TrinitySaij's Blog! -How 2 Contact a Lady!
8:50AM on March 17, 2008
She said we could copy it, and Damn it, I am! It's important! Guys, Please read!
How to Properly RudeMail a Lady... show some class!
12:58AM on March 17, 2008
from TrinitySaij
Ok.. after many retarded rude mails day after day after day... Let me educate you on how to properly rudemail a lady here on Rude... I can't tell you how many "holla at ya boi" emails I get or "nice pussy wanna fuk" or "gimmie yo numba messages".. and it aint lookin good for you guys... Do you know what I do? I delete them... and so does the rest of us.
Here is some advice on how us ladies like our messages.. and how you can improve your return ratio.
The top 5 things that drive us ladies away:
#1 I hate all caps.. it is considered yelling in text speak and pretty annoying because it is harder to read.
#2 cha, boi, lil, kno, wat -all hard to read.. try PROPER spelling (use spell check) and not slang speak..
#3 don't call me names... I am not your bitch, hoe, slut, C***, whore or anything else.... and stop w/ the N* Word!!
#4 a little romance or idk a Hi would do great. We like a bit of manners and teasing first.. make me want to rude mail you to find out about you and what you have to offer me.. Most girls are NOT here to date, but some are.. and the ones that do want to have some fun will be put off by the guys trying to be a "player" Lets grow up and show some class at least for the first email.
#5 - I'm adding this - Please don't ask me to chat with you on IM or send me your email address so I can send you my vids or pix for free. I think I post enough free content on here. And DO NOT ask me to call you on my own time, why would I do that?! I work as a phone sex operator, it's one of my jobs - how would you like to be asked to work for free? I think not!
#6 I'm adding another one - take time to check out a lady's page before mailing her, especially if you have limited access to mail! Click on the link that says 'Lots more on____' and you're apt to save yourself some time! Also, check her Blog - Lots of ladies keep their show schedule here and you can get to know a lady and let her get to know you by attending her shows!
Here is an example of a proper FIRST rude mail:
Hi sexy!
How are you doing hun? I did (insert what you did today or if you have plans to do cool things) Anyways, I just went to your profile and I have to say your (insert pics,vids, or something you liked on the profile) are so beautiful! I just love looking into your eyes and seeing your mischievious side! (ya know.. find something you liked and tell the lady why you liked it) I also checked out your vids! WOW! You really know how to work it! (Again.. compliments and letting her know what works.. so that she can do more vids like it) I was thinking about creating a (insert blog, story, poll, quiz, pictures gallery or new video) just for you, but I wanted to get your opinion... should it be a (insert examples here)! (We love it when people do special things for us!! You get major brownie points and who knows.. maybe something free will be given to you in return)
I look forward to hearing from you and seeing what naughty fun we can get into together! I am imagining lots of kinky fun things.. What turns you on? My favorite thing is to (insert what turns you on and be descriptive)! Would that be something that gets you going? I would love to find out more kinky things about you! I know you are probably busy, but if you want I would love to chat with you to get to know you better!
Eager to hear from you,
(Your name or username)
So Lets Recap:
#1 Be polite, no slang, no caps
#2 be descriptive but not vulgar (at least for the first message.. get to KNOW THE LADY!!)
#3 look at her profile and let her know what your favs are and why
#4 try to get her involved.. most of the ladies on here will be busy, but I know a lot of us love to get special things from our fans
#5 Remember to say HI!!!!!!
Good luck and I know this will help you get more responses!!! And ladies.. lets pass this on to all our guy friends to let them know how we want to be treated! Feel free to copy this to your own blog (you can add your own pet peeves and advice too)!!!
I do want to add that yes.. lots of us love to be talked to very dirty and love to hear all about your kinks.. but I at least want a hi first.. i mean come on.. get to know me a bit first!
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