Happiness & Friends
1:00PM on August 03, 2008
Warning -- this is gonna be a bit of a rant. I don't completely understand how some people think. When one of my friends finds happiness, whether in a soul mate, a job, a new car, whatever...I am happy for them. I am not upset with them, I am happy when my friends are happy. But it appears that not everyone thinks like me.....go figure. As most of you know, I have found happiness & hopefully my soul mate. And there are a few people that I would consider my friends that really make me think that they are upset with me for finding this happiness. Either they don't talk to me, or they are very cold, or they make snide comments whenever I bring up his name. I know some friends are just asking me to be cautious and not rush, and I appreciate their concern, but then there are others that I feel like are just really uspet with me over the whole thing. I am not sure if it is because they don't want me to be happy, or that they want me to stay single forever, so I can devote my life being their friend only, or if they are jealous.......I just don't get it.
All I am asking is to be happy for me, because I AM happy. I would be happy for you if I knew you were honestly happy! The man that has made me so happy has done nothing wrong to anyone, and especially not to me. If nothing else he has brought a light back into my life that I thought I had lost forever. Please don't disrespect me or our privacy by being upset or angry. Unfortunately it will only push me away from you and closer to my love!
OK - I think I am done, I will leave my soapbox in case someone else needs it. Thanks for listening and if anyone can shed some light on why people act this way I would love to know it!
xxoo
Kisses & Hugs
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