disadvantages to having it in place in its current incarnation.. |
RudyB... |
December 04, 2009 (Report It)
The Brawling Pit...The General Board. |
Camgi... |
November 18, 2009 (Report It)
What I love about rude is that they listen to the producers and changed things for us to make more money. Let's face it most producers are here only for the money not fun. We have bills too fellas. What I hate about rude is old guys acting like they are new in the lobby and don't know what buttons to push. SMH |
Mz_Mi... |
November 16, 2009 (Report It)
Hi Lev, kisses to you babe....to answer your questions posted: 1) What I like about Rude, personally for me, is that I can be just as nasty and perverted as I want to be with like-minded people. I love the "community" base of the website which makes Rude, for me anyway, different than other porn sites. Personally, I wouldn't even put it in that category. It's more like any of the other social sites, just with a whole heap of porn-ish content to enjoy! LOL 2.) What I don't like about Rude is the fact that it seems like it's setup so that your access to the site will be limited in some areas unless you become a VIP and/or Producer. When I first joined this site I was so overwhelmed with so much content, but my real interest was in the Live Houses and Group Shows. I was not willing to buy a ticket or sub to every house that I wanted to see, so after one day I just went ahead and upgraded to VIP. It seems to me that now that I'm a Producer, it's a lot harder for me to keep "roommates" because they always end up upgrading to VIP and/or Producer so there's my roommate down the drain, lol. I think it's great when people upgrade, it's more money for the site, which is more money for all of us Producers, but at the same time, where's our incentive to do Live House or Group Shows if everyone in there is getting in free? I think I have had one purchased Group Show ticket, in the few that I've done, and six roommates that have all but two upgraded. The two that haven't upgraded have an unlimited pass to my Live House. So, that being said, other than Private shows, and maybe a Flix or Pix here and there, I really don't see how Producers can benefit from the "business" aspect of the site. I'm also a newbie here, so please correct me if I'm wrong. I'm here to learn and get to know everyone that I can on here....I love my new Rude fam!! xoxoxox Kisses ---Minxxx |
Levit... |
November 13, 2009 (Report It)
MrBoogie baby boy, wise words them "if your gonna be a critic do so without being an ass!" lol, I like that alot. I will note that down for future use most certainly, hope you don't mind :) Yes I agree too, a comment costs nothing. If you like someones stuff, say so, not only is it nice for the poster to read, but it is an incentive for them to put more great stuff out there for you to view. All good.Thanks for bringing that up. And yes, if I have nothing good to say about someone work, then I move on by. But usually I find there is almost always something good to say, and often something brillaint to say, there is some many very enticing home movies, whats not to like, and clickng the stars is right and proper too. Someone took the trouble to post, that's enogh for me. Thank youn sweetie for droppng by, much appreciated. Lev xxx |
Levit... |
November 13, 2009 (Report It)
XXL!!! how lovely to see you in my Blog :) thanks for coming by. Ah yes the ladies, the beautiful beautiful ladies, oh and the gentlemen, some lovely charming gentlemen it has been a privilage for me to get to know. Some have been so nice to me, it humbles me alot. I have to absolutely to agree with you on the fact there is so much talent here, and that we can actually interact with and hopefully get to know. For that I give the site 100% credit, many other places have not gone for that angle, and have made it tricky for us to get to know our fellow cam girls and guys and video producers. Its all business. Here is a refreshing change in that, and that's why I hang here more than my other places I think. The cash helps too of course, but it's the folks that keep me checking back. As for dip in shows, yes if that's the case its a shame. I think I must have my head in the sand though cause I'm not aware of lots of drama in shows, and that shows have dipped. Sorry you see this, and that this keeps you away :( :( :( Producers producing, yes I have to agree, be that posting material, doing shows, or contributing behind the scenes, because of the benefits, it is probably good that you need to do some producing to have the tag and the bonuses. The tricky part would be monitoring this, probably an administrative nightmare, which is why I'm guessing that they haven't gone down that road, but I fully understand your point on that one. Much love hun. Don't be a stranger xxxxx |
Levit... |
November 13, 2009 (Report It)
Hey Dom, yes I too think that's the great thing about here. Normal people exploring thier sexuality, it's lovely just to be free and see free spirits, in this very uptight world. kisses hun, havent seen you i a while so I hope you are well and having fun xx |
Levit... |
November 13, 2009 (Report It)
Thanks for dropping back in this Blog Tweety :), and for your well considered words as always. Yes fakes and phonies *sigh* well I think a somewhat fanciful persona is fine till some use it to hurt people or play on peoples feelings and sympathy or use it to put other people down or make themselves out to be better than others. I hate that kind of thing. In real life, people who do that are ones to avoid, so on here it's no doubt the same thing. It's a shame you feel you now have to build walls around yourself as protection, but its impossible to blindly trust here even though it would be so lovely if we could. I used to think i could do that, like you did, but that isn't the case anymore. Still I'll take people at face value none the less, until such time as warning bells ring. And fortunaely they don't ring all that often. |
Levit... |
November 13, 2009 (Report It)
MrCivic, thanks for your good words. Yes I like the variety here and the diversity, and that yes you can use an artistic bent if you choose too, mind you I love straight hardcore fucking vids and pics too. The drama comes with the terittory, ever worked in an office full of women, I have, it's always going to be a bitch fest lol. But mostly I don't see alot of drama right at the moment so its easy to over look it. And not forgetting sometimes it can be justified, though best to stay out of it if possible. Anyway, glad you're here MrC, and what a lovely gentleman you are looking after me in my live room over the last year so well. Much appreciation as always. xxxxx |
MrBoo... |
November 12, 2009 (Report It)
Hey Lev, first off thanks for the invite. I like the fact that its a voyuer community an that most people are willing to help you with certain things if you ask nicely, but i dont like that it tally's how many vids you watch or the fact that people sometimes view without commenting on what they think about your work(vids/pics). Also i haven't experienced this personally but i have seen quite a few very unwarranted an rude(no pun intended) comments on peoples material....my thought is that if your gonna be a critic do so without being an ass! Thanks again for the opp to voice my opinion an appreciate all of the great work you do, love always my little heaven.......xoxoxoxoxo |
XXL |
November 12, 2009 (Report It)
this is pretty easy. What i like the most is the voyuer aspect of the site and the interaction. i like producing the vids as well. Outsiders never understand how Rude is a community, more then just a porn site. Oh and I cant forget the women on Rude.. Its some very lickable ladies on here and they are pervs just like me. Now what i dont like is the fact that there are all these producers who dont produce anything. i can understand giving the ladies producer status hopefully encouraging them to do shows or do videos and go private. But to let the guys become producer and 80% dont produce shit, takes away from the site. To keep your producer status you should be active on this site. Almost everyone in the shows nowadays are blue and gold. I used to be a paying VIP until i EARNED my producer status so thats cool. VIP's earned theres. The childishness takes away from the site too. The dumb stuff makes it hard to tolerate this place like I used to. my advice would be to make producers produce or lose there status and nip the dumb shit in the butt. More people will start doing shows again and we can have some good perving, cause the SHIT SUCKS NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Tweety79 |
October 25, 2009 (Report It)
Good one Lev! Thank you for the chance to air my dirty laundry!! lol I love the interaction here, the chats are usually very kewl and the shows are even kewler but the dealing with the fake, the unreal orbs that exist here makes it seem like it is not worthwhile. Yes, we live and or exist in a cyber place but is that a reason not to be real or do a lot of rudies have a second personality or a third? To exist in falseness is ok until you have the chance to meet or be with another rude person....then the poop hits the propellar. I for one do not exist here under false pretenses and I assume it is to much to expect from the minority that chooses to live a second life here......I for one am building walls to keep my self out of harms way anymore and i believe that all comes from the fact that even a wall can't stop a lie. Kewl Beans Lev and thanks again xoxoxoxox |
mrciv... |
October 09, 2009 (Report It)
Hey Levi. Well the thing I like most about rude is how that people from all over the world come here and can share their bodies and artwork to other people that truely feel the same way about sex. I like Rude alot better than other free porn sites because here they actually let people use their minds to make videos and not just straight f*cking. Makes it much more entertaining and interesting.
Now for the parts I hate. Well for one I don't like when there is alot of problems and drama between hosts. I know its normal for humans to not get along but I wish it didnt happen in public. And I really wish they would lose the whole "chip" thing and just give you a base line dollar amount. Like say you want a prvt well it will be 2.99/min and if you want to rent my video well it is 4.99 for 24 hours. These chips just confuse me.
Oh and one thing I want to share is that everybody on here should be given a star. Nobody said they have to come here and give away some things for free like Live houses. Its an honor to see beautiful woman proud of their bodies and not affraid to share them.
You woman are a gift and I am very happy to have such woman as my friends. This site all in all is great just small updates needed. |
Levit... |
October 02, 2009 (Report It)
BushTuckerMan, yup bb, time flies when you're having fun, its sure does :) What a great point you make. Yes producers and consumers interacting is a key ingredient that makes this place different. It’s unusual to be able to interact with so many of the 'girls in the videos', I don’t see that as much anywhere else. One of the key aims in the creation of Rude appears to have been adult social networking, that is played out in the wide ranging message boards, the support, the hands on approach by management (especially in the early days), the introduction of clitter and IM, the list is endless. So it’s easy to see how to a large extent that social aspect has been achieved. Yes it's no secret I do wish that there was less unnecessary restrictions on non VIP members (i.e. limits on comments, message board posts, blog posts, Rude mail, and Rude page views etc), obviously I speak as a novice in the business end of things, but I think any disadvantages on taking away some of those restrictions, would be outweighed greatly by the advantages of simply having more people here and an increase to the vibrancy of the place. Vibrancy is really very important and really stimulating, and for many it is as stimulating as money, sometimes more so, that should not be forgotten, yet I think it can so easily be. |
Levit... |
October 02, 2009 (Report It)
One of the things I'd like changed is the main colour of the site being grey and white, I think a darker background would be much better and more flattering to the overall feel. Having said that, the fact we can adapt and have a music player on our own Rude pages is super cool. I'd also like the ability to put a moving image on our page, I've asked about this, but I'm not sure if it's on the priority list, probably more a 'would be nice to have' rather than a 'must have' but the place is evolving day on day so well, you never know! :) |
Levit... |
October 02, 2009 (Report It)
swaali hey bb, yup, you knocked the nail on the head, that's exactly what I like here, sharing and learning in a quality setting, with people of a like mind. Of course there is another side to that in that just because you hang out on a porn site doesn't mean you are open minded, I've met some of the most uptight people here too, people who are amazingly scornful, when push comes to shove, of the whole amatuer porn game and yet can't stay away year in and year out, that's so funny. Thankfully mostly that isn't the case! :) I agree it's lovely when folk treat it like a community, but the business angle is crucial to it's sucess so hopefully it can be both. |
domet... |
September 30, 2009 (Report It)
ok, i took an extra day to think about this question, there are a hundred sites showing tits and asses of all sizes, i like that fact that these are regular people being featured here, most people have a inner sexual side that must be explored, this can be a safe place to do it.
Mild mannered by day then at night turning into a sexual fantasy. I will come back for the down side. |
thick... |
September 30, 2009 (Report It)
they could go back to being free, hate that i can only watch 6 vids a day |
BushT... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
I just checked and its nearly 3 years since I joined. What I love the most is the way that producers and consumers can get together in one place, there is a real community feel to the place. So many wonderful people go out of their way to turn each other on. What dont I love - the bitching on the forums, there really is no need for some of the vitriol that is spouted. Another thing that has detrached from the feel of the place is the over emphasis on paying; whilst I agree that people should be paid for their efforts, it shouldnt be everything! |
Levit... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
justmeyall yes I'm totally into the amateur stuff too, professional porn I love aswell, hell I just love porn! :() I guess I am in the right place! Yes the old days when everything was free, that was great, I won’t argue. I miss some of my ol’ buddies, but it just wasn't sustainable for the site. It's nice to be paid for some of my work too. Much of the fun is simply in sharing, but a cheque in the post ain’t to be sniffed at. Best thing is being allowed to perv unabated by stupid society conventions. You're right, on balance Rude certainly does rock like a mofo lol I agree :) Oh, and not forgetting all the features that we have access to as producers, and the fact that if members come up with a good idea, the Rude gods do often actually listen and will add stuff tweak stuff they think is worthwhile, I can’t say the same for many other Adult websites. That is a really nice thing about this place. |
swaali77 |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
I love meeting people and sharing ideas. Learning different things and teaching different things. All with people that just happen to be Perverted, like me...lol. I hate the people that act like Rude is Just a Porn Site! The ones that dont see it for what it really is...A Perv Community! Kisses Lev, big ups Rude Fam |
Levit... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
Hey Tweety (man with the riding chaps grrrrr! :) , I like that Rude went for the community aspect too, other sites haven't invested in doing that, so it’s a plus point here definitely.. Re your point 1) Well I'd be disingenuous if I said anything against sitting on voyeur with ones legs spread (pussy too for that matter :), wouldn’t I heh heh, that was my live house to a tee, not for the reason you gave though(!) If I’m on cam then I’m generally feeling horny, and cause I like to retain anonymity the cam has to be positioned pretty close by, I'm not able to just stroll around the room at will. Plus I think, in the old days, guys were more happy to stare at someone watching TV and stuff, but the whole game was new and exciting back then. Now, well even that TV show Big Brother has been axed cause people expect to be properly entertained (rightly or wrongly). Personally I think all voyeur houses on here should go back to free to all, the advantages would, I think, out way the disadvantages, then we’d be much more likely get the true voyeur aspect back like you prefer. Re your point 2) People who actively try to make their post numbers higher on the Message Boards for it’s own sake, I don’t understand, but whatever floats their boat I guess. Me, I can only post if there seems a reason too, otherwise its pointless and a waste of time. Your point about people who enter most threads no matter the discussion to fight amongst themselves hit a nerve :( I hate that so much. Healthy argument about specific topics, cool, but don’t bring your crap into every thread you see, it’s pathetic. Oh, and don't get me started re those who make it their life’s work to enter the world and his wife’s threads to piss all over people, and often before they even know them. Going in all guns blazing every five seconds with total strangers on the net, that is what the word ‘keyboard warrior’ was invented for. It’s not a good look. |
Levit... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
Hey kahless, hope all's good bb. Yeah the site is full of lucious chicks of lots of different nationalities, always a plus point I agree, and definitely got its fair share of black ladies. I think lots of the producers on here are busy producing so sometimes turn the chat feature off, it's a shame but understandable. |
Levit... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
D-_MILDZ/ hi there. Well, don't agree regarding chips, I think the price is okay as is. But I do wish that the site had less limitations on standard stuff for non VIP members. |
Levit... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
Hi my darlin justmeyall, unfortunetely the mods delete posts if they contain url's but i caught it b4 it went. Anyone who wants it can drop me or you a rude mail, hope that's okay hun xxx |
justm... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
the amatuer stuff is what i really look for and on rude that's where it will be a fresh dose of it everytime i come back but now yhere different rules and fees...i understand people have to make a living and everyone wants to be rich.......but i just come back every now and then.i use other sites to load up my own personal stuff because the sites are totally free. dont get it twisted though rude rocks like a mutha especially u lev,daman',and a few others yall got this site to popping keep it up!!!!!!!!!! Click Here to Get This Comment! justmeyall |
Tweety79 |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
I absolutely marvel and love the way we can interact with each other here at rude. Cams up, body and soul bared to the world, it is the most stimulating time in my life and I so enjoy the people and the shows. My biggest point of contention is two fold...1) I wish there would be more voyeurism in the rooms and live houses. Some simply sit with there legs spread and hoping everybody watches so they can be one of the top hotties. This includes the voyeur cams that are of a flower pot or a wall. 2) I hate with a passion thaat if I start a thread of any sort on the boards it will always be consumed by the moguls of the board....from pissy statements and reply's to going back to argue amongst themselves to make their posting numbers high. There are some posts that dont these ass clowns making comments simply to see there names on the boards. Thank you for the blog sweet Lev and I appreciate the openess and charm you always bring with them.....xoxoxoxo |
kahle... |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
I love all of the sexy black women on here. I hate that hardly anybody is online all the time. |
D-_MILDZ |
September 29, 2009 (Report It)
they could make rude chips cheaper.....WAY cheaper |
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