Dominant, submissive, and Fiery
11:55PM on July 25, 2009
I am a switch. Sexually, I have significant leanings towards dominant. I've tried being submissive a few times in cam shows and found the experiences felt incredibly empty unless I submit to someone who I've developed a bond with beforehand. As a result, the list of people I would allow myself to submit to can be counted on a single hand of a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle.
I love the feeling of control you get from being a dominant. It's hard to describe the rush I get from taking charge of a situation. Another aspect that turns me on about it is the trust that a submissive puts in the hands of a dominant. Trust that the dominant has their best interests at heart. Trust that the dominant will respect their limits and never intentionally give them more than they can handle from both the psychological and physical level. Perhaps that's one of the reasons I have trouble with being submissive. I don't trust easily. Because of my trouble with giving my trust, I find myself being careful not to abuse the trust of others as well.
I'm not always in the mood for a submissive even in shows where I'd rather not be submissive myself. Sometimes I get so turned on by a woman calling me a mother fucker and shouting for me to 'fuck her harder' as I swear back at her in response and telling her to 'take my mother fuckin dick' as I talk about grabbing her hair as we go back and forth with mutual sexual aggressiveness. As it seems that it's not quite submissive yet not quite dominant either, I'd like to call this type of woman fiery. Hmmm could this type of play be called mutual humiliation? I dunno.
Then again, I could be wrong about things. My actual experience with these things isn't vast and I admit that my knowledge has the possibility of being flawed.
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