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Club Review: Forbidden Bar and Lounge, West Hollywood CA
12:12PM on March 26, 2012
Forbidden Bar & Lounge
Category: Lounges
Neighborhood: West Hollywood
3/19/2012
I attended a birthday party with MsBambie here this past Saturday night. I didn't know quite what to expect but, knowing some of those attending, figured on a Hip Hop, 20s to 30s crowd, lower middle class to middle class, baggy jeans, sneakers, overly large shirts. Nailed those stats.
We arrived late in the night and the valet was full; fortunately, we found street parking nearby.
There was no cover charge, which usually spells danger (see my review of The Savoy). Bingo. If anyone can waltz in, anyone usually does.
I ordered bottle service in advance and, because of the many unknowns, requested the Moet (at $150 plus an 18% service gratuity). That seemed a tad stiff but, hey, it was a party. The drink turned out to be spot on. Score one for Forbidden.
Things went downhill from there. First, the seat reserved with the bottle service was at the front door and in the direct path of all ingress and egress foot traffic. We spent the night with people sauntering to and fro across our nicely-shined shoes. More than a few people actually tripped on my legs; it was just that tight.
Second, the table on which one would normally set their drinks was at the side of the bench, accessible to anyone at the bar. I spent much of the night watching our bottle, cautious of sip-thieves. I couldn't reach the Moet from my end of the bench as it was not in front of me.
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Third, there was NO service. An 18% gratuity but no one to serve the drinks, no one to check in with us to see if we required other "services," no one to up-sell, nothing. Piss poor, if I might say (inelegantly, yes...).
The music, on the other hand, was great, as best I could determine (I assess it by the acknowledgments of the crowd and the response on the dance floor). The under-30 MsBambie attended with me and she bolstered my appraisal. Score two for Forbidden.
But MsBambie also reports that there is only one restroom in the place. Upon her visit to it, the lights were out and the switch didn't turn them on. She noticed a man standing nearby - he seemed to work there - so she asked him about it. "Oh, yeah. Just a minute," he replied. Then he went into the restroom and LIT CANDLES. Not for erotic or sensual illumination or aromatherapeutic purposes but for, well, light. How low-class (and low-watts) is that?
The numbers are against them. I don't plan to ever return.
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Club Review: The Savoy, Inglewood CA
3:55AM on March 15, 2010
 
User Rating: 2 out of 5 stars
by CalifStyle
03/15/2010
I took two lady friends, erotic author Crystal The Ravishing and Rude.com porn star Ms Bambie, to the Savoy on Saturday, March 13. We were looking for an Old School, upscale venue and thought to give it a try. First, though, I read the reviews on the internet and passed them on to my lady friends. We agreed that it takes a dissatisfied customer to take the time to write a review. Happy campers don't usually bother. Considering that, we opted to check it out for ourselves.
I had been to the Savoy once before for a birthday party in 2007 but didn't want that mildly negative experience to unfairly influence our decision in 2010.
We became concerned at curb side. Although the Savoy's web site advertises itself as upscale, the people queued to enter were anything but. Second, the sign upon entering said "Dress Code Enforced." That was untrue; we noted patrons wearing t-shirts, baggy jeans and sneakers. The drinks were, indeed, watered (Ms Bambie complained that the Amaretto Sour she ordered tasted more like "Kool Aid, not a drink") - we sent the drinks back and they were returned in the same watery state; nearly all of the guys came off as desperate and disrespectful; and too many of the women were tacky. The web site posted a cover charge of $10; we were charged $15 with no apology or explanation. All of this echoes previous reviews.
The physical plant was unremarkable but inoffensive. Previous reviews described it accurately. The DJ played a strangely eclectic blend of music, making it hard to maintain a groove. There wasn't a discernible theme of any sort. The neighborhood, in the middle of downtown Inglewood, can only be described as "hood." As a matter of fact, while my Ms Bambie was on the floor dancing, two men next to her began fighting over a perceived slight. On a side note, table and floor maintenance could stand some attention.
On the plus side, the dance floor was spacious and always busy. Security was visible but not intrusive. A couple of the waitresses were quite attendant although our first waitress seemed inexperienced and, well, high.
Leaving was worse than entering. Adolescent boys descended upon my ladies with unsolicited groping, rubbing, pulling, and begging. Their pitiful pickup lines were characteristically lame, worn and tired...and unimaginative. Not one "man" offered to buy either of the ladies a drink as part of their introduction. Whatever happened to "vuelven los caballeros"? As we pulled away from the curb, these boys knocked on my Jag's windows in a last-ditch effort at getting an audience with Ms Bambie or Crystal. I'm thinking, "WTF?"
We don't expect to return and would not recommend it to anyone seeking a truly upscale evening experience. However, if the unsophisticated and testosterone-intensive is acceptable, then it could work for you.
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Long Live Big-Butt Women!
8:25PM on February 01, 2010
Long Live Big-Butt Women!
Those curves are making cardiologists smile.
(MsBambie, on the left, with our ex-girlfriend Dimplez during a shower photo shoot)
A new study out of Oxford University in England found women with "pear-shaped" figures -- ample extra padding around the hips, buttocks and thighs -- are actually at a lower risk for heart andmetabolic diseases.
"It is shape that matters and where the fat gathers," said Oxford's Dr. Konstantinos Manolopoulos, explaining that fat stored on the hips and in the rear absorb harmful fatty acids and further prevent arteries from clogging.
"Fat around the hips and thighs is good for you, but around the tummy is bad," he told BBC News, noting that the proverbial "spare tire" around the belly leads to higher incidences of heart disease.
(Although YngBlkFem aka Fierce - on the right - has a larger 46" derriere, MsBambie's 45" ass mass is much more nicely shaped and tightly packaged)
The findings help explain why women traditionally have lower rates of heart disease then men until they reach menopause, when their rates rise as they begin to gather fat around their midsections.
"The only thing I can say is that women who have large thighs shouldn't be anxious about it," Manolopoulos said. "Their body shape is associated with health."
Scientists believe genetics play a large role in where a body stores fat.
Originally published by Ikimulisa Livingston and Chuck Bennett.
Source: YellowBrix, The New York Post
All photos copyright 2009 Alley Cat Media and Doe Eyez
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Yay to bit booties. men love mine |
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Carmel Candi: Rolling into 2009
11:27PM on November 15, 2009
The BBBJ Jewel from Cali's IE
5:14AM on July 13, 2008
Sweet Tooth: Carmel Candi
(c) 2007 Alley Cat Media
This is a story about an exceptional bbbj-girl, Carmel Candy, whom I met when she was 19 and looking to get into adult modeling. She already had mainstream Lady Enyce, Ebony Showcase and Las Vegas Magic modeling experience under her belt. As most in the business know, however, those gigs are big on glamour and small on paydays.
Carmel sent a message to my Las Vegas office address asking to meet me when next I was in Southern California. She wanted a mentor. Mentor? Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking.
On my first available weekend in Southern California, I called Carmel and arranged to meet in Victorville near her home, two hours outside of Vegas and about an hour from my home in Cali. We went to dinner, chatted, and felt each other out over the leisurely repast. She wanted to see my home (a variation on the "let me show you my prints" maneuver) and agreed to meet me there later that night.
Carmel arrived within fifteen minutes of our appointment but called earlier and advised that she'd be a bit late. She parked and sauntered to the door with that peculiar model's gait. She was friendly, affable and engaging but ready to get down to business (yeah, see my home, my ass).
Carmel is not the least bit shy. She immediately removed her clothing but for her sexy boyshorts. I didn't complain; she looked hot in them. After a cursory embrace and a peck on my cheek and neck, Carmel , obviously named for her luxuriant and creamy skin-tone, dragged my man-meat from its refuge and ladled it with her tongue and mouth. I noticed piercings in her tongue and on her belly-button but no tattoos. The tongue stud didn't interfere with the bbbj-cim (cum in mouth), expertly rendered. Her oral skills belie her youth.
Carmel deep-throated me repeatedly, forcing squeals from within me that I didn't know existed. I shot squirts down her throat within ten minutes but she kept going...and going...and going. After twenty minutes or so she noticed the cum dripping down my stalk and asked if I had cum yet. I replied that I had; she asked if I could go on. I could, so away we went.
She sucked, slurped and slathered my pole up one side, down the next and 'round its perimeter for a full, non-stop forty-five minutes before I throttled into an intense orgasm. Spunk filled her mouth; she smiled and rose. After spitting into the sink, Carmel tongue-massaged my nipples, electrifying my staff back into a salute. Then she covered and mounted me and rode for the hills.
She was exhilirating; makes an old man proud. We ended with missionary that was anything but routine - the girl's a star. I came again, shuddering as she flexed her pussy around my dick, force-feeding her cunt with what was left of my condom-restrained production. Carmel was certainly not new to sex.
Carmel's a young, sexy, lean, 5'10" Belizean with perky breasts, a talented tongue and enterprising pussy. Makes me wanna holler. By the way, she mentioned that she has a few friends - 18, 19 and 20 year-olds - who would join in if requested. Maybe next time.
That was two years ago and she has only gotten better. I had her roll through my booth at Erotica L.A. 2007 last year and she's made other promotional rounds with me as arm candy and nighttime entertainment in Palm Springs, Las Vegas and Atlanta, and at swing parties, particularly Maria's Ndeavours parties in Los Angeles, as my "potluck" contribution.
Last month we shot her first scenes for the website that impends. Now a talented 21-year-old (22 soon), Carmel has her sights set on the world of porn. Good sex never does a girl bad, huh?
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MsBambie and I interview a newbie
8:14PM on June 28, 2009
On Friday night, MsBambie (www.rude.com/MsBambie) and I "interviewed" a potential addition to our polyamorous relationship. Our girlfriend Fierce was preparing for a major Saturday event of her own (a pool party for XXL magazine, which is one of her marketing clients) and couldn't join us. Our other girlfriend Ty (www.rude.com/SugarTyTee) is under the weather so she sat this one out, too.
Our potential newbie, Cynthia, joined us for dinner at the Doubletree Hotel in Ontario, Calif., followed by dancing at Misty's Lounge. MsBambie, of course, owned the dance floor with all eyes on her as she waved her massive 45-inch ass and bounced her now-38DD-pluses all over the floor (yeah, MsBambie's cup size has grown...and the DDs are snug, too).
The two ladies connected sufficiently to allow us to take the party home for a white-hot menage-a-trois that roasted until 5 a.m. Saturday morning. I'll save the details for a blog that I plan to post on my Rude.com page in a few days (www.rude.com/CalifStyle/blog). I spent Saturday recovering.
Briefest briefing: Cynthia is 35, bi-situational, 5'5", 125 lbs., black (Jamaican)-Latina (Mexican), lives in the Inland Empire area of Southern California, and has yet to attend a swinger party (we're thinking of breaking her in at my girl Maria's N'Deavours party on July 11). Cynthia is an IT professional and an Air Force veteran.
Cynthia has a very high public profile and a bad case of photophobia so we won't be posting any photographs that can be used to identify her - but body parts are okay.
Cynthia and I are going roller skating tonight in Chino (Skate Express) because it's Oldies Night. MsBambie has other nocturnal plans but I'll leave that for her to share; catch her on twitter if you really want to know.
Kato
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Thoughts on the BBC Phenomena
3:31PM on May 24, 2009
 
MsBambie, Fierce, and CalifStyle appearing on RudeTV
(c) 2009 Alley Cat Media
BBCs
In the Lifestyle (swinging) community, there are routine posts seeking BBCs. This initialism is code for BigBlackCock. These posts typically come from white and Latina women. There is an underlying assumption, I guess, that black women already have, or have unfettered access to, the BBCs as I see extremely few posts of this sort from black women (except for my girl Tulsa_Moon who insists on any cock that will "fill her up" as long as it meets her 'groove' or rhythm preference).
This blog is to share my thoughts on the subject as I get far more of these requests than I deserve.
First, a bit on The I
I am 6' tall, 200 lbs. with an athletic build. I own my home and live with two thick, bisexual hotties, MsBambie and Fierce. Our girlfriend Ty (SugarTyTee) lives nearby and visits often.
Someone once called me a metrosexual. Not knowing if it was meant as an insult, I looked it up in Esquire magazine. The definition they gave seems to fit me.
Metrosexual Me
I enjoy dancing - both contemporary and ballroom, cruises, cinema (preferably foreign and independent films), theatre, fine dining, road trips and physical culture. I am an accomplished cook and love shopping, interior design and other fine arts. I have a gym built into my home and work out five days a week. I get a manicure every ten days and a pedicure every six weeks.
I am fastidious and won't leave the house unless I am dressed nattily. Nor will I range through the malls or other public locales with anyone who is not presentably attired. "Always be presentable" is what I practice. You never know whom you will meet while out and about.
I don't follow any sports. I don't know the teams, players or seasons. My thinking is this: no matter who wins, I don't get paid.
I'm a voracious reader, preferring non-fiction but having an appreciation for certain authors of fiction (Heinlein, Butler, Koontz, Cook, Crichton, Clark, Bradbury, King, et al). I am a self-employed forensicist (I own the company) and have a few other business ventures percolating presently. I am 59 years of age.
My Preferences
I date women - not ages, not colors, not ethnicities, but that certain and ineffable combination of personal and physical characteristics that strike me as appealing at a given time. And for me, the cast is not set, meaning I don't prefer one somatotype or height or weight over another. It all tends to swing on the impact and dynamics attendant to the individual - and the chemistry between the individual and me. There's more to me, of course, but I'll reserve that for the continuing dialogue I hope to enjoy. Oh, and I'm black, American and relatively dark-skinned but handsome is not a call I can make (given that beauty is in the eyes....well, you know what I mean).
I understand and appreciate preferences, however. Your mind's eye knows what it likes and seeks out that thing - sometimes situationally, sometimes impulsively, and sometimes by design. I suppose it can be difficult to wrap one's mindset around a pattern interruption (to borrow a term from heuristic psychology). To some, preferences may seem limiting; to me it's just another function of individuality and free will.
I see people from the inside out. Hue is never a determinant.
I've dated women who only date - or prefer to date - Black men and I didn't find it particularly flattering (unless, of course, they dated me because they knew something of the inner me - and not just the external presentation).
Too often, though, it appeared I was sought after owing to some preconceptions, misconceptions, rumors, curiosity and stereotypes. That's a lot to live up to and it has never been sufficiently important to my ego for me to engage that endeavor. But that's just me; I don't begrudge or judge others for their take on things.
In the planet's social fabric, there's room for both...and more. It keeps it interesting.
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TaQuilla |
May 25, 2009 (Report It)
So, maybe its more than you BBC that is desired. ;) |
SKILLZ |
May 25, 2009 (Report It)
Calif, i agree on the dress code,i like to look stylish whenever i leave my home,not like i am looking for attention but you have to admit,it feels good when you are nicely dress and all eyes are on you.Not insinuating that the cloths make me,i have been self-sufficient since the age of 20,so therefor, i make the cloths lol.Calif bro,i have been striving for a long time to get where you are in life,i work for GM,but we all know about the problems they are having and i refuse to be held captured by their mishaps,so i decided to get back in college to better myself for me and my family.And you know what's sad, me and KN moved far away from the hood and all our so called friends were cool when we were living there,now since we have move out of the hood,we are not black anymore,why..why.. why? They kills me with that,but i am a real man,with the drive to provide a better life for my wife and my son,so to hell what they think about me.Calif my man,you keep doing your thing,and i want you to know that i have mad RESPECT for you my brother. |
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MsBambie's Birthday Bash at Poetry - Boobies and Booties
3:09PM on May 20, 2009
Bambie’s Birthday Bash!
My MsBambie celebrated her 25th birthday on Saturday, April 18, in Las Vegas. Her choice venue in Vegas is Club Poetry, within Caesar’s Palace. It is THE hip-hop location in Nevada.
She brought with her our girlfriends Fierce and SugarTyTee (Ty). I had with me these three thick, bisexual hotties all in one place. It was going to be quite a night. 
My daughter, PrettyFineBrown (Pink Shorts to some of you), used her connections to arrange for us to get an intimate VIP booth tucked in the back of the club. We rolled in and it was ON!
We danced in around midnight and the girls took over the floor. They danced with each other and with other women in our area. They moseyed over to the larger dance floor and put it down for the fellas. Guys were drooling so freely that the mop crew was put on stand-by.
MsBambie wore a red clingy top and had some black pants painted onto her lower extremities. She was supported by some killer red heels for which she spent a week shopping.
Rude.com’s 2009 Booty Shakin’ Contest winner’s thighs exploded into the club to acclaim, dragging that magnificent 45-inch ass package behind her. MsBambie was a star, a celebrity, Rude royalty.
Our girlfriend, 23 year-old Fierce, wore a black micro-micro-mini dress and went ass-bare (yeah, no panties) providing a special “sump’m- sump’m” for the crowd. Fierce is quite funny when loose and a complete riot with a drink or two in her. We let the drinks flow and she, with encouragement from the galley, went wild.
Our other girlfriend Ty, a 26 year-old, met Fierce for the first time at this event and they took to each other immediately. Ty sat for photos with MsBambie last year and the two foxes kept in touch. Now it was time to party together.
Usually Ty is very reserved. By night’s end (see photos), Ty and Bambie were slurping cake frosting from Fierce’s 34i-cup boobies and, later, Ty and Fierce were making out in the booth.
 
We partied until 4 a.m. and then retired to my daughter’s house to sleep. Sleep did not come quickly. First, Ty, Fierce and Bambie went to bed and played with each other for an hour. Bambie then went into another bedroom to sleep, leaving Ty and Fierce to continue their carnal explorations. Me, I sat in a corner and drank it all with my eyes. Later in the night, they gang banged me, draining my nutt sacs to exhaustion. Lawdy, lawdy, lawdy. I love my life, y’all.
The next morning, we eased out to brunch at the Cracked Egg in North Las Vegas. There, the ladies signed autographs, bantered with the wait staff and shopped. We parted company with me taking Ty back to California and Bambie staying in Vegas to run the streets with Fierce.
Happy Birthday, Baby!
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TaQuilla |
May 26, 2009 (Report It)
A good time had by all! |
TaQuilla |
May 26, 2009 (Report It)
A good time had by all! |
SKILLZ |
May 24, 2009 (Report It)
What can i say bro,you are thee man. Respect. |
docporno |
May 20, 2009 (Report It)
sounds like a true night to remember in a life already full of them...to quote sean connery in Finding Forrester "U da man now, Dawg!' |
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Thanks, Rude
4:40PM on December 18, 2008
RECOGNIZING THE POSITIVE PEOPLE OF RUDE IN 2008
 This blog is a follow-on to one my friend TaQuilla (www.Rude.com/TaQuilla/blog) posted on her page. The subject is timely and, as is usual for the sensual TaQuilla, thought through thoroughly (alliteration intentional). This post is an edited version of my response to TaQuilla's initial blog. Of course, as soon as I hit the "submit" button when responding to TaQuilla's blog, it occurred to me that I'd neglected to mention some of the people for whom I am thankful. This represents a less-abridged response.
Flanked by my girlfriends MsBambie and Yngblkfem (aka Fierce)
As the year closes, I consider those people to whom Rude has brought me closer and those to whom Rude has introduced me advantageously. First are two of my younger brothers, CoseyCose, a certified personal trainer in Southern California, and BigHersheyFun, who owns a trucking company in Northern California, as they find utility and entertainment here. Also, my son, the novelist PeterMack (his latest novel is A Neighborly Affair, available at Trulifepublishing), who, while no longer a Rude member, joined us for a minute.
Next are my lovers whom I knew prior to Rude. They remain friends (or friendly) to me and, sometimes, lovers still (their approximate ages are in parentheses for the, uh, curious): PinayPassion (52), my favorite swinging playmate; SugarTyTee (26), now a superbusy medical student but always close to me; Yngblkfem (aka Fierce, 22), my girlfriend presently and the most industrious young woman I know; MzActiveX (28), necessarily platonic presently; Devilicious330 (36), one of my favorite Las Vegas models/entertainers; and Tulsa_Moon (44), the bootycall queen.
Then there are my comrades and friends from the adult entertainment industry with whom I have shared space, counsel and intellectual intercourse via L.A. Erotica and at other venues on the Net: Ty_Strokes (owner of BlackAmateurFreaks), LadyE4Lyfe and TreChamborg (owners of 2GyrlzandaCam), and Luxuriouslady30, the aggressive dick sucker for life, whose three web sites I manage.
I thank Rude, also, for providing the nexus where I met some extraordinary people - in no particular order (after all, it's about people with me):
* Skillz and KN-Cole, the hottest couple on Rude to me (based solely on their vid, Forever Mine - it sizzles);
* DenaliTrunks, more than just a funny, fat man (FIB or Fat Is Back, as he pronounces proudly), he's a serious thinker whose shows have broached significant topics;
* Creamy_Kupcakes, the prettiest, flyest lady Rude has to offer (and my man-sicle maven because I'll never look at a popsicle the same way again);
* YourDreamCumTrue, the ultimate business woman and entrepreneur, I was glued to her Sunday afternoon tech shows;
* MayaLicious (and DK), the sexy, technically savvy couple whose tech shows I try to not miss;
* SteelEyes, THE artist in residence here on Rude and one of only two Rude acquaintances with whom I converse outside of Rude individually;
* Bestchoc, my OG brother and competent MsBambie moderator whose Quiet Storm shows are the best of the genre on Rude.
* And my girl DaSugaHoneyIceT, the sweetest thing this side of vanilla.
I owe my gratitude to the Queen of Perville and the supreme sensualist (she's way beyond sex), TaQuilla, whom I count as my one personal friendship developed on Rude.
Finally, of course, is my main mami, MsBambie, with whom I share life and from whom I learn about hip hop culture and Rude colloquialisms. An exhibitionist to the core, Rude brought joy to MsBambie and, thus, to me.
I appreciate that Rude accepted my celebrity status in conferring the Confirmed Celebrity banner to me. RudeKenny has my thanks for supporting me in my quest for the Producer's blue jacket. Thanks a heap, Kenny.
And thank you, Rude.
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August 29, 2009 (Report It)
Awwwww Califffff! You know you're the sweetest in this here land we call Rude! Cooler than the other side of the pillow, you are =]! Love you and Bambie much hun *kisses, licks and hugs* |
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January 12, 2009 (Report It)
yes she was dreaming !!! Thanks for sharing Calif |
yourd... |
December 21, 2008 (Report It)
awww Calif! Sweetie, that was so nice that you made mention of me. *ahem* I'd like to thank the academy for presenting me with this Oscar. Oh, wait, I was dreaming *sighs* lol! *kisses* Calif! |
SKILLZ |
December 21, 2008 (Report It)
You know i had to pay my respect |
TaQuilla |
December 18, 2008 (Report It)
Isn't it lovely to pay thanks to our libidos! haha Brilliantly written and thoroughly enjoyed. |
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Fierce!
4:48AM on December 10, 2008
 FIERCE!
© 2008 Alley Cat Media
We are not looking but we are always on the lookout.
When I first encountered Ms Bambie, I was with two of my several girlfriends. Ms Booty, my 44-yr old swinger partner had been running with me for nearly a year; 19 yr old Dimplez had been with me for about eighteen months. Both ladies were sexy, thick, and bisexual and that fit right into my program. They became lovers, girlfriends to each other and, simultaneously, girlfriends to me. We formed a triad.
After Ms Bambie entered the picture, Ms Booty was the first to fall. We laid Ms Booty off a few days following a small swinger party composed of bi females and their men that I organized in Moreno Valley, Calif. (That story is recounted in my blog, Swingin Done Right, at www.Rude.com/CalifStyle/blog.) Dimplez fell a few months later (see Ms Bambie and Dimplez: Birthday Booty, at www.Rude.com/MsBambie/blog).
Each wanted to be number one. Unfortunately, only the baddest can be number one and the baddest is, without a doubt, Ms Bambie.
Our baby, Fierce: 44FFF-29-46
Since then, we entertained several candidates but interviewed few. Most were flakes, wannabees and pretenders. Many were simply bi-curious, bi-situational, or they had another agenda.
We went back to the future and discussed a triad with one of my recent ex-girlfriends, Rudes SugarTyTee. SugarTyTee is in a pre-med program that consumes all of her time so, though we chat regularly, a more intimate relationship was off the table.
Then, out of the blue, she called.
My girl Fierce was 18 when we met four years ago at a restaurant in Santa Monica, Calif. I remember her as focused, ambitious and entrepreneurial. Fierce was studying make-up and massage therapy, juggling the course requirements with other classes at a local college. She knew what she wanted and where she was headed. I have met no women of her age who had their heads put on as straight; frankly, I have met few women of any age so situated. Fierce impressed me immediately.
Fierce read recently on one of my social networking sites that I was in a relationship; she wanted to know more about it. Fierce checked in on me periodically, hooking up with me from time to time for booty calls as it suited her. The girl is a complete independent.
Fierce, a bi, thick, sexy, freaky swinger, said she could be interested in Ms Bambie based solely on Ms Bambies photograph. Fierce wanted to meet her. YES!
We missed dates on Monday and Tuesday nights owing to Fierces demanding class schedule (shes studying web design and photo editing).
22 year-old Fierce at a photo shoot in her Hollywood studio
Wednesday night, as Ms Bambie and I lie in bed discussing events of the day, Fierce rang me. She wanted to know if I was in town, at home, awake. Yes to all three. She wanted to come to us; Ms Bambie nodded her assent and it was on.
Fierce didnt mention that she was already en route to us even as she chatted with me on the phone (she had her mind made up, evidently). Thirty minutes later, Fierce was ringing the doorbell.
She was still gorgeous. Fierces smile reached for my mouth and forced a toothy grin from me; she embraced me warmly and kissed me passionately. Fierce pressed her mound into my groin and grinded slowly, deeply, Old School effectively. My stiffness rose to the demand, saying, Lets get the party started.
Fierce followed me up the stairs to the master bedroom and Ms Bambie bounded from our bed to intercept us at the landing. They met, smiled, hugged, and exchanged pleasantries. Fierce undressed quickly and headed for the shower.
The 44-FFFs invaded the shower commandingly, Fierces 46-inch posterior span closing the shower door as she entered. The shower water slid across Fierces skin seductively, bouncing the radiance of her butterscotch flesh tone onto the glass and tile enclosure. Fierces buttocks flexed and dimpled as she crossed the threshold, her musculature straining against her silky, smooth skin.
None of this beauty was lost on Ms Bambie who stole a long, languid peek from around the corner. Ms Bambie achieved an ocular erection and she moistened her nipples with a flick of her tongue.
Fierce emerged from the shower with her golden nephelosphere glowing. Her body was ringed with a moist envelope that made her steamy hot and ultimately delectable to Ms Bambies hungry loins. Ms Bambie pursed her vulva in anticipation.
When I made it into the bedroom, I stepped into the voracious, libidinous longings of Ms Bambie and Fierce. Each had taken one side of the bed leaving a body-sized space between them, presumably for me. I attempted to snuggle in behind Ms Bambie, forcing them to face each other. Fierce demanded that I get between them. Dang. Life is harsh.
With my tactical position compromised, Fierce initiated the assault by latching onto my nipple; she slathered her tongue across my chests expanse, forcing my nipple absolutely perpendicular to my supine form. Blood rushed from my brain south in preparation for extended duty as Fierce reached with her hand to engage my surprised and still-flaccid penis. She stroked firmly yet gently, tickling the penile corona with flat-fingered passes. My mast ballooned into service. Ms Bambies eyes widened and her trademark, 40-teeth smile betrayed her.
Ms Bambie joined the endeavor, licking my spare nipple into surrender. My senses danced a spirited Lindy Hop to Duke Ellingtons The A-Train and I grasped mightily at my resolve. It was a nipple-whipping for which to die just call me Calif-cadaver because Im first in line.
Fierces lips ambled down to my pubis and connected with the first thing swingingwhich happened to be my man-sicle (thanks to Rudes XXL for that moniker). Fierce opened wide and sucked me into her mouth; my manhood found its youth again. She tonsil-tagged my shaft without warning and I skeeted into her stomach. Fierce did not pause, pummeling my missile with her tongue and thrusting my torpedo vigorously into her oral cavity.
Ms Bambie preparing to dine at Fierce's Y
Ms Bambie wrapped her tongue around Fierces lips (the ones on her face, you pervs), kissing her as Fierce planted those special kisses on me (well, on that special part of me, actually). This gave way to them kissing each other intermittently and sharing my man-meat; thrills galore, people. Ms Bambie took her turn at occupying my pipe when Fierce reached up to kiss my mouth. We tongued deeply, wrestling away any residue from her southern exposure. Meanwhile, Ms Bambie pleasured my glans with a loving lip-lashing; again, I skeeted.
I was taking flight when both ladies pulled up and directed me to get behind one of them. It was time clearly for them to attend more to each other. Cool.
Ms Bambie helped me up as I peeled myself from the raging, red sheets and Fierce lied on her back atop them. Ms Bambie wasted no time in prostrating herself into Fierces Y. I knew what time it was (sic): it was pearl polishing time.
Cupping my head on the edge of the custom-made, 32 inner-coiled mattress, I rested on my upper back with my face inserted in Ms Bambies love box. My tongue found its way unerringly into Ms Bambies cum canal, then rowed upstream a tad to a waiting and pleasantly situated clitoris. The clit smiled devilishly at me on my approach. I winked in return. We became great friends in the short term.
The contrast between Ms Bambies rich chocolate and Fierces butterscotch was alluring. The play of hues, one on the other, was at once complim
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XTC_W... |
December 15, 2008 (Report It)
hott stuff |
BESTCHOC |
December 15, 2008 (Report It)
lawd,, 2 day and 2 morrow 2,,, and Fierce and Bambie,, the ass and titties.. lawd,, good stuff my og brutha.. |
CREAM... |
December 14, 2008 (Report It)
I can always count on u to make me feel like i'm right there! How i so wish it was me! |
yourd... |
December 13, 2008 (Report It)
Merciful Minerva you two!! That was absolutely amazing!!! |
TaQuilla |
December 10, 2008 (Report It)
I thik I need a smoke after that. Whew! |
Calif... |
December 10, 2008 (Report It)
I'll be upstairs in a minute, lovergirl, with more of that night for you. |
MsBambie |
December 10, 2008 (Report It)
I just experienced that night all over again. Smooches from MsBambie |
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Three Lessons Learned
1:03PM on November 06, 2008
Dateline: Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Three Things
Current mood: awake
Category: Romance and Relationships
I learned three important things on yesterday. I learned that you should not trust a person who does not trust him/herself.
I learned that it is when we have the least amount of time to do things that we determine all the things we want - and wanted - to do.
I learned that love is not enough.
I may expand on these later - if I have more time.
CalifStyle
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anton... |
November 11, 2008 (Report It)
Would like to see the rest of this when u finish |
MsBambie |
November 08, 2008 (Report It)
Well I can't wait for you to expand on them. Or have you been reminded of them? Anyhow I'll be waiting. Don't roll yo eyes at me! |
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Interpersonal relationships on Rude
7:52PM on October 26, 2008
(CalifStyle and Ms Bambie on a flight from Atlanta recently where they attended an art exhibit)
Recent events have brought the subject of internet-based relationships of the Rude sort to my mind. I asked one of my favorite bloggers, TaQuilla at www.Rude.com/TaQuilla, to address the subject from her perspective and experience.
I found this post among Rude's SaxxxandRobert's blogs and asked if I could borrow it. I ran across the text on the internet, subsequently (if you want the URL, send a request via Rude mail to me).
RELATIONSHIPS
Relationships are social associations, connections, or affiliations between two or more people. They vary in differing levels of intimacy and sharing, implying the discovery or establishment of common ground, and may be centered around something(s) shared in common. The study of relationships is of concern to sociology, psychology and anthropology.
Stages of formation
1) Contact:
a) Perceptual - notice how a person looks at the other and their body language.
b) Interactional cues - nodding, maintaining eye contact, etc.
c) Invitational - encouraging the relationship (e.g. asking if they want to meet up later for coffee)
d) Avoidance strategies - if one person discloses and the other does not, minimal response, lack of eye contact, etc.
2) Involvement
a) Feelers - hints or questions (ex. asking about family)
b) Intensifying strategies - further the relationship (ex. meeting old friend, bringing the other to meet family, becoming more affectionate, etc.)
c) Public - seen in public together often (ex. if in a romantic relationship, may be holding hands)
3) Intimacy - very close, may have exchanged some sort of personal belonging or something that represents further commitment. (ex. may be a promise ring in a romantic relationship or a friendship necklace symbolizing two people are best friends)
4) Deterioration - things start to fall apart. In a romantic relationship, typically after approximately six months, people are out of what is sometimes referred to as the "honeymoon stage", NRE, or limerence and start to notice flaws. The way this is addressed determines the fate of the relationship.
Types of interpersonal relationships
Kinship relationships, including family relationships, being related to someone else by blood (consanguinity), e.g. fatherhood, motherhood; or through marriage (affinity), e.g. father-in-law, mother-in-law, uncle by marriage, aunt by marriage.
Formalized intimate relationships or long term relationships through law and public ceremony, e.g. marriage and civil union.
Non-formalized intimate relationships or long term relationships such as loving relationships or romantic relationships with or without living together; the other person is often called lover, boyfriend or girlfriend (not to be confused with just a male or female friend), or significant other. If the partners live together, the relationship may be similar to marriage, and the other person may be called husband or wife. In Scottish law they are so regarded by common law after a time. Long term relationships in other countries are often erroneously called common law marriages, although they have no special status in law. Mistress is a somewhat old fashioned term for a female lover of a man who is married to another woman, or of an unmarried man. She may even be an official mistress (in French ma�tresse en titre); an example is Madame de Pompadour.
Soulmates, individuals who are intimately drawn to one another through a favorable meeting of the minds and who find mutual acceptance and understanding with one another. Soulmates may feel themselves bonded together for a lifetime; and, hence, they may be sexual partners but not necessarily.
Casual relationships, relationships extending beyond one night stands that exclusively consist of sexual behavior, the participants of which may be known as friends with benefits when limited to considering sexual intercourse or sexual partners in a wider sense.
Platonic love is an affectionate relationship into which the sexual element does not enter, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise.
Friendship, which consists of mutual love, trust, respect, and unconditional acceptance, and usually implies the discovery or establishment of common ground between the individuals involved; see also internet friendship and pen pal.
Brotherhood and sisterhood, individuals united in a common cause or having a common interest, which may involve formal membership in a club, organization, association, society, lodge, fraternity or sorority. This type of interpersonal relationship also includes the comradeship of fellow soldiers in peace or war.
Partners or coworkers in a profession, business, or a common workplace.
Participation in a community, for example, a community of interest or practice.
Association, simply being introduced to someone or knowing who they are by interaction.
Factors
The discovery or establishment of common ground between individuals is a fundamental component for enduring interpersonal relationships. Loss of common ground, which may happen over time, may tend to end interpersonal relationships.
For each relationship type, essential skills are needed, and without these skills more advanced relationships are not possible. Systemic coaching advocates a hierarchy of relationships, from friendship to global order. Expertise in each relationship type (in this hierarchy) requires the skills of all previous relationship types. (For example, partnership requires friendship and teamwork skills).
Interpersonal relationships through consanguinity and affinity can persist despite the absence of love, affection, or common ground. When these relationships are in prohibited degrees, sexual intimacy in them would be the taboo of incest.
Marriage and civil union are relationships reinforced and regularized by their legal sanction to be "respectable" building blocks of society. In the United States the de-criminalization of homosexual sexual relations in the landmark Supreme Court decision, Lawrence v. Texas (2003) facilitated the "mainstreaming" of gay long term relationships, and broached the possibility of the legalization of same-sex marriages in that country.
In intimate relationships there is often, but not always, an implicit or explicit agreement that the partners will not have sex with someone else - monogamy. The extent to which physical intimacy with other people is accepted may vary. For example, a husband may be more receptive to his wife being physically affectionate with her female friend if she has one, other than with her male friend (see also jealousy).
In friendship there is some transitivity: one may become a friend of an existing friend's friend. However, if two people have a sexual relationship with the same person, they may be competitors rather than friends. Accordingly, sexual behavior with the sexual partner of a friend may damage the friendship. See love triangle.
Sexual relations between two friends may alter that relationship by either "taking it to the next level" or severing it. Sexual partners may also be friends: the sexual relationship may either enhance or depreciate the friendship.
The rise of popular psychology has led to an explosion of concern about one's interpersonal relationships (often simply called: "relationships"). Intimate relationships receive particular attention in this context, but Sociology recognizes many other interpersonal links of greater or less duration and/or significance.
Relationships are not necessarily healthy. Unhealthy examples include abusive relationships and codependence.
Sociologists recognize a hierarchy of forms of activity and interpersonal relations, which divides them into: behavior, action, social behavior, social action, social contact, social interaction and finally social relation.
Theories
Social psychology has several approaches to the subject of interpersonal relationships, among them closure and also trust, as trust between parties can be mutual. This may lead to enduring relationships.
Social exchange theory interprets relationships in terms of exchanged benefits. The way people feel about relationships will be influenced by the rewards of the relationship, as well as rewards they may potentially receive in alternate relationships.
Systemic coaching analyzes relationships as expressions of our human need to love and be loved. Relationships can be confused by transferences, entanglements and substitution. Systemic coaching offers solutions for many relationship difficulties.
Equity theory is based on criticism of social exchange theory. Proponents argue that people care more than just maximizing rewards, they also want fairness and equity in their relationships.
Relational dialectics is based on the idea that a relationship is not a static entity. Instead, a relationship is a continuing process, always changing. There is constant tension as three main issues are negotiated: autonomy vs. connection, novelty vs. predictability, and openness vs. closedness.
Attachment styles are a completely different way of analyzing relationships. Proponents of this view argue that attachment styles developed in childhood continue to be influential throughout adulthood, influencing the roles people take on in relationships.
Socionics and some other theories of psychological compatibility consider interpersonal relationships as at least partly dependent on psychological types of partners.
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Peter... |
December 02, 2008 (Report It)
Know the enemy and know thyself and fight a hundred battles with no danger of defeat. - Sun Wu-tzu, Art of War |
anton... |
October 31, 2008 (Report It)
Good point and i believe people need to find out were they stand with others |
TaQuilla |
October 28, 2008 (Report It)
Excellent points! I'll blog tomorrow regarding my insight. |
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Five Points - author unknown
3:35AM on September 27, 2008
#1. When people admonish you to "be more original," what they really mean is "be more like me." When people admonish you to "be a free thinker," they really mean "try to think more like me."
#2. Everyone knows you can't turn a ho into a housewife…but turning a housewife into a ho ain't no picnic either.
#3a. Always keep this in mind when trying to win someone's love or respect: people care more about how you treat yourself than how you treat them. If you treat someone better than you treat yourself, especially if you help them at great expense to yourself emotionally, financially or psychologically, they will actually end up loving and respecting you less.
#3b. If you treat someone better than they think they deserve to be treated, they will punish you for it. You may think treating someone better than they think they deserve to be treated will raise their self-esteem and make them see themselves in the same great way you see them. This is not the case. Most of the time, they end up losing respect for you for seeing such great things in them that they are unable to see in themselves, and they label you as weak, foolish, naive or in possession of poor judgment and will try to punish you for it. Oftentimes they are so sure they'll disappoint you eventually and prove unworthy of the faith you placed in them that they self-sabotage things (consciously or unconsciously) sooner rather than later just to get the "inevitable" disappointment over with. That is why so many relationships where a girl tries to redeem a hopeless bad boy with her love or a guy tries to play Captain Save-a-Ho with some hard luck case girl usually ends up with the charity case dragging down the rescuer rather than the rescuer redeeming the charity case. This human nature tendency is perfectly illustrated in the famous Groucho Marx quote "Please accept my resignation. I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."
#4. People see weakness in a woman and their natural instinct is to protect from harm and nurture it until it's strong. People see weakness in a man and feel revolting disgust and their natural instinct is to crush it out of existence and get it out of their sight as soon as possible. (This is a paraphrase of a quote by Norah Vincent, author of Self-Made Man: One Woman's Year Disguised as a Man). Feminism has been teaching women for decades that it is acceptable for them to express themselves emotionally and sexually in the same ways men traditionally have. This has lead men to gradually accept that the reverse is also true for them, that it's now acceptable for them to express themselves emotionally and sexually in the same ways women have. And when they do it the results are disastrous. They bare their souls to their girlfriends and wives and cry regularly in front of them, thinking they're bonding. They talk about their feelings nonstop. They think of any attempt at being macho as an outdated and unenlightened throwback concept and get totally comfortable with showing weakness, emotional wishy-washiness and sensitivity publicly. And instead of being rewarded as enlightened and progressive by the new age modern women they love and the peers they want to impress, it blows up in their face. Despite how our culture changes and celebrates gender equality, our biology hard-wires us to expect strength and leadership from men yet excuses the lack of these traits in women. Maybe it's an unfair double standard, maybe it's not, but it's not going anywhere anytime soon, so you better accept it and adapt. People, and especially women, are ruthless about their disgust at weakness and lack of leadership in men.
#5. Brutal self-awareness can go a long way toward overcoming a surprising amount of personal shortcomings. Consider the following generic statement: He is [x], but he knows that he is [x], and that almost makes him [not-x]. Let's see some specific illustrations. John is stupid, but John knows that he is stupid, and that almost makes him smart. Jill is a cliche, but Jill knows she is a cliche' and that almost makes her unique. The substitution works with an astounding array of shortcomings.
Brutal self-awareness on its own is not enough to fix a shortcoming; decisive and directed action must be taken, but it goes a long way to fixing it and is a major first step most of us never achieve.
Do you agree?
CalifStyle (note: I did not author the essay above but found it intriguing so I share it with you.)
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October 06, 2008 (Report It)
my apologies for the mispellings.... but I'm sure you get the jest of the comment. |
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October 06, 2008 (Report It)
whether or not you wrote it... the fact that you sought it out makes you wise. You yourself have beeen an author in your own right. to understand such knowledge and to bring it forth to the masses makes you somewhat of a messenger... like Christ. its good to have knowledge...but from knowledge to wisdom is a different story. this is a lesson welll learned. One I myself learned a long time ago. But what to do with the lesson you yourself sre trying to teach. thats what we wait to see. sincerly... michael. |
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