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Why is it that alot of men ask this?
7:08PM on April 03, 2010
 Something I wanted to rant about. Why is it that alot of men that buy my videos, pics or even join my Members Area on my site, say that because they made a purchase, they think that they should have the chance to meet me or literally BEG for ir? I might be somewhat famous online, but I have never ever advertised that I'd be willing to meet my fans. I love my fans, don't get me wrong, but with the crazy ass world out there, can you blame me for making that choice??
Let's be serious! I don't care how much money you have to offer me, you could honestly give me a million dollars and it STILL wouldn't happen! Really? YES! REALLY? LOL I enjoy what I do to the fullest, but what alot of men don't seem to realize is that usually the whole "online" thing is a fantasy and nothing more. I know that alot of women, escort, meet their fans for money blah blah. I'm so not like that! I am very different from alot of girls online and those who know me, know the truth in that. There are some girls out there, that will do ANYTHING for money, I.. am not one of them.
I have the kind of job I do, so that I have the ability to work from home, be my own boss, enjoy myself as well as make money doing it yes, but there is a line that is to be drawn and that's where I draw mine. Everyone loves money, of course we rely on it to live a good life, but I will not put myself in the possibly of a dangerous situation to have all the money in the world. And personally I think it's plain rude when people ask and I state this and then get told off because of the way that I feel.
Someday I might decide to go a different route and meet people, but at this time, it's not gonna happen. It's ALOT different, if I have known you for a while, I'd probably be more willing to meet, let alone some random person that just messages me and throws money in my face. No thanks! LMAO! End of rant:) Haha
xoxo
Mikayla
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rhasa... |
May 23, 2010 (Report It)
It's basic...most men are just that dam horny and pressed for a nut. Maybe even bragging rights for later for a sense of accomplishment. It's like reaching out and saying because you are famous or admired... I managed to get what most will never. |
BROOK... |
May 19, 2010 (Report It)
i like this topic great one this is part of the biz that is often delt with |
AriesBBW |
May 17, 2010 (Report It)
Some just dont care, instead of seeing it as our choice NOT to meet they just refuse to believe that we arent online for a hook up~ i am with you 100% whenever i remind them that i do not meet that is when all the whores and sluts come out LOL i find it funny because some of the men will go from the sweetest IM to the most annoying woman bashing fool! You are doing a great job just the way you do it! BESt WiSHES! sexy thang you! liXXX :)~ |
Alura_69 |
April 29, 2010 (Report It)
Some big name stars meet fans for a fee, so it is believed that lesser names will meet for a fee. However if you never stated it- yet people ask I can only suggest seeing if you can post on the page somewhere that you do not meet fans. I myself enjoy the aspect that I can work on my own schedule from home. And I have no intention of meeting fans. For a fee or any other reason. that's me, personally I am sure some of them are very nice normal people- but I cant risk my life to the one oddball that isn't nice or normal. |
luv2cum |
April 17, 2010 (Report It)
i just don't understand why some people want to do anything it takes like bribe you with money offers and so on to meet someone on the internet while they never met them in reality. some people in this world are messed up to the point where how can they be fixed again |
xm202... |
April 06, 2010 (Report It)
Some guys get all giddy with themselves, think with the wrong head and confuse lust and love. Some don't realize they are being stalkerish while I think others just don't care. Kinda sad really. You are just having some fun and sharing your sexy self with us. They should just be thankful you do that much. I know I am, and I appreciate it. Stay sexy! |
turbo... |
April 04, 2010 (Report It)
a lot of web cam girls tell their members that if they are in their area that they can do content with them if they are willing to be on cam n sign a form. some are that hardcore bout it |
Chest... |
April 04, 2010 (Report It)
I totally agree with you - they know Im with McP and about to get married and still try it on - they think they can steel me away - no way. I tend to take it as a big compliment.
Happens on my other site - I wish they would read the profile before messaging me too - If they did they may write a different mail
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Curvy... |
April 04, 2010 (Report It)
Hahaha awesome everyone:) Thanks for listing to me bitch LMAO xoxox |
bigon... |
April 03, 2010 (Report It)
go gril you are the boss and you are sweet and glad you let me see you on cam
love and peace to the from bigone |
UKnewguy |
April 03, 2010 (Report It)
I tend to think that the number of guys here on Rude who truly believe that they can meet up with any of the girls here are in the minority. Most of us know that it's very very unlikely to happen - and the few who think otherwise must be deluding themselves, surely. However much we might like the idea (fantasy) of meeting up, the realists among us know that it just aint gonna happen. lol
Good blog, Mikayla - lets see how many responses you get. :) |
great... |
April 03, 2010 (Report It)
See I totally understand your view Mikayla. You and I live in the same city and sure a part of me would love to meet you in person but I would never ask to. You don't know what I'm really like and quite frankly I don't know you either. I'm sure most of the people on here are harmless enough, but I understand a person not wanting to take a chance. Besides your an internet model not an escort. |
Pinke... |
April 03, 2010 (Report It)
I understand where you coming from. I mean their are ladies who WILL NOT do this for safety reason. Others, if there have there own site and offer a win a date contest is another. The other way you could get a chance to meet is if she really know you and I mean REALLY KNOW YOU. |
CaliDiva |
April 03, 2010 (Report It)
I hear u, some ppl are just persistent! Don't let em get to ya, anyone who gets crazy and doesn't understand where ur coming from, is definitely someone you shouldn't be alone with in person anyways lol |
Tweety79 |
April 03, 2010 (Report It)
I appreciate qnd respect your opinion and outlook on this subject. I have met a number of women and couples from rude for sexual encounters and simply out of friendship too. They are not escorts or anything like it, they are simply people I have interacted with for a long while here on line. Yes sometimes it turns out not to be the wisest thing to do but I am not a single female doing what you do for a living.
For many, fantasy and reality needs a fence between it....a very tall fence. Kewl babe, rant away...I love a good rant he he xoxoxo |
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Getting Out Of Hand
9:48AM on November 04, 2009
 Ok! I need to vent! Bitch is coming out! LOL I should be used to it but DAMN! I have been getting alot of requests to meet people to have sex with them FOR MONEY!! or to exchange messenger ID's even PHONE NUMBERS! WTF? Have you gone mad? LOL Seriously, I am am on Rude to socialize with people, make new friends ONLINE and work, not to use as a dating or "fuck me" service! I'm NOT a HOOKER! I'm sorry but if you leave me your phone number in my inbox, do you honestly think I will call you? HAHAHAHAHA Right! I will get right on that:P LOL I know alot of people use Rude for different ways, but damn at least be respectful and ask first or something. I didn't think Rude was a dating service? Hmmm Geesh, I am a "CAM WHORE" Not YOUR WHORE IN REAL LIFE! LOL! I DO NOT meet! I love all of you but I play it safe! With all the crazies online, you can NEVER be too sure:P If you want my personal IM, visit my website on my freaking Rude Page, DO NOT contact me just to chat on my IM! I do full time cam shows for a living and don't have the time to waste with freebie hunters or beggars! I will NEVER give out my phone number! So don't even bother asking! Too many more important messages to respond to. So from now on, if any message that I receive has anything to do with what I mentioned above, it will be deleted ASAP. And you will be blocked! I take my job very serious and don't have time for that shit. Yes I know that you wanna date me cause I'm so beautiful LMAO:P and blah blah;) but that will never happen! Got it? Good! Nuff Said..
Happy Hump Day All:) LOL
xoxox~Mikayla~
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marcu... |
November 19, 2009 (Report It)
hummmm so sexy mistress! |
BROOK... |
November 07, 2009 (Report It)
yes i feel the same way it's crazy |
Kali-... |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
It happens a lot to all the ladies on Rude. I have always felt like they should have a channel under the more about you that tells people what you are on rude for because most men automatically think that is why we are here. I am here for fun and not to be hooking up. There should be a box right under our profile picture that shows our status. Then we can let people know how we feel and why we are here. Most of the different sites have that option. |
Linge... |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
Mikayla, don't let 'em get to you. Take online and IRL inappropriate come-ons with a grain of salt. Don't waste a single second of precious energy fretting over negativity. Just delete and move on. Hope you're feeling better, if you had what I had you'll be coughing for another two weeks. A nice sexy phlegmy hacking cough that is sure to drive the boys wild. ;-D |
mondo... |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
Bravo ... You know, there are still brain dead tards that think I'm a woman ... lol !!
I'm gonna add you to my blog roll. |
Chest... |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
Well said sister !!! I too get them all the time - I just delete them |
AriesBBW |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
SAY IT AGAIN! and you probably will. Keep doing what you do ignore them like you have, it makes them want you twice as much. Ha! |
Tweety79 |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
Well said my dear and I couldn't agree with you more. As always, thinking with the wrong head!! Sometimes it leans toward the pathetic but I think stupidity is the key factor and we all know....You can't fix stupid!! xoxoxox |
luv2cum |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
MiKayla these pathetic people not only disrespect you they are disrespecting other women or men too. It's just how they were brought up and don't let it get to you.
I remember when I was working at Wal-Mart as a cart associate. These two girls were driving and listening to shake it off by Mimi. Then all of a sudden, this black dude said SHAKE SHAKE SHAKE IT OFF! to these girls driving the car while he was taking off his t-shirt. His body was muscular but I thought he was drunk or something not right up there. Of course the girls didn't buy it and drove away because they did not even know him. Here is another story, another black man was driving a black compact car (i don't know the model or brand). He said Gimmie Your Number! to this fine woman he did not even meet. I was LOLing because I thought what is wrong with this idiot.
Ahem, almost got too carried away there :) imo we are on rude so why in the hell would I want someone to call me or vice versa. I mean this is as close as we are going to get. This is a part of our live that should not be endangered. I agree with your concept about blocking rude members that do disrespect me by sending me IM's, sends me their personal info such as numbers, addresses, etc. Hell no I do not give out my number or anything else they do not need. The only reason I would even ask for an IM ONLY is if I wanted to send something important to them without letting everyone else know and I very very rarely do this. After that I never write to that IM address again.
I respect everyones saftey so it should stay safe this way :)) |
Curvy... |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
lol Sasha:) Xtreme I totally hear ya, but what the hell, if they can't get nothing in real life, they are really DUMB if they think they gonna have me and Sasha;) LMAO Nah I won't leave Rude because of it just venting. Been dealing with this for a few years, but just seems to get worse, then I'm called a bitch for speaking my mind. LOL I love my job hahahaha |
xtrem... |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
yeah it is funny too see so many guys think that women that get naked on cam are whores and ready too fuck you anytime, some guys are fucked up, they get nothing in real life so act like fuck tards on the web hoping it will get them some super hot babe too fuck for free, this is the age of the web and people are very stupid about what they do and say on the web. |
sinfu... |
November 04, 2009 (Report It)
yep but they will continue to send the mails to u... cuz they still send them to me... ;) |
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