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Why I've Changed my Rude Name...
5:44PM on March 21, 2010

From LustyHousewife to Katlyn1969....

He has closed his account here on Rude, but my husband was known as BiffTannen on here and he decided after almost 8 years he was going to leave me and our girls... since I'm still technically a wife at this time, but he's no longer living in the house I can't really use that name any longer since I won't be performing any "wifely" activities with him from now on.

He had said he would stay for the kids and we would live as "roommates" only until he could find his own place close by, but that changed yesterday and he decided he didn't even want to do that.

I just hurt for my girls because he's moving almost 4 hours away and will be staying with his mom until he finds his own place there and a new job and they won't get to see him much and they screamed and cried yesterday for him not to leave.... it was a traumatic experience and I'm just hoping time and lots of love from me will help heal their little broken hearts.

He was my best friend, my lover, my confident and I'm having a really hard time myself right now dealing with it all...

Also... I still have more dental work coming up soon.. actually starting this week and I'm trying to figure out how I'm gonna deal with taking care of my kids, getting to the dentist, etc etc so I may be around even less than normal of late because of this.

Thank you for letting me vent. I'm trying to be strong for my girls... but, I'm struggling.

Luvya'll!

Kat

I'm home and Ok!
9:10PM on November 19, 2009

Finally woke up enough from my "sedated" state to let you know I'm home and I'm ok.

They have a drainage tube from one of  my  incisions that I have to get emptied out every 6 hours and record how many cc's it is... they have me wrapped up in this brace and it's quite uncomfortable.

I was able to take all my bandages off  a bit earlier to take a shower, but had to put it all back on after.

So far I've been able to keep some toast, some cream of chicken soup down along with water and gingerale.

I'll be taking my pain meds again shortly though because it hurts like a mother fucker for me to get up out of the bed to go pee.

I will be turning my house cams back on soon, but if you're a bit squeamish you might not want to look. I mean I'm all bandaged up, but still have this damn drainage thingie on and it does look pretty gross. Even my hubby gets squeamish looking at it. My tummy is also very swollen!


I sent in a MoBlog photo of me sitting in the hospital bed before my surgery. Wasn't up to having anyone taking any photos of me in the hospital after.. I was way out of it and was really nauseas.

www.rude.com/mb/pkt2asRvxtu

Why You're Not Seeing Me Much
4:48PM on June 30, 2009

Hey Ya'll!

This is for those that are wondering why you aren't seeing much of me lately here on Rude other than a few posts here and there,  possibly a few minutes of someone's group show, and a quick post to my clitter.

If you've been reading and keeping up on my clitter you probably already know why.. but, this is for those that don't subscribe to it and or see my posts there.

My sis-in-law moved down from the Baton Rouge area about 5 weeks or so ago and was living with us up until recently. She just moved into her own place a couple houses over from us.

However, she is still over here quite often and I babysit her 3 year old son when she's at work.

Her son doesn't understand ( like my kids do ) what it means NOT to go into our bedroom and every chance he gets he opens mine and Biff's bedroom door. This is why my housecams have been facing the wall instead of their usual place(s). I can't take a chance of him being seen on cam.

Also, when my sis-in-law comes over she tends to want to come talk with me while I'm in my room smoking a cig and even though she's over 18, I don't want to have to get a model release from her for her to be seen on my cam. Another reason why the housecams face the wall most of the time.

It's just better safe than sorry.

Anyway... school is out for the summer so my twins are home and with me babysitting my nephew it makes it hard for me to get on the computer much. On the days she's not working and has her son I'm trying to catch up with cleaning house and taking care of my twins because they need some time with their mom since they have to share me with their cousin now days when he's here and believe me he takes up a lot of my time.

I would say it will be better for me once the twins are in school again. Which starts back in August, and even though my nephew will actually be old enough to start Pre-K he is not completely potty trained yet ( which I find ridiculous, but he's not my child ) and they won't let him start school if he isn't. *grumble*  Soooo.... unless I can talk her into putting him into a daycare I will still have to watch him while she's at work.

I will be back to doing my shows and stuff as soon as I possibly can because I truly miss all my friends and fans! Ya'll please don't forget about me. I haven't forgotten about you! 

Lots of hugs n kisses,
Kat

Edited to add on August 15, 2009 ---  Found out I have Gall Bladder Disease and my gall bladder is filled with Gall Stones... I have an appointment with my surgeon on August 31st to set up my surgery to get my gall bladder removed... so this will probably keep me from having any group shows again for a while.. in the meantime I'm in a lot of pain from it ( even though they have me on pain pills ) I try not to take them unless it's absolutely a must and they've put me on a special diet.. I haven't eaten fried foods since I was a teenager so they didn't have to worry about that, but they've now removed red meat and pork along with any kind of dairy, caffeine ( SCREAMS ), and even a few certain veggies that can irritate my gall bladder such as broccoli and cauliflower and I've had to cut out on what they call the "spicey" spices such as ( cayanne ) red pepper, chili peppers, and jalapeno peppers . :(

 

Clitter me this!!
9:47PM on March 19, 2009

Since I'm not in front of my computer 24/7... I love to leave notes when I'm able to even get a few seconds at the computer so all my fans and friends can know what I'm up to at that very moment. ( Can't always do that either, but I tend to do it a lot more than some lol )...

So now Rude has offered what is called "Clitters".. yeah, it's a version of another well known site ( won't name any names though ;) ).. anyway.. I love posting to that one and now I can do it here at Rude as well! Yup.. I'm a Clitter addict!!

Some of my stuff might be a bit boring, but my life isn't always full of excitement.. even though I'm happy with it the way it is. 

Soooo.. if you'd like to know what I'm doing at certain hours of the day even when I'm not able to be at my computer for long... Just subscribe to my Clitters and you'll have that chance!

www.rude.com/LustyHousewife/clitter/

Oh, and yes, of course if you subscribe to mine I'll recirprocate as that's only fair. :)

**SPECIAL** 3 Day Trial
2:04PM on November 28, 2008

I'm running a holiday special for my personal website

http://www.rude.com/LustyHousewife/goto_website/

A 3 Day Trial pass for only $3.69 if you purchase via my Verotel payment system!

Oh.. and it's not listed on my pricing page(s). You'll only see the special trial price once you've clicked on the Verotel Payment Icon and once you're in the area where the pricing dropdown menu is, it's there for you to choose.

So what are you waiting for ? Check it out and check in for a few days. ;)

Did you know purchases of my Rude content could get you access to my personal website?
3:29PM on June 11, 2008

Indeed it can!  Take a look at this:

This is for those Rude Members that want to gain access to my personal website's member's area by purchasing ( not renting ) something for me OR my husband's Rude Flix or MY Custom Made Pic Grams, Pictures, VideoGrams, and or Clips. 

It basically boils down to the cost of purchase. In order to count toward your membership access all purchases from any of the choices must be done back to back on the same day. Meaning you can't purchase a Flix one day and a Custom Content the next day and expect a longer access time. The Flix and the Custom Content will need to be purchased one right after the other the very same day. You will need to send me a Rude mail letting me know that your puchase is for a membership to this site. I won't automatically give you access... you have to let me know!


** 1 Month ( 30 Days ) access if the purchase is exactly $6.69;

** However, if the purchase is between $6.70 - $9.68 you will get 1 1/2 Months ( 45 Days ) access.

** 2 Months ( 60 Days ) access if the purchase is exactly $9.69;

** However, if the purchase is between $9.70 - $16.37 you will get 2 1/2 Months ( 75 Days ) access.

** 3 Months ( 90 Days ) access if the purchase is exactly $16.38;

** However, if the purchase is between $16.39 - $23.07 you will get 3 1/2 Months ( 120 Days ) access.

** 4 Months ( 120 Days ) access if the purchase is exactly $23.07;

** However if the purchase is between $23.08 - $29.75 you will get 4 1/2 Months ( 135 Days ) access.

** 5 Months ( 150 Days ) access if purchase is exactly $29.76;

** However if the purchase is between $29.77 - $36.44 you will get 5 1/2 Months ( 165 Days ) access

** 6 Months ( 180 Days ) access if purchase is exactly $36.45;

** However if the purchase is between $36.46 - $43.13 you will get 6 1/2 Months ( 195 Days ) access

Anymore than this.. you can visit my website and look at the join page for the Rude purchase link and see what is offered.

Please realize that this is not an immediate membership since I have to do it manually for this type of purchase, but will take no longer than 24 hours for me to add you after receiving your Rude mail and verify purchases.

kisses,
Kat

Rude TV is now available via my personal website !
3:19PM on June 11, 2008

That's right.. you get to see the FULL - Sized Non-Overlay With Chat version of Rude TV.... it can be found in the private members only area of MY website! Along with Rude group show embeds and Voyeur House embeds !

You get to watch many of the hottest porn stars have fun with Wankus, Tony Batman, and many many more  - LIVE or archived shows!

Woohoo!!

All of this for only $6.69/ month! + TONS more content available for you!

Go here to visit my website and look around!

www.rude.com/LustyHousewife/goto_website/