Private Lobby isn't a Dating site
3:32PM on October 18, 2008
I hate it when I am in the private lobby and a guy comes in and tells me he has been a fan of mine for years and so we chat for several minutes then he asks if I am single and I say, no I have a boyfriend. Then he tells me how he wants to find a camgirl to date or marry and then talks about his relationship issues and compliments himself for being such a gentleman (for not asking to see my boobs) then I reply "Lets go private and I will show you" (isn't going private the whole point of the private lobby?)
To sum it up:
"Well its okay to talk to you but I am too good to actually pay you money - I am above paying people like you".
It makes me wonder if I was too nice and maybe I should be like the studio girls and just say "in private" over and over. But no - I am real and authentic and a good friend and honest person... so I talk to the guy and once I am done being the shoulder he crys on he says " i dont wanna pay for it. i have feelings and not that desperate"
What an insult! Especially considering that earlier on in the conversation he mentioned that he originly found me on a webcam girl site. Why is he surprised that I am a camwhore when that is the type of site he originally found me on?
I was tempted to say - why not go check a dating site if you are looking for love? I bite my tongue and keep my mouth shut and then he leaves my private lobby
It pisses me off that this whole thing upset me the way it did. I try to be nice and then the guy insults me and my REAL CUSTOMERS... what a loser!
xoxo Leia Swift
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