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Simplicity
6:25AM on November 29, 2008
Simplicity...
Simplicity is something that everyone needs. We all get tangled into everyday life; work, school, family, relationships, friendships, sex, money and it seems that no one is taking the time to Simply Be!!
Nobody seems to just get a way and indulge in the simple things like rain and snow. No one sits back and gets lost in old TV shows or movies that they have been putting off. Staying up late and sleeping in are joys that not many people are experiencing; getting lost in good company, soft touches, subtle looks, gentle kisses, and warm hugs. Enjoying the company of someone else and all the simply joys that can bring.
Simplicity is something that we all need to get back to … if only for a moment.
Simplicity is not getting wrapped up in the idea of sex; Simplicity is waking up in someone’s arms knowing it wasn’t love or lust it was simply being there in the comfort of another person.
Simplicity is being able to indulge in sensual acts and not getting wrapped up in the idea of commitment; Simplicity is knowing that that u can turn to each other and give into desire without expectations or limitations.
Simplicity is not getting wrapped up in someone else’s thoughts or questioning their intentions; Simplicity is having someone look into your eyes just so they can see you smile or simply to see the different shades of brown in your eyes.
Simplicity is being able to hold someone’s hand and not worry about what others are thinking; Simplicity is knowing that at that moment you are happy and the person your with knows it.
Simplicity is simply being.
Kisses;
SinCityVixen702
I'll Be Waiting for Your thoughts *Muah* The simplicity of a kiss, a touch, even a look can take you away. The simplicity of someone
walking up behind you and planting soft gentle kisses on your neck can make u melt.
The simplicity watching TV and having hands roam your legs and arms
not messaging them at all … just touching you lightly letting you
know that they are there can bring you comfort.
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sexyb... |
January 11, 2009 (Report It)
well said girl |
Sun_Ghod |
January 04, 2009 (Report It)
i feel u sin sin..i wish i could go back to the simple life..maybe someday luv u sin sin *kisses |
11bra... |
December 27, 2008 (Report It)
As always you have given me a gift that keeps on giving. I look forward to seeing more. |
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Land of Wax
1:29AM on November 12, 2008
I went to Brazil. Something I have wanted to do for so long just so I can say, ‘Been there done that!’ I must say that I do not think that will go back again. Don’t get me wrong after I got there the feeling was good; everything smooth and soft to the touch and I was told that sex would even have a different SINsation. Maybe the sex will change my mind about how often I go to Brazil but it would have to be some bomb a$$ sex.
The company that I had on my trip to Brazil was good company. She was open and talked me through the entire trip. She found my piercing fascinating and when I felt this arousal she said ‘don’t worry that’s just my hand’ my first thought was this bitch wanted to me to kick her a$$ but she continue to say ‘I don’t want to have any mishaps while we take this trip’ So I let her have a free pass . She kept the conversation interesting; although I am sure that was to keep my mind off of other things.
I have to admit that I was nervous and she told me that everyone was nervous the first time they took the trip. The cabin was cool and had this very calming music in the background (I wish I knew what it was). We talked about why I was going to Brazil and the first time she went. We even talked about sex and about her belly button piercing and the one I had once upon a time. I don’t know how long it took me to get to Brazil but it seemed like forever. I mean good company, good conversation But that did not make up for all the teeth clenching, tightening eyes, sweaty palms, and lost train of thought. I mean the trip to Brazil was an uncomfortable one…but as I tell u about it I think I may take that trip more regularly. But wait here is the kicker… the exit way the last stop before u actually make it to Brazil was the easiest part of the trip *shocker* I know.
But with that said how many of you have taken that trip? What do u think about it? Would u do it again or who often do you go?
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11bra... |
December 02, 2008 (Report It)
Don't Tell me SHOW ME!! LMBBAO!! I have been told the "flight" gets easier each time you "travel" to Brazil. I hope your virgin voyage did not have too much turbulence. |
derek... |
November 12, 2008 (Report It)
I don't wax myself. Butt I have the deepest respect for the foxy ladies that do. I especially like hearing them tell me about it afterwards. Now if you'll excuse me, my one-eyed trouser snake is in desperate need of a massage. Oh, in case you could not decode that, I mean I'm off for a wank. |
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No More Self Pleasure?!?!
12:20AM on October 10, 2008
I enjoy diddling; it is a great release an aswesome feeling. The problem is that lately is hasnt been so relaxing; it has actually been leaving me more sexually frustrated.
Whats different, whats changed or is everything the exact same? Could it be the lack of human contact? Is it missing the touch of another, warm kisses, and heavy breathing?
I LOVE knowing that I dont NEED a man to make me CUM!!
But I LOVE the way a MAN makes me CUM!!
I can not lick my own girly girl, or carass my own a$$. I can not hold on to my waist as I hit it from the back or leave a trail of kisses on my stomach. I can not rub my own neck or nibble on my ear lobe...
I miss what someone else can do for me. I miss enjoying the ride; the pleasure of some one else pleasing me!!
What is it that you miss or that you do differently when u LONG for the presense of another?
"I cant help but wait" (sining Trey Songz) to hear from you
kisses
SinCityVixen702
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doUse... |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
That is that thing between man and woman, woman and woman, man and man, or man then woman...whatever your preference may be that just can not be replaced. The touch of another affects you in so many way. like when that person touches you like only they know that sends shivers through your body. Or...or when they know your body so well that they toy with you. Like when they tease you with there words over the phone while you are working that causes to leave early to get home to them. When they flick their tongue around your nipples causing your pussy to drip. Or when they lick your pussy making your nipples to stand tall and hard. That feeling like you don't know if you are coming or going.It is that touch. That special touch of another that make you touch yourself in the first place. So yeah I understand. |
berni... |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
Self Pleasure is for the most part physical. And no matter how pleasurable it doesn't complete us. We have emotional and mental needs as well which are addressed through interaction with others. Have you had those special moments of connecting with someone emotionally and mentally where you were so euphoric without doing anything physical and sexually? This is an awesome Orgasm of sharing on a more complete level. Being with someone who loves you and appreciates you for who you are and not what you can do for them. I'm sure you know what I mean. By the way, Vixen, I truly hope the best for you, always. : ) |
MISS_... |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
i feel u sin....this is why i don't play that often....i miss being held and touched and things of that nature...human contact is very important and i miss it more that i care to admit |
TaQuilla |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
The intimacy of connection isn't possibly alone. |
derek... |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
I miss her. She was my soulmate. And now she's gone. |
BESTCHOC |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
I can't comment from your perspective, but I can give you a man's view. There are some common threads. The touch of a woman is equally as important. The touch, taste, sound feel of a woman far out measures my hand. Her feel, suckin on my nipples, feeling her wetness slide all ova me. SIGH.. |
docporno |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
i always miss the little things...cuddling, caressing and most of all, kissing. i miss the showers and the unexpected freaky moments. i dont think i change much when i don't have someone around...except i work more during the times i would be "eating" with my pal... |
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Just A Thought
12:04AM on October 10, 2008
Ever missed something that you never had;
wanted to touch and feel some one that you have never met?
Felt bonded to somebody that could be nothing more
than a figment of your imagination?
Tell me about it because “I’m going crazy” (lol singing R.Kelly)
and I dont wanna be going crazy alone...LoL
kisses
SinCityVixen702
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TaQuilla |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
It happens more than you know. I think its a side effect of hope. |
jayma... |
October 10, 2008 (Report It)
yea i would miss a milli and a fine ass female movie star that is something i will never have but a down to earth lady that keeps it real yea i know i will have that |
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I’m writing you this letter
11:48AM on September 17, 2008
to let you know what’s on my mind…
RUDE became my playground my place of refuge. I would look forward to coming home after a long day at work, settling down in front of my computer, signing into RUDE, and slowly shedding away my clothing.
I would go about my evening routine that some of you knew all to well. LoL!! But that is what I enjoyed. I enjoyed fixing something to eat, watching TV, and taking my shower, all in the company of those that spent their evenings with me.
RUDE opened doorways that I never imagined being opened. I have met people from different walks of life, different backgrounds, who all use RUDE for various different reasons. I can honestly say that I have made friends through RUDE. Friends that I have never even met face to face and may not ever have that opportunity. But they are important to me for many different reasons.
**and there is no true need for them to be out of my system**
I have been away from RUDE for a little over a month due to one particular computer company not being able to fix their very own product correctly the first two times it was sent to them and is currently taking its third trip back….
Anyway, I have realized that I was very comfortable with RUDE and it had become a part of my routine a part of my daily happenings and with it not being a part of my routine a lot of things have been thrown off. A LOT!!
Either way, I just want to rant a little bit. Letting those of you that give a damn know that I am still around. Lurking in the background…more than some of you realize. As soon as I get this computer issue situated I will see how RUDE fits into my new daily routine.
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derek... |
September 18, 2008 (Report It)
I'd love to add something original and witty. But I can only echo what others have said already. I miss you, and hope you get your computer problems sorted soon. One other thing... When I reread the comment you left on my RudePage, I realised that your relationship might not be over yet. If it doesn't revive, I hope you find someone else, someone worthy of you. If that is what you are looking for. |
NAZ_T... |
September 17, 2008 (Report It)
my sweet beautiful sin sin............i miss you......... your smile...........your face ...........you brighten my days and night..............id go to sleep seeing your face and wake up to you saying good morning before you start your day...........so yes please come back soon..........love always............NAZ/MAM................:).........KISSES |
turbo... |
September 17, 2008 (Report It)
shit happens. hope urs gets better soon |
docporno |
September 17, 2008 (Report It)
Rude is a playgorund and a comfy digital '2nd home' so believe me i feel your pain at not being able to do what u want here...and dammit i miss u. crossing all my fingers and toes that company finally does the right thing and takes care of u properly-and that u get that cute lil' bottom back to us! |
TaQuilla |
September 17, 2008 (Report It)
Hb Sin Sin.... damn techies! lol |
miss4... |
September 17, 2008 (Report It)
i know what you mean..lol....i wake up starting my day with rude.....in my live house or in a group show pervin some sexi person in the comfort of my home...i just can't get enough.....muah... |
swaali77 |
September 17, 2008 (Report It)
We miss u Sin baby and your wonderful blogs. Hurry back, love, we will be waiting! |
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Mental Feng Shui
10:24PM on August 17, 2008
Just something i recieved in an email. I just wanted to share. maybe there is something here that u need to see or maybe something u need to pass on to someone else
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be e ngaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly.. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
So you know Vixen always wants ur thoughts please feel free to share them with me
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derek... |
August 23, 2008 (Report It)
I think this is a great blog entry, although I would expect nothing less from our little vixen. But I vehemently disagree with proposition number seven. I believe this to be quite a dangerous idea. It is one reason we end up with guys becoming stalkers. And some of the abuse that Dream referred to in her last blog entry is surely the result of some guys refusing to differentiate reality from fantasy. All we have initially is a fantasy, aroused by hormones. We still need to peer beneath the surface to see if this beautiful creature is a gold-hearted lover or a cold-hearted hater. Inspired by opposition to thesis number seven, I've developed these ideas in my own blog. I've already invited TaQuilla and SCV to comment, if they want. Anyone else who is interested should feel free to add their two cents. They are free to do so whether they are a stunner, or have just won a John Merrick lookalike contest. |
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August 20, 2008 (Report It)
Good words to live by. And I will do my best to honor them. |
MISS_... |
August 20, 2008 (Report It)
i agree whole heartly on these...my favorite is 17.....man that speak volumes.....some folks want respect but tehy can never give u the respect u deserve |
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Have You...
12:23AM on August 15, 2008
Ever been cleaning up or going through old papers and found something that caught your eye? Well that happened to me this week. I found a piece of paper that was written on with red ink, in my hand writing, with no date. I do not remember writing this down copying it from anywhere. But I do know that some say you find things when you need it. Others would have overlooked it and continued...which is what I thought I did..saw it, read it, thought about it, and carried on...only two days later its back in my hands after I thought I through it way...and this is what it says...
Just because a person does not mention that they have noticed or caught on they could just be trying to figure out a way to respond rationally.. People are not stupid but would rather stay where they are comfortable or familiar. People don't seem to like change or even the idea. It takes time and sometimes simply strength.. One day realization of inner strength will come and there will be hell to pay!
Would love to know your thoughts about this piece of paper that i stumbled upon or maybe even about a time this may have happened to you!
Kisses
SinCityVixen702
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MISS_... |
August 16, 2008 (Report It)
hmm interesting thoughts indeed.......as some may know i'm kinda different from most people....for me change is wonderful......without it there is no growth and i want to grow and learn all i can while i am still about to.....at times we as people are always thinking of someone else's happiness and we let ours fall by the wayside until......we are so down that it's a struggle to regain it.....for me i want to be happy always and if that means change......so be it......life doesn't come with a script......live it and love every second of it
luv ya so much
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sweco... |
August 15, 2008 (Report It)
Hi Sinny. Those are pretty wise words. I have tendency to forget the very things you wrote way back when. I am continued to be impressed by you maturity and wisdom. Hope to learn more from you soon, babe. |
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A Place of Serenity
10:05PM on July 15, 2008
Ever needed a place to wash away the weight of the day? A place that was all yours; a place no one could take from you. A place u could set the mood in and know that no one would be able to change that mood but you. A place where once u entered you knew things were already getting better?
I've found a place where I can enter and close the door behind me and know that it was all about me. A place I can sit on the phone for hours, a place I can either blast loud music or listen to something calm and soothing. A place that I can have extremely bright, or lit by nothing but the flicker of a few scented candles scattered about. A place that can be completely silent with the air filled only with my thoughts.
A place where I can be completely dressed or in nothing but my birthday suit. A place that takes my flaws, my doubts, my perfections, my attitude, my laugh, it takes me as I am the good and the bad. It is a place that I can go and I am both my worst enemy and best friend. A place where no one judges or questions but me.
My place of serenity is the bathroom. A room that's all mine once I enter and close the door. A place no one can enter until I leave unless invite in. In the bathroom I can listen to the water splash of the tiles of the wall, watch the steam fill the room and fog the mirror, I can feel the moisture in the air dampenmy skin, I can smell the scent of my perfume strengthen as its brought back to life.
The bathroom is a place that I can allow warm or cool water to engulf me as I relax in a tub full of scented bubbles. I lay back and allow the water to touch my most intimate parts. As my hands glide over skin now wet and warm. Water relaxing every bit of me with no effort on its part. Its a place where the water touches, caresses, soothes me from the outside in. The water rushes me, takes me, and rinses away the worries of the day and those of tomorrow.
A place where nothing else matters...A place of Serenity
Do You have that place?
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TaQuilla |
July 17, 2008 (Report It)
What is it about the bathroom? Perhaps its about the quiet serenity of everything being stripped away. No distractions... |
MISS_... |
July 17, 2008 (Report It)
WELL YOU KNOW I AM YOUR SOUL SISTER WITH THIS ONE....MY PLACE OF SOLACE IS THE BATHROOM AS WELL....IT'S LIKE ANOTHER UNIVERSE FOR ME....I LOVE THE PLACE AND IF I COULD I WOULD NEVER LEAVE IT AND WOULD STAY FOR THIS LIFE AND MY NEXT ONE.....WHEN I SHOWER OT BATHE...I FEEL MY TRUE SELF....THE WATER SOOTHES ME IN SO MANY WAYS I CAN NOT EVEN PUT IT INTO WORDS....YES WE ARE AS ONE WHEN IT COME TO THIS PLACE OF PEACE |
vanil... |
July 16, 2008 (Report It)
I feel the same way every time that i get on the computer and go to my favorite sites. It is my own little cyber world....full of brilliant writers and sexually open people. One of the two things in the world that I love very much. If I didn't have these places to go and just be me, I don't know what I would do, probably crumble up and die I mean this give me something to look forward to every time I go to work and have a terrible day, or if I want to escape from my mother or anybody talking down to me, I just open up my laptop and listen to my music that I download and go to my favorite sites and that truly make me happy...content....at peace....~vanillasweet~ |
ariez... |
July 15, 2008 (Report It)
Yes, my place in the depths of mind. In the meaning of my dreams, in the seams of my fantasies and nightmares. The only plce where I can think and something is. Dreams hold the secrets of the universe if you didnt know and I dream every night some I forget most I remember. Thats my place...
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mrbear62 |
July 15, 2008 (Report It)
yes ,its a grove in my garden.just check my pics ,when you get a chance.love,mrbear |
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Through Some One Else's Eyes
1:41PM on July 14, 2008
I look in the mirror and I see me.
Nothing more, nothing less; 5ft tall with measurements somewhere around and about 40in 34in 36in; not to bad but through my eyes those measurements could be so much better. I have a nice honey almond complexion; uneven and flawed with not so intriguing tan lines. Lips not as defined as I would like them to be; but again that’s all through MY eyes. Eyes that are too dark, a smile that is just there, both are hiding so much. An a$$ that is too small hips that don’t exist (unless in compromising positions). Legs that are shapely, but could be more defined, feet that are too small with toes that are even smaller; but again this is all through MY eyes.
Through someone else's eyes my measurements don’t change but the description does. Nice thick 5ft tall black woman with full firm breast a waist perfect to hold on too. Lips that are succulent and ready to be kissed made more desirable by the gloss that keeps them poppin’. Eyes that are bright and draw you in; with a smile that lights up rooms and holds you captive, but again all this is through someone else’s eyes. An a$$ that’s cute and fits me perfectly and legs that drive you wild. Feet that arch in such a sexy manner, waiting for hands to rub and caress, mouths wanting to taste and suck each one of those toes. A body that’s sexy a face that is beautiful a complexion that is smooth with tans lines that attract many; but again all this is through someone else’s eyes.
A person that makes heads turns and people stay up late. A person with good conversation and a kind heart who only wishes she could truly see herself through someone else’s eyes….
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sweco... |
July 19, 2008 (Report It)
Oh, Sinny. Where do I start? First, you are intelligent (a rare commodity), adventureous, witty... need i go on? And, that is the intangible stuff that really matters. Your physical beauty is top notch. Not many women can turn my head but you do. But, don't take my word for it. Look at your blog comments. Look at your chat room. And that's just here on Rude. I can already see the second takes from guys and girls when you walk by anywhere you go. You are beautiful in so many ways, Lady Sinny. |
TaQuilla |
July 17, 2008 (Report It)
What I see... Sexy! Confident! Bold! Vivacious! And just plain ole SINFUL!!!! I LOVE YOU SIN SIN! |
MISS_... |
July 17, 2008 (Report It)
IN MY EYE I SEE ALL THAT AND SO MUCH MORE.....LOVING,CARING,MODEST,SENSITIVE,KIND HEARTED...THESE ARE ALL THINGS I SEE INSIDE OF U....THE OUTSIDE IS PURE BEAUTY TO ME AND THE INSIDE AS WELL....WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN FAULTS BUT WHAT WE SEE AS FAULTS ARE THINGS THAT OTHERS ADMIRE WITHIN US....YOU ARE HUMAN AND IN TIME YOU WILL SEE ALL THE THINGS THAT THOSE EYES SEE ON AND IN U AS WELL.....WITH TIME COMES CHANGE.....AND IN TIME YOU WILL SEE THE CHANGE...
LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH SIN
KISSES
STUNNA |
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July 16, 2008 (Report It)
We are always the worst critics to ourselves because as others have said in this blog, we are not just looking at the outside, we are really examining our feelings on how we look on the outside and sometimes that is a trip because we know about our insecurities, the things that we find as faults, the things that we don't think that is perfect about us....but I am in agreement with turbo...you are a beautiful person and I tell you why....you love your man...Stevie Wonder can see that....because you give yourself and you are not afraid of letting everybody know who you are dating..who you share your life with....etc. We here at rude appreciate your level of openness....and for you to share that level with the rude family...is the best thing that you can give to someone else..EVER....So sweetie....please keep doing you...and like I said before..you definitely got a fan..ME....take care....~vanillasweet~ |
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July 15, 2008 (Report It)
those outer eyes speak the truth...in time u will see what we all see |
gtowndog |
July 14, 2008 (Report It)
that was beautiful baby, but you are a beautiful person also !!!!! |
Drago... |
July 14, 2008 (Report It)
That's deep Sin. Beauty "is" in the eyes of the beholder. |
mrbear62 |
July 14, 2008 (Report It)
you need to get another mirror ,the one you have is not working.i see a beautiful ,sexy ,happy woman,with a great body and personality.love,always mrbear.xxxxx |
ariez... |
July 14, 2008 (Report It)
Isn't that always the case? People give you all these comments and flattery because they only see what is on the outside, superficial. Only we ourselves know our flaws. But, I'mma hit you with some knowledge real quick. The more people show whats on the outside work to protect that superficial image, the more they have to hide. What makes us unique is what we see in the mirror, not through someone else's eyes. That was deep and it's always good to another side of someone, a more personal side.
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turbo... |
July 14, 2008 (Report It)
u r a beautiful woman. dont u dare change a thang |
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Unfocused
10:47AM on July 08, 2008
Sitting around with so many projects started, but none completely finished.
Pictures have been taken some of which are being editted, some already finished and others just sitting on the computer untouched.
Blogs that have been started some have been written, editted and just need to be uploaded. Others still floating in my head, and a few that have been jotted on paper waiting to be organized.
Stories that have been started and so near completion, videos that I have ideas for, pics that I still want to take, people that I want to share a few ideas with, things all planned out but nothing accomplished.
So many things I still want to try and do during my journey of growth and self discovery only to unfocused to get any of it done....
SinCityVixen702
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mzjui... |
August 03, 2008 (Report It)
I feel you hun I feel the same way ... unfocused. I have started on one idea get another idea and start on it and in the end I've done something but not much. If you just take a day or more and really sit and go through wat you already have I'm sure you'll get farther than where you are right now hun. Good luck! If you wanna talk or share ideas you know where to reach me! |
MISS_... |
July 14, 2008 (Report It)
sometimes we all lose focus and then one day...bam!! it's back...no worries |
docporno |
July 09, 2008 (Report It)
in time all those seeds will bear fruit sin... |
Drago... |
July 08, 2008 (Report It)
With all these minds on Rude, find someone to help ya out. Hell, I would help ya if I could. |
gtowndog |
July 08, 2008 (Report It)
take your time baby, it will all cum 2gether, i got your back !!!! |
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Diddle?!?!
10:08PM on July 01, 2008
Do you Diddle?!? If not you should start this Vixen LOVES it!!
There is something about a man who diddles. I love it; it turns me on in ways that some can only imagine. The sight, the sound, the motions; to see a man touch himself, love himself just drives me crazy in such a good way.
I love seeing that look of lust, the look of passion, that desire that a man has when he is pleasing himself. He rubs, strokes, touches, that motion; that up and down motion, the circling of the hips, the movement of his thumb, the way he holds his head, the bit of a lip, the rise and fall of his chest. The idea of it all excites me. To see a man grow in length and girth by his own hand/s, to see his veins begin to protrude; it all makes my girly girl purr, it makes my mouth water, makes me want him, makes me want to touch him, makes me want to see him bring himself to that climax. Hell it makes me want him inside of me and if that is not possible makes me touch myself. To see a man diddle…mmmmmm
What is it about a man or woman that gets you going? It doesn’t matter what it is I just want to know…
Kisses, SinCityVixen702
****diddle: rapid back and forth motions; slang for masturbation****
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11bra... |
September 09, 2008 (Report It)
I love to see a woman have a gut-wrenching orgasm! |
Trini... |
July 01, 2008 (Report It)
for men.. it is watching a guy achieve a p-spot orgasm... knowing that is the most intense orgasm he will ever feel..
for a women.. it is watching a girl squirt for the first time.. feeling that release.. that moment when all intensity is at its max!
btw... what is a diddle.. sounds like piddle.. lol |
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Touch
12:06AM on June 22, 2008
Damn I was sitting back in my live house chat room and im not sure what was said but I immediately made me think of threesomes, orgies, and trains...why? They are all activities that are frowned upon (but thats another topic) and something that I have thought about, dreamed about, and even turned down...
Touch...I love to touch and be touched. Some of u have noticed that I cannot keep my hands off myself and when I say that I am not completely speaking of masturbation. I like to touch my legs, breast, neck, stomach hell I just like to touch me. I love the way my skin feels on my finger tips on my hands. and I love the SINsation I receive when I am touched. Its a tingle, a surge, its arousing, hell erotic.
I like having other people touch me. I like when my hair is pulled, I like when my shoulders are rubbed, I enjoy having fingers trail up and down my spine, hands grippen my waist, I find pleasure in having the inside of my thighs teased, breasts fondled...ummm thinking about it...damn.
But that’s just touching with hands we are not even going to talk about tongues other objects. But why did I start writing about touch? I can only imagine how it would feel to be touched by myself and 4 other hands...six hands roaming my body touching in different places some in the same. Me touching 3 different bodies...talk about body going into over drive...but again I can only imagine...
Hehehe, I think something new in 'RUDE STORIES' section will appear
'sooner than expected'...
Until then what do you imagine? What is something else u want to do but just have not done or may not ever do?
Kisses
SinCityVixen702
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steel... |
July 02, 2008 (Report It)
Outstanding Blog!!! You not only have a thing for the physical sensation but also the verbal. The articulate manor in which you’ve just expressed yourself was like having a woman I truly care about and who cares about me kissing me all over my body with her cool moist lips on a very hot summer night.
You talked of touching, of love making with out insertion. This is something I must sadly say most of us men don’t learn about at an early age, but once we do….Wow!!!
Yeah I like touch I like simply walking through the park or down a crowded avenue holing hands. Sitting in a darken theatre and touching one another all over.
Yeah I’m digging on your words and thoughts.
Oh! Don’t know what city you live in but if you really get of on touching visit New York City and take a ride on the subways during rush hour. Some serious touching going on there and then…. Smiles
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sweco... |
June 22, 2008 (Report It)
I can tell you have a lot of passionate feeling about touching and being touched. I enjoy a woman's soft and gentle touch. Just a light arm around me during a nap or her feet in my lap while we watch a movie. I often wonder that same electricity you speak of runs through most women. I would like to think so but perhaps that is reserved for those women that are on another level..... |
babyc... |
June 22, 2008 (Report It)
I feel the same way sin.... i've only imagined things like that. |
dexter69 |
June 22, 2008 (Report It)
if u like stories scv come read mine they r truly what u need |
amand... |
June 22, 2008 (Report It)
Humm good blog. However as a male...I would like to state the following reasons why would find them as problematic. 1# Threesomes....what if me and my girl is going at it and i get the other chick pregnant (da da da dum). Orgies, if u catch something who u gonna trace it back too. Trains...if the other guy glove rips...well...well...well.
Other than that. no problem. |
heina... |
June 22, 2008 (Report It)
Oooh, great blog! I agree, touch is the greatest sensation, and it shouldnt be underestimated, especially when it comes to sex. For the past few months, I've had this awesome fantasy of participating in an orgy. Just the thought of being in a room where everywhere you looked, people were in the throes of pure ecstasy, and all around you was just sin, sin, sin! Lovely. Probably wont ever do it, but the thought is still fun to entertain.... |
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Serene Respite
10:39PM on June 19, 2008
This is just something that I wanted to share this with you. I have it posted at my desk at work and a few other places... just something to think about...
Take a deep breath, and calm your thoughts.
Rise above the noise and confusion of the
day, to a place that is peaceful and serene.
Let go, for a moment, of the need to judge,
to analyze, to criticize and to strategize.
Let go, for a moment, and experience how
beautiful it is to just be.
All is well in this moment. It's perfectly
fine to simply enjoy it for a while.
Your problems, your dramas, your possessions
are all very small compared to who you are.
Take just a little while to remember that.
Touch, for a moment, the beauty and boundless
energy that is your life. Consider what a
miracle it truly is.
Give yourself a refreshing respite of peace,
of calm serenity. Then take it with you in
all you do.
-- Ralph Marston
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steel... |
July 02, 2008 (Report It)
Beautiful ... No other words needed |
sweco... |
June 22, 2008 (Report It)
Thanks for sharing this poem. It really puts things into prospective. Very thought provoking and great advice. |
TaQuilla |
June 19, 2008 (Report It)
It is in these moments that one becomes larger than life. Nice post SINcere! |
MISS_... |
June 19, 2008 (Report It)
AHHHH THAT'S BEAUTIFUL....THAT'S HOW I FEEL EVERYDAY.....JUST BEAUTIFUL |
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Just Thinking
3:09AM on June 03, 2008
at home alone, tv watching me, and in my damn feelings.
Feelings can be so over rated when they are not the ones that you want to feel. I try my damnest to be this happy go lucky care free ME and every now and again I let some one or something get in the way of that and I cant stand it. Because here I am, in my feelings and not my good ones.
So, I know how I get out of my feelings: reading I love to read and writing which some of you have caught me doing in the live house, coloring which is very therapeutic (remember I work with kids..lol). Anyway,I just wanted to know how some of you escape your feelings (the bad ones)
Kisses
S.C.V
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heina... |
June 17, 2008 (Report It)
I play guitar. Have an acoustic, and ever since I was 13, playing music that suited my mood was always very theraputic. Music is always a great outlet.... |
NAZ_T... |
June 05, 2008 (Report It)
i listen to music...........that always makes me feel better......or i talk to some one older than me that reminds me that im blessed...........and of course the my fav stress escape is sex exspcially oral.............damn that clears your head in more ways than one.............do you baby...............brush that stress off your shoulders..................always remember " free your mind and the rest willl follow ".......baby:)..........luv you .......NAZ_TEE_NA |
Tasty... |
June 03, 2008 (Report It)
Glass of wine, candles, bubble bath....
Getting naked if front of friends and strangers on Rude...
Visiting your page :) |
gtowndog |
June 03, 2008 (Report It)
some things you can't control sin, let god handle it, and if all else fails, fuck it or them, life to short |
MISS_... |
June 03, 2008 (Report It)
WELL MISS SIN...I WRITE AS WELL AND I LOVE LOVE LOVE TO READ TOO.....BUT SOMETIMES I JUST SIT AND LET IT BE....AND IN MY THOUGHT PROCESS....IN TIME.....HAPPIER TIMES COME TO ME AND I LET WHATEVER IS MAKING ME HAVE THOSE NOT SO HAPPY FEELINGS GO......LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO DWELL IN THE NOT SO HAPPY THINGS.....FOR ME....THE NOT SO HAPPY THINGS MAKE ME APPRECIATE THEM GREAT WONDERFUL AND FUN THINGS EVEN MORE.....I SO LOVE LIFE.....NO ONE CAN EVER STEAL MY JOY FOR TOO LONG |
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Bathroom Fun
10:48PM on May 26, 2008
<COMING DOWN FROM MY BATHROOM BREAK HIGH
I decided to get out of the house and enjoy life. I went out to the club and did just that last night. I got my happy go lucky ass dressed. I got the club bodies everywhere. Music was loud, pulsating through my body; making my hips sway, feet tap, I was moving with the music in my own world surrounding by so many people; yet all alone. The smell of the blended cigarettes did not bother me tonight. I smelled my own strawberry fizz and vanilla mixture, the scent of love spell coming from a friend, polo cologne on a sexy tall brother, and many other scents from the people that surrounded me. A friend ordered me my favorite drink (parton margarita) and the cool warmth of the drink brought my taste buds to life and ran down my throat. The drink made me think of other things that l liked to have in my mouth.
I was feeling good enjoying everything that was there. I was moving to the music, enjoying the company I kept, glad to be out and about enjoying life. Bodies were everywhere brushing past, stopping to touch my arm as we talked, looking at me with lust in their eyes. Damn it just felt good all over so good that my girly girl was begging for attention. I tried to ignore her, tell her to be patient. She was not having it.
So I told my girls I was going to the bathroom. I got there picked the stall farthest back checked out the area and got comfy. I swear I heard a voice in my ear, breathing on my neck, kisses touches a presence was there with me. I had to look over my shoulder to ensure I was really in there alone. Before I knew it my hand was under my dress and giving my girly girl the attention she desired and needed. I was lost right there in the bathroom touching myself, trying to hide the noises that escaped me and at the same time wanting to be heard. So SINsational, so aware, and unaware at the same time; lost in the moment. Enjoying the presence that was with me breathing on my neck, talking in my ear, helping me get lost in the moment.
Then I had to realize that women go to the bathroom in pack (large packs at that) interrupted yet satisfied. Great time, went back to the music, to the people, to the smell, the lights, back to it all!
*needless to say my girls were asking where the hell I went. I don’t even think I was gone that long but I guess when u are lost in the moment u never do…
Share with me when did you get lost in the moment, in a place so unexpected?
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gtowndog |
June 03, 2008 (Report It)
that was my voice you heard, great blog though, lol |
docporno |
May 27, 2008 (Report It)
the last time i lost myself was the same night u did sin, but in a different way... |
yourd... |
May 27, 2008 (Report It)
aha! I see little lady! While I was at work, last year, me and my dude were being frisky. Texting each other some naughty stuff that was going to go down later on that night. My pussy was dripping into my panties. I hit him back and told him that I need to handle myself. He told me to go ahead. I did like u did, went into the farthest stall (handicapped stall). I called him, he was in a boring meeting mind you. So he's sitting behind his desk while people were in his office. He had his earpiece in and I heard the people in the background. It turned me on even more So I start rubbing feverishly to get my nut. My fingers were sliding around everywhere. I was so wet! I'm moaning softly and he whispered louder. Now, I'm in my bathroom at my job, he's in a meeting. I started to moan louder. Then I get a text and I look down and he said I want you to tell me how you want me to fuck you. I go into detail about it while I am riding my damn finger. Whispering it all in his ear. Then next thing I hear is I have to take an important call, he cleared the office and got to me. Started talking that shit I love to hear! People are walking in and out the bathroom and I am trying to keep the moans to a minimum. He said something to me and I had a LOUD MOAN OUTBURST. Then an O SHIT BABY! I heard gasps and then I heard him cum and uh we both hung up instantly. I get out the stall and walk to the sink, wash my hands and left the bathroom and went back to work LOL! That was a long ass bathroom break! Thanks Sin!!! |
jayma... |
May 27, 2008 (Report It)
excellent blog boo i might end reading this a few times this remind me of a book i just finished reading you post some good shit i gotta give ou credit for that |
derek... |
May 27, 2008 (Report It)
If I understand you correctly, my little vixen, you want to know when I wank. If so, then the answer is never. That sort of thing just doesn't interest me. |
heina... |
May 27, 2008 (Report It)
Oooh, great blog! I got lost in the moment while people-watching on a bench under the Eiffel Tower in Paris. My then-fiance and I found a little hidden ice cream stand and got a couple of cones, then just sat and made up stories about the people who were walking by (one dude was a fugitive on the run for murdering his wife and her lover, an old woman we saw was a silent film star who had a horrible lisp, thus ending her career once talking pictures came out, etc.). What seemed like minutes was actually hours, it was the absolute definition of "a good day". THanks for calming me down, Sin....I needed that! |
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May 26, 2008 (Report It)
i went to a bar and ran into an old"friend" we were havin aggod time an all. she was wit her buddies and i was with mines... we snuck off to my car to get a smoke break in an some more thangs.... to make a long story short... when we came from out the car the bars was clossin down... we didn't think we were gone that long... |
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stimulation
6:32PM on May 24, 2008
I was sitting in my bed working on my upcoming blog when I decided that I
wanted some ice cream. Not just any ice cream but Ben and Jerry’s
Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough. Now as some of you read this you may begin
to think ‘this fat a$$’ and to you I say this 'yes, I do have a PHAT
a$$ now go suck something.'
Anyway, I walked my happy go lucky ass to the freezer went back to my
bed and started to finish jotting down all my thoughts that need to be
put into the blog I am working on. As I was doing so I was eating my ice
cream all willy nilly when something happened…
I was becoming aroused… I was being stimulated on so many levels. The
taste of the sweet cream and bits of chocolate chips and balls of cookie
dough all mixing and melting in my mouth was exciting me. Now, I don’t
know what it was about today, the ice cream, my mood, mindset, or what.
But the texture of the ice as it melted was exciting my taste buds and
making me want to taste more than this delicious dairy product. The
smoothness of the chocolate as it ran down my throat as I swallowed was
unbelievably pleasing, and the chucks of cookie dough were surprisingly
welcomed.
Don’t get me wrong I was becoming stimulated and aroused but not in a
completely sexual manner. I was becoming more aware of everything around
me. The smell in the air the faintness of the computer fan, the puppy
wriggling around trying to get comfortable outside the room door, the
feel of the wrinkled, yet comfy sheets against my barely clothed body,
the light peeking through my shades and sheer curtains. I was allowing
my self to enjoy the moment of just being, all because of ice cream...
So my question is what stimulates/arouses u? What makes u so aware that
u can do nothing but JUST BE?
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gtowndog |
June 03, 2008 (Report It)
a nice walk on the beach at night here in galveston always gets me in the mood, a full moon and the nice cool breeze with a slight bite of salt in the air, nipples are hard just thinking bout it |
heina... |
May 25, 2008 (Report It)
Lol, I KNEW I wasn't the only woman who had a brain orgasm when she tasted choc. chip cookie dough ice cream! Eating chocolate, especially the rich, dark exotic (and expensive but worth it) chocolate makes me more "aware" in a sense. I think it's the endorphins the brain releases, I read somewhere that your brain releases feelgood chemicals when eating chocolate or when exposed to somethings like ice or heat in sensitive areas. I'm from SoCal, and I loooooove the sound of the water and air when I'm surfing through a tube. You reach your hand out and touch the inner part of it, and it's fucking AMAZING. It was a good thing I was wearing that wetsuit, lol.....great blog, Sin! Got me thinking! |
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May 24, 2008 (Report It)
reading this blog arouses me...honest, thoughtful exploration of what makes u U...i really liked this alot : ) |
MISS_... |
May 24, 2008 (Report It)
LIFE AROUSES ME.....JUST BEING ABLE TO WAKE UP ANOTHER DAY....TO SEE SUNSHINE OR RAIN,BLUE SKY OR GREY,BIRDS SINGING OR SILENCE....TO ME IT'S ANOTHER DAY TO TAKE IN AND ENJOY EVERY LAST SECOND OF THAT VERY DAY...AND THEN I SLEEP AND I DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN THE NEXT DAY |
Bigga... |
May 24, 2008 (Report It)
you was on paranoid status baby girl you was all aware of everything thats so sexy though cause if you have sex in that state girl you have no clue of what can happen to you like that |
jayma... |
May 24, 2008 (Report It)
the thing that stimulates me is listening to a crunk assnappy ryme with alot of bass and the sound of rain |
fergie81 |
May 24, 2008 (Report It)
What arouses me women all colors and certain sizes I mean I would do a big woman but not to big. I like a beautiful woman (such as yourself) to just talk to me tell me what she wants I am basically turned by everything on a woman body it all depends on the day and what I am thinking about. Certain days it is feet certain days I want to rub on the ass certain it is boob worship certain it is all of them at once. |
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May 24, 2008 (Report It)
THE THING THAT STIMULATES ME LIKE DAT IS THE SOUND OF RAIN ALONE. JUST BY THAT SOUND OR THE FEELING OF EACH TOUCHING MY BODY SENDS ME TO A GREATER LEAVEL TO WHERE I NOTICE ALL AND IM ONE WITH IT. |
CALLM... |
May 24, 2008 (Report It)
baby i call that a food orgasm.........in my opinion there are all different type's of orgasm's to me........food........sexual.........mental............i have even had a music orgasm.........if i hear one of my favorite songs........and it does not have to be a sexual orgasm.......just something that stimulates you mind ........body and soul and you can't explain why or how it happpen's..........i feel you ma........loud and clear.........kisses..........mami |
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Self Exploration
12:28AM on May 08, 2008
As I sit back with a shot of my favorite Taquilla I begin to think about the journey RUDE.com has taken me on. I have been apart of the RUDE community for 2 whole months. 2 months 1 week and 6 days to be exact and during this time I have explored and learned a lot about myself. Before RUDE.com porn was Taboo I didnt watch it and when offered to watch I always said "why, I can go have sex myself" NOW I can say that I enjoy the unscripted videos that are shared for my viewing pleasure made by ordinary people just like me. I have seen a lot of interesting sexual experiences and I have enjoyed every minute of it.
Not only has the world everyday sexual experience of others been given to me but the beauty of sex itself has been re-intoroduced. Self pleasure I practiced but rarely and always with a Battery Operated Boyfriend (B.O.B.). Never touched myself with my very own fingers and hands. But as I entered into the RUDE world I have explored and learned that my fingers and hands can excite me in away that B.O.B. cannot. My hands have became my best firends. The SINsations that I can deliver through my very own body by my very own hands is EARTH-SHATTERING!
People in my everyday life would say that I need to see the Doctor due to excitement that I get by being watched. People in my everyday life would not believe some of the things that I do. I am finding the true beauty in myself through thousands of people that I would not know otherwise. Because of comments and messages that I have recieved I have found inner beauty and outer beauty. I have began to explore myself. I find myself as a Tantalizing Amazing Magnificent Intriguing Kindhearted and Alluring young woman who is beginning to see herself as a FUCKING SEX GODDESS!!! and it feels great!
But RUDE has not only allowed me to explore myself sexually/physically but mentally as well. I have been mentally stimulated on many different levels. My mind has been opened to sexual pleasures without ever being touched not even by my own hands. The visual stimulation and the words and only the words of some have allowed me to be satisfied in ways that I never could have imagined. The words have allowed me to think, consider, and reconsider the things that please and excite ME! The words have allowed me to think about more things that I want to experience sexually. I want to experience things that may not have been acceptable other wise (in my mind). The more I am willing to engage in more different and liberating sexually activities so... whips chains Paddles and Floggers here I cum.
I never would have thought that I would be on anybody's website doing videos posting pictures and talking so openly about sex. I never knew that inside me was this inner perv or FREEK. Here I am happily showing off my body and all its lovely flaws and perfections and enjoying every FUCKING minute. To watch and be watched has never sounded so good to me unitl I was Introduced to RUDE. What happens in VEGAS is being shared around the world...
As I write this I find myself getting excited over the fact that i am a favorite, I have fans, and I am finding a very new sexually free me...
RUDE.COM/SinCityVixen702
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luv2cum |
May 25, 2008 (Report It)
let me guess that had to be at least one or two shots of tequilla with lime and salt lol isn't that drink spicy along with it being so strong then it singes your chest with a ton of bricks if you even sip it.
and by reading your story i admit that feels like horny o'l me |
TaQuilla |
May 12, 2008 (Report It)
Isn't it a little funny that the more you think you know yourself, the more you find you don't. Ahhhh...the beauty of evolution. You truly are SINsational. Every gorgeous layer!! |
MayaL... |
May 11, 2008 (Report It)
Awesome blog entry. Welcome to your epiphany Sin City Butterfly. |
heina... |
May 08, 2008 (Report It)
We're all so very grateful to be able to witness the metapmorphosis into the sexual butterfly you're becoming! This is why I love Rude, too----it allows for a lot more sexual freedom, and thus we're able to learn more about ourselves. Kudos! |
11bra... |
May 08, 2008 (Report It)
Finding and making friends with your inner freak is a very important and hopefully an enjoyable journey, please keep exploring! |
Darli... |
May 08, 2008 (Report It)
Rude is definitely an eye-opening experience. I'm glad that you have been able to discover more things about yourself and I'm enjoying your journey with you. Love your work and this blog is inspiring. |
swaali77 |
May 08, 2008 (Report It)
And they need more starz for this chic's blogs!! 5 aint doin' it!! |
swaali77 |
May 08, 2008 (Report It)
Sin, you know I was comin' thru to speak on ya shit! As usual, an excellent topic and very well written. My thought:
Mami, you have been introduced to what society has tried to hide since we became 'civilized', the beauty of the human body as God intended, NAKED! In all its shapes and sizes, there is something that we can all find beautiful about anyone's body. We have been told to hide our sexuality and called dirty if we didnt. And that, SIN, is the biggest sin of all. How can we not use the 1 gift He gave us all? Sexuality is the 1 healing gift he spread around equally. Whether pleasing and healing yourself or someone else, using the gift inward or outwards, our sexuality is key to our fitness, mental and physical. RUDE is a spot where each 1 can teach 1 and heal each other with this great gift we have. KEEP IT RUDE, MAMI, YA RUDE FAM LOVES U!! |
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May 08, 2008 (Report It)
It's great that you have found the new you, within your sexuality. It is truely a liberating experience. To learn this about yourself, can only make your sex life that much better. I'm sure other would agree. I'm a freak. I've always been a freak, but it's easy for a man to express that. For a woman to finally explore that side of herself, within feeling abit taboo is great. Others opinions, seem to get in the way, Now that you have gotten pass that, it only can make for a beeter you. Just ask B.O.B. Do what you do baby. We all enjoy it, and we all enjoy you. |
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May 08, 2008 (Report It)
this is one of the most amazing and enlightening blog entries i've ever read here...and i am so freeking happy for u. i'm been observing your blossoming for weeks now and it's so gratifying to see u accept that this is not only a part of u, but a DEFINING part of u-something that so many people never come to grips with in a positive way. i was even more impressed with how this worked on some many levels - i am now officially drifiting from smitten to something a little more complicated...but good. very very good... |
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May 08, 2008 (Report It)
Ms SIN, that was very well written, you are one extremely beautiful black woman, your body has caught up with your mind and i thank you for sharing your most intimate times with me and rude, i got your back sexy lady, true fan of yours, much love and respect pretty lady, love, gtowndog |
docporno |
May 08, 2008 (Report It)
i am in total awe....let me gather my thoughts-then i will respond |
MISS_... |
May 08, 2008 (Report It)
I AM SO PLEASED TO SEE THIS VISION OF LOVELYNESS COMING TO HER REAL SELF BEFORE MY EYES.....SO GLAD THAT RUDE FOUND YOU JUST AS YOU FOUND RUDE.....SO KEEP THISE VISIONS OF PLEASURE DANCING IN YOUR HEAD AND I KNOW THE PEOPLE OF RUDE WILL MAKE THE VIDS...PICS AND SHOWS TO KEEP THEM THERE AS WELL
MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT
STUNNA |
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F^ck Buddies
10:41PM on April 21, 2008
Yes, Pandora’s Box has been opened but in my opinion Pandora’s Box doesn’t have to always be bad. I look at this as grown people being open and honest talking about some real sh!t.
Let me rewind a bit and say this...there is no intimacy in having a f^ck buddy... u two may chill out watch TV, f^ck, and go about your daily lives only to contact each other when you need to get off. That is what it is and that is what it will be. You both know and understand that. yes women do seem to get those I want more from this 'relationship' before men do or hell are at least more open and willing to say so....I do agree with you there.
swaali77----->U AINT MY OLD LADY, AT THE MOMENT, U ARE JUST THE WOMAN I ENJOY FUCKING THE MOST! U ARE MY FAVORITE OUT OF A FEW...
But like Swaali77 said how many men are really up front and honest about it. If a man would come right and say u aint my old lady, u r just the 1 I enjoy f^ckin the most...then some women would either stick with it or walk away but damn it give us that f^ckin option. I mean hell every1 wants a good f^ck but eventually every1 is going to want that added intimacy, but hell if she knows from jump she aint shit but a good f^ck it cuts down on some of that bullsh!t. I mean I don’t have a problem with that situation of having a f^ck buddy and putting it out there that is all it is from JUMP....that is not a committed relationship and no one is being lead to believe that it is a committed relationship....
Miss_Stunna---->I'VE BEEN IN A SO CALLED COMMITTED... IT WASN'T TWO SIDED SO WHAT MAKES IT SO SPECAIL...
Well, committed relationships are special because you share that one bond with one other person. The two of you are one together and seem to be missing something when you are apart. Now this could very well be my 'young' mind speaking, but this 'young' mind believes that there is a place in everyone’s life for that one person. Even with me being in multiple failed relationships because a man has decided to cheat. But after every failure you learn something. After every failure you are that much closer to success.
But think about this if it was not two sided then it was not a committed relationship...that is what you wanted it to be or what you were lead to believe it was, right? Yes there was a commitment or promise on paper (in regards to marriage) but that paper doesn’t commit to you the person does...
My Question is this: Why do women let the down falls of the men of their past allow them to settle. You didn’t settle for less before they cheated so why settle for less after.
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doUse... |
May 11, 2008 (Report It)
After reading your words, there is really nothing to say except DON'T YOU JUST HATE IT WHEN THEY MESS UP A GOOD THING..... |
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April 24, 2008 (Report It)
I agree to everything you stated. But I think that your question should be asked of both genders. Guys we go thru it to. We just hide and adjust better. In a fuck buddy situation, or even before the relationship is considered a fuck buddy, I've found that the ladies automatically posses the man that touches them. I have seen men do tha same. Then when she says were just fuck buddies; she gets called a trick. But then again we get called players and no good niggas. You right, truth from tha jump is the best policy. Yet I still find myself trying to come out without braking hearts even though it was told from the jump.
Strongtung ~ Squirt Lova!
D-Town,Tx. Happy Squirting |
docporno |
April 24, 2008 (Report It)
honesty, no matter how painful it can often be, is often the best policy...of course, as someone who has never been able to make a relationship work maybe im not the guy to listen to. |
1fatsack |
April 22, 2008 (Report It)
ok it's like this women are more likely to get "caught up"because if a man states that this is just a FUCK thing and from the start it's cool. she is more likely to wanna change the status of the "relationship" after awhile and make a commitment/1on1 thing.not saying that she is wrong for feeling that way but you should've thought about what could happen & what would happen.if this were to happen so beware & enter with caution!! so when the man leaves or won't accept changes feelings are bound to get hurt... woman need to make better choices and know the man before you get "caught up" JUST MY 2 CENTS.... |
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April 22, 2008 (Report It)
Sin I think that women settle fo less after due to the mental pain that they go through after a bad situation. You kind fo get ina rut that is hard to get out of unless you take a break and take a long look at yourself. No man or woman should settle for less after going through trying times with a cheater. |
Maest... |
April 22, 2008 (Report It)
I hear ya on that a cat should never feel comforatable when as the saying goes I've got it so I need not to worry,key to any relationship in the convo.been in mine for 17 yrs.an always room to explore more an exciting options sexually(between the 2 ),spicing it up an variety,is my remedy,so if ya wanna tell ur boo to dress up in something sexy an U play the burgular role,or go on a warm nite an fuck in the moonlte,I guarantee that'll work. |
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April 21, 2008 (Report It)
ok let me say this...in the beginning it was a mutual commitment.....but somewhere without my knowledge his feelings changed....so instead of talking to me about that.....he cheated......so was i supposed to stay committed without him....and by no means have i let my past relationships change my feelings towards men....i still love them and desire them as well.....i'm just trying something different to see if this can work....not saying that everyone will understand this but hey i've tried the other now i'm gonna try this one |
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6:47PM on April 21, 2008
is the topic of many RUDE boards.... But due to a blog I read recently I have a few guestions or thoughts of my own. Miss_Stunna recently posted a blog about passion and desire....check it out there is alot more to it....
Now, I consider myself to be a pretty opened minded individual, willing to try things. I try to see others point of views on things and if there is something that I dont understand... I will ask about it.
So as I wait for Miss_Stunna response I want to know what you all think...
Now you are in a committed relationship with some1 u share so much passion with. You are in this relationship for the long term through thick and thin. This may be the very person you want to settle down with, raise a family and have a dog or two...
Now every1 window shops here and there. looking at all the tastey treats they can no longer sample becuase of that committed relationship. Well, actually who said you couldnt sample the treats as long as you always return home to the one that you share that passion with. As long as you return home to the one you love?
This is where I get lost... why be in a committed relationship if you are going to let your partner sample other tastey treats... I just dont get it. why not just be f^ck buddies and keep it pushing? Hell, why be with some1 who is going to desire other women/men and act on those desires when they should be in a committed relationship with you. I just dont see how that works. Please help me open my mind and grasp this concept.
But as you respond keep in mind that I am not talking about those who allow there partners to 'cheat' and continue to return home... I am talking about those who are comfortable with and allow there partners to sample those tastey treats... those who are ok with the relationship being half open and half closed. I understand that some people have very successful marriages and relationships being swingers having completely open relationship, but that is something that they do TOGETHER. What I am speaking of is not done by both parties involved...
u understand?
is it truly about being that secure with yourself or is it lack there of?
my original response to Stunna's blog---->Stunna Stunna Stunna.... their are people that have the same thinking as you...then there are others who wanto to be able to share this thinking... but anywho... why be in a committed relationship if you are not committed to each other (but i am assuming u are talking about a committed relationship) every1 has desires 4 others and you may very well have passion, tru passion for that one person, but if passion is so strong why give into desires or allow your man to give into those desires....help me open my mind some...
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11bra... |
May 06, 2008 (Report It)
An open relationship can be a committed relationship, but it is much harder. I have been in both and unless you are very secure, honest and not at all territorial an open committed relationship is likely doomed. |
Coolj... |
April 23, 2008 (Report It)
well i did sex with my wife i did try to her we never up. we did make sex and enjoy. |
shyma... |
April 21, 2008 (Report It)
they call it friends with benefits nowadays me i'm old schol i'll stick to the committed relationships |
swaali77 |
April 21, 2008 (Report It)
I have been in a committed relationship before and I played the role of the 1 that was not so committed. I think it all came down to this for me:
I didnt really want a committed relationship. I wanted a maid, cook, and personal slut on call 24-7. Basically that was it for me. I just wanted to know these things were there so I didnt have to go look for them. Having this also made my liaisons in the street a lot less complicated. I was able to keep them very simple and emotionally in check. See sometimes men end up in a "committed relationship' because of dependence on a woman who they are supposed to be just fucking. When they start depending on her to do other things besides fuck.(hot meal, wash clothes, etc.) By having that woman at home I didnt have to depend on other women to handle anything for me. That was my "at-home's" jobs. She didnt have to work all she had to do was cook, clean, fuck, and suck. I provided everything for her and the house just so I could do what I wanted with other women. And I felt that since I did everything she had no right to complain or be upset when she caught me or heard bout something I was doing. My favorite response was, "but who do I sleep with every night? Who living in this nice ass crib? Who dont have to work?' I felt I had the right to do what I wanted when I wanted as long as the next day didnt catch me outside my crib. 5 years that shit went on and in the end I had hurt her so much with my arrogance and fucking up till she left. Took my daughter and moved back to the project with her family. The nice crib, money to shop, car,none of that mattered. She aint want none of that, she wanted me to love her like she loved me. But I couldnt, I didnt love her, I was comfortable with her ass. I knew she would handle whatever business I asked her to. I knew if she was going somewhere that day before she left my house would be cleaned, food would be on the stove, clothes and towels in the bathroom for me to wash that other woman off me. I said all that to say this, alot of times committed relationships are what they are, but most times any relationship or friendship is 1 of convenience. I got something u want and vice versa. If 2 cats hang together hustling money to smoke crack, they are going to be best friends, but once 1 goes to rehab and serious about that kick, guess what? They aint so much of friends anymore. So I now tell my so-called 'committed relationship' partners the truth from the beginning. U AINT MY OLD LADY, AT THE MOMENT, U ARE JUST THE WOMAN I ENJOY FUCKING THE MOST! U ARE MY FAVORITE OUT OF A FEW!
Hope I aint bore yall 2 death with that.
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MISS_... |
April 21, 2008 (Report It)
I SEE I HAVE OPENED A PANDORA'S BOX HERE.......WITH F*CK BUDDY'S HOW MUCH INTIMACY CAN YOU REALLY GET FROM THAT.......THIS WHOLE COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP THING.....I'VE BEEN IN A SO CALLED COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP BUT THE COMMITMENT WAS ALL MINE.....IT WASN'T TWO SIDED SO WHAT MAKES IT SO SPEACIL IS MY QUESTION TO YOU???? |
Eroti... |
April 21, 2008 (Report It)
that is what I said Y not just be F^ck Buddies...that is what i am trying to grasp...Y claim the committed relationship... |
makav... |
April 21, 2008 (Report It)
well i look at it like this b room mates with benefits wish I can tell u more but I will think about it............respect |
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Addiction
1:11AM on April 14, 2008
addiction: the state of being addicted addict: to cause to have a need for something/a person who is addicted.
I would like to believe that I am not the only one out there who believes that they are addicted to this place we call RUDE.
I knew last week it was bad but now I know that I am there...I am an addict. It has gotten to the point where I log on to RUDE non-stop from my cell phone... only to get mad because I cant watch video or go into group shows. So what did I do about it... I started taking my laptop to work...running around outside trying to pick a wireless signal just to get a peek at something....
Here I am now doing a co-worker a favor (baby-sitting)... and I couldnt resist logging on exposing her computer to RUDE hoping I can delete all traces that I was even here... Dont need my co-workers knowing that I am indeed a RUDETTE..
I am so hooked on this place called RUDE and need it just to make it through the day... I feel so sick after not logging for after a few hours... Its like I have to have it and without I have major withdrawals...
Some1, Any1, please Help or sh!t at least let me Know I am not the only one who suffers from the RUDE addiction
SinCityVixen702
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11bra... |
May 10, 2008 (Report It)
I have been in love with sex since I was 12, it's like food and air so I must be addicted to breathing and eating [both meanings!] |
Mr_Ghost |
April 26, 2008 (Report It)
This is how addicted i am. I cancelled my account thinking I'll get over it and now 2 weeks later im back..................... |
vangu... |
April 22, 2008 (Report It)
When I first got on Rude, I was just planning to be here for a short time. I found that there were real people fulfilling sexual desires on webcam and it was like being on drugs! Seeing so many people being so wide open is intoxicating. |
knigh... |
April 22, 2008 (Report It)
Rude is highly addictive |
toolt... |
April 21, 2008 (Report It)
I am adicked to you |
MISS_... |
April 20, 2008 (Report It)
HI MY NAME IS STUNNA AND I AM A RUDE ADDICT.....YEA YEA WE ARE ALL PERVES...SO WHAT....WE ARE IN GOOD COMPANY......NOT ONLY DO WE SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER....WE TRY AND MAKE TRIPS TO VISIT AND GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER....SO IF THAT'S A BAD THING WELL HELL WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT IT?? |
FMBRA... |
April 15, 2008 (Report It)
i've been on rude over a year and you right it's real addicting baby....have you been to a Rude party yet? well i had so far in my area a couple of time...it a network of us that party to gether, drink and fuck no string attach. so you not alone baby |
Trini... |
April 14, 2008 (Report It)
<-- been addicted for well over a year now |
yourd... |
April 14, 2008 (Report It)
sweetie, you are not the only one. You may be the only one who admitted it LMAO! But nope, not the only one. I stay on rude at LEAST 24/7. I am a perv. I can't help it!
Now I will say "girl u r crazy" screw using a co-workers pc LMAO! But hey, a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do.
<3 Dream |
nasha... |
April 14, 2008 (Report It)
I guess I can agree with you on that... |
shyma... |
April 14, 2008 (Report It)
yea you got that right rude is addictive |
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